Waxing only hurts for a second, Doug. I promise. :D
As far as what I want... I never really thought about it. Both men that I've been with were so vastly different but still so very, very, very attractive that it didn't matter to me either way.
If I had to choose, though, I would have to say that I prefer a little landing strip (aka "treasure trail") on my guy. I think it would kind of creep me out a little if a guy pulled his pants down and had more bush than I do...