I don't know what percentage of families have the sort of relationship that necessitates this lie, but it is by no means universal. |
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I apologize if this offense some people. This is something that has been on my mind for a while, and I think it would be good to get some other opinions on this. |
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I don't know what percentage of families have the sort of relationship that necessitates this lie, but it is by no means universal. |
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Indeed. I can see why parents being shy about the topic would lead to the need to prevent it from ever happening. The trust thing likewise makes sense. |
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It's completely unnecessary to lie to your parents no matter what. They will love you even if you break every rule they have. I faced being kicked out of the house and lying to my parents and I chose to lie for a long time because of the strict rules they set but I realized they were each trying to keep order in their own way and though they both absolutely sucked at parenting and were even worse at being married I could be anything I wanted and I'd still have their support. I mean in my case I didn't lose my virginity until I had already moved out but I was definitely doing a lot of drugs in high school and if my Dad knew he would have beat my ass. Doesn't sound very loving, I know, and that's kind of a dilema. How can a child trust his/her parents when they'll judge his/her every action and make them feel inadequate? |
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Um... I don't think anyone goes to their parents to tell them they lost their virginity, unless there's a pregnancy involved. |
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It all depends on the parents and how they were raised/how they perceive sexual activity: In terms of the siblings age and sex. Many parents I know are very much apathetic when it comes to their children's sex life, though cautious because they hope they make the right decision when doing so. There is almost infinite possibilities for the reactions of either Father to Son, Mother to Son, Mother to Daughter, Father to Daughter and combinations of both. |
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People tend to do things they're told not to do, I suppose. I guess teens also sex it up as an act of rebellion, since it's an easy (and fun) way to flip the proverbial bird up to their parents. It also might be to get attention from their less-than-caring parents... to evoke some sort of emotion, even if it's worry. Adolescence is also the time where people develop their independence, so the sex might just be an attempt to fit into the adult world. |
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