Originally Posted by juroara
I can understand where you are coming from
I grew up with the belief that..people have to work. now, theres nothing wrong with work. work is good.
the problem is, in our modern society - work translates to a job. a modern job.
and for most of us, that job is far removed from anything thats actually important and meaningful to us. it neither stimulates our minds intellectually or emotionally. and neither is the job itself relatively important. its just an end to a means (money) and the job itself is artificial. its not like we care so much about the job, for most of us, its just the paycheck we want. But real work, its not about the paycheck. Its about the rewards OF the work.
and I realized, if this is my ONLY life as human - what a waste of a life to lose, what 40 hours a week till retirement to a JOB I dont GIVE A DAMN about?
Ive tried for over a year to think of any job that I can love. And the only jobs that I can love - don't pay enough to get me out of my parents house, sadly. Half of them were volunteer work. So, Im at this place in my life where I realize what I want more than anything is liberty from the MEANINGLESS and ARTIFICIAL job scene. It's not money thats important to me, I just want enough to afford my own place, its TIME. Time is important to me. I want every MOMENT to be in my hands and not lost to a meaningless activity.
And I think, maybe thats why you have this desire to get back to nature. All the jobs that I found the most meaningful - were with animals or nature. Working with other living things, or even other people, is always meaningful. It's real. And its a real work where you can reap the reward even before you receive a paycheck.
I think most americans are living a lifestyle that makes them unhappy. And part of it is our ARTIFICIAL ECONOMY. I dont think most americans realize how artificial everything has become.
For example....the market place. The market place is GREAT. They offer a place for local farmers to sell natural organic produce, they offer a place for artisans to sell their one of kind goods, they offer the best restaurants and candy shops - and they create the feeling a community. They create the feeling of a community because they are found at the center of a community.
The market place is magical and special. And why it was so special, is because no one 'plans' it. It just grew in the center of a community as eager entrepreneurs wanted to sell their goods. Its the dream of a small business owner.
We don't really have market places in suburbia America. What we have are artificial market places. The first difference is its not in the center of a community. You have to DRIVE out of your community, your little suburbia, to get to a big chain of stores.
So there is no feeling of community.
Without the support of a community, small businesses don't thrive. Big corporations take over. WALMART. The first noticeable change, the food. It's no longer the food produced by your local farmers. Mass produced and usually lower quality food all around. The shittier the food, the shittier you feel. The next noticeable change, are the buildings themselves. In the true market place - usually a building doesn't exist until the small business owner builds it. So the building is UNIQUE and AUTHENTIC.
Not in the fake market place. In the fake market place usually what happens is, an artificial market (a strip mall) is mass produced. And all the buildings have the same 'fake' stylization. The mass produced buildings are then rented out. Our modernized market place is all about IMITATING and creating a CHEAPER version. For example, PIZZA HUT, is imitating a type of building. But the end result is a caricature of the real thing. And because you can expect all Pizza Huts to look like other pizza huts - it detracts from the feeling of community. Communities should feel unique from each other. How can they, if everything feels the same??
The other big difference is, how the area around is constructed.
The market place is usually thriving because of small businesses. Small businesses help each other out. The more small businesses in an area, the better. What does this mean? The market place has a nice outdoors atmosphere to it. They design it so you want to walk around. Or you want to sit and hang out for hours. Its good for business!! And fun for you.
We don't have that feeling in the fake market place. In the fake market place they don't give a damn about creating a community feeling. What they care about is advertising. So a lot of times the stores will face the busiest street. If its a highway, even better. Its about easy and quick access from a car, not hanging around.
No place to hang around..no community.
Over all, this kind of modern market place makes people less satisfied than a REAL market place. Which is why so many americans want to travel to other countries, to see their market places - the heart of the city. And the worst part is, not only has this fake market place robbed you of a real authentic community - but more than likely you've had to slave for it at some point in your life.
The two common areas we can still find a real market place, is the center of a city - which is why downtowns do feel 'unique' from each other, or outside the city limits. But suburbia has become the backbone of america. And its boring itself insane.
Now you said you want to live a different lifestyle. DO IT. This is YOUR LIFE. And there are sooooooo many lifestyles a human can live.
But if you can't find that special community, don't forget. . .when you want change in the world, you first need to BE that change. You need to be that lifestyle even if you have no one else to share it with. Grow vegetables, even if you live in an apartment! Live how you want to live now, where ever you are.
What a wonderfull way with words you have juroara. You make everything crystal clear.
We are very similair minded. Indeed our market-based society is a mockery of a Real community, but it's anything BUT a community. It's an anti-community. We are very similairminded on these issues. I noticed in another topic earlier.
And yes I am VERY serious about starting such a community. I have no trouble finding people who feel the same way, they are the majority of my friends and mates. I'm having trouble, however, finding people who are as serious as I am and as prepared to leave this society, to which we're all so familiar, behind. I find that most of them are too addicted to this insult to their intelligence of a "culture". And to start such a community I need....well others. The whole point of a community is Togetherness, but I have some serious candidates that are close to leaving this phoney (lack of a) culture behind.
@ Dajo;
No I prefer to move down south. Optimal weather for the soul and for crops to grow. I suck in foggy, clouded, rainy, cold wintertime in holland. I die every winter again. And so do fruittrees, tomatos, herbs, rice..etc Everything dies here in the winter. And the atmosphere this country breathes is spiritual death, monotony, dishonousty and selfishness. And most of all: Closedmindedness.
I like it more where the sun is bright and omnipresent, the landscape has more character and the people have more temper.
@ Bosco:
I'm sure that people in ancient times had the same problem as we have now. And that also at those times there were people who chose to live in communities away from these problems.
This problematic "civilisation" of ours seems to have lasted about 7000 years. 7000 years of nothing essential changing, only superficial changes.
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