You're lucky if there are no clashes
I'd say that it depends on what is talked about. Movies are created to produce the same feelings and opinions, no surprise that they cause no arguments. If you talk about your life and what you did and what you want, there's nothing to argue about, too, it's an exchange of descriptions. Clashes happen whenever you speak about some "topic", not sharing data about yourself or what you've seen, but on a particular topic.
What if the thinking is that your own knowledge is bullshit, and that of others is bullshit, too? Unless we're both specializing in a serious field like particle physics, the "knowledge" of both of us is a set of prejudiced opinions. We've never bothered to check them fully. Isn't it useless to debate about what is known to be subjective beforehand? And yet we do.
We have a complex mind, unlike animals. We should be able to stop an activity that is useless. We can bear the cold, can keep ourselves forcibly awake when we're falling down from tiredness, but can't keep ourselves from talking to others?
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