Originally Posted by moSh
1. This is my main question really: how do I progress? As it stands, I try and meditate as often as I can, for up to 24 minutes, though it's rarely regular. The only 'style' of meditation is the concentrating on the breathing, which I love, but I get the feeling I could be doing a lot more. I've looked into the ideologies of Buddhism a fair bit and agree with them, but I've never tried proper contemplation or anything.
Find yourself a local Sangha, if possible. Sangha will allow you to maintain a basic meditation routine, and provide a lot of instruction as well as a support group. The reason AA and NA are successful at getting people to quit their addictions is the same reason people are more successful at meditation and mindfulness when they join a Sangha. A support group not only allows you to learn more but you also maintain a network of like-minded people giving you the social pressure to commit to the practice. I would even call Meditation the opposite of Addiction, because it's time you take to stop running and chasing. People regard meditation as one specific thing but it can be applied to every inch of life. I use the word mindfulness regarding practices other than meditation where you remain focused, aware and present but as you practice you'll realize the two words are synonymous.
Buddhism has three Refuges, which are to say facets you can continue going back to to help you maintain the practice. These are called Sangha, Dharma and Buddha. Sangha refers to your group, Dharma to your lessons and Buddha to your teachers. You will learn to define each of these refuges on your own terms later and there's no reason to get stuck in the definitions I've provided, they are incomplete.
2. Leading on from the first question, is it necessary for me to find a teacher? If so, at which 'stage' of my progress should I consider this? Also, how do I find one living in South West London?!
Nothing is necessary, but why not give yourself the best possible foundation you can? It's important to find someone who knows what's they're talking about, so be skeptical but when you find a good teacher remain teachable. If you think you are already good enough at meditation, you are no longer teachable. When you are excited to learn more about the practice, then you are truly teachable. Asking if it's necessary to have a teacher reveals some lack in teachability. Peace is not an obligation, after all.
As far as difficulty in finding a teacher, I'd say start off by finding a Sangha. I guarantee you there's one around South West London. They are spreading like wildfire.
3. As I mentioned in the first, I agree with Buddhist ideas. However, there are some (such as reincarnation, energies, premonition, etc.) which fall under a more 'supernatural' area to me, and, being a man of science, I struggle to get my head round them. A part of me says 'you're a rational guy, how could you consider believing something like this?', while another says 'over 2500 years, Buddhists have gotten so much right in terms of spirituality, maybe this is right too?'. Can one consider themselves a Buddhist without believing in the more supernatural side? Or is there some middle-ground I'm missing?
The Buddha remained silent when he was asked questions about the afterlife and other mystical or metaphysical details. They have nothing to do with the Practice. These ideas predated The Buddha but became conjoined with the religion as it spread, the same way the spread of Christianity to the Americas resulted in Mother Mary taking a more prominent role than God because the Natives worshiped a Supreme Goddess and not a God. The core of Buddhism is an unconditional sense of peace and well-being through surrender and awareness. Language is by nature a lie so everything you are taught is at best, a signpost to truth. Teachings are never "true" in and of themselves. They can only refer to truth. Buddhists which attach themselves to "knowing" the "truth" are inhibiting their Practice. That is why the Buddha taught to believe nothing unless it proves beneficial to you.
4. Is there a way of meditating in public? I've been wondering for a while, while on a train or waiting for an extended period of time for something, whether it was common to meditate in such an environment. Does anyone hear try it? Or does it need to be more tranquil/private?
The goal is to spend 100% of your time in a meditative state, which is to say in total surrender and impartial awareness. Practice wherever and whenever possible. The environment outside your head is secondary to the environment inside your head. Distractions from the outside environment can help teach you how to deal with the distractions that come from your mind.
5. Weed. From the viewpoint of a Buddhist, does it cloud the mind or open it? Please say the latter!
As I said previously, addiction is the opposite of meditation. But Buddhism instructs the Middle Path. It is taught that Desire Causes Suffering, but this leads one to desire to give up desires, which is naturally a paradox. The Middle Path instructs one to give up as much desire as possible, and if that's not possible, then at least give up the desire to give up more desire than possible. Do whatever frees you from running and chasing. I faced my addiction to cigarettes by facing the impulse without reacting to it, which is basically what meditation is, surrender and impartial awareness.
There are no real rules, and there are no sins. Buddha isn't going to hate you for smoking some weed. And the weed itself is not the problem, but your attitude regarding weed may be.
That's all I can think of for now, but no doubt answers will open further questioning. Any help you guys can offer would be hugely appreciated!
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