Originally Posted by
patches
Personally, I accept that by allowing my self, my ego, to exist and become attached to things, I receive both pleasure and pain.
I buy a teddy bear. I become very attached to this teddy bear. It makes me incredibly happy, comforts me, and so on.
That teddy bear gets caught on something causing it to lose an arm. I feel sadness, pain, loss for that teddy bear.
That teddy bear burns in a house fire. I feel incredible sadness.
But I accept that the above is both the reward and price for being sentimental. Me being very sentimental means I can get happy at the littlest of things. I often laugh for 5-10 minutes at a small joke that makes me happy.
I don't understand much how the Buddhist concept of ego relates to the above. But for me, I would rather take both pleasure and pain rather than having neither. (though this all could belong in another thread).