As for worrying about numbers of dreams or counting dreams I tend to agree with earlier answers that it's not really relevant to lucid dreaming.
However, I will also add that I believe that having frequent, vivid dreams, with excellent recall after waking up, is a precursor to having regular lucid dreams, or at least a sign that DILDs are on the close horizon -- again, at least for DILDs, where one becomes lucid from within a dream that begins non-lucidly. I of course have only my own DILD-focused practice and my own theories to back this up. Having frequent vivid dreams is also something that helped maintain my motivation in between the lucids. While I highly value my lucid experiences, I had probably somewhere around 10-x more ultra-vivid, "epic" non-lucids for each lucid dream I had, and way more "regular" non-lucid dreams (50x, probably).
For me, probably the best part of lucid dreaming practice, when I was particularly dedicated and really in the full swing of it, was having what felt like nights "full" of epic, vivid, immersive, long, detailed, (but mostly non-lucid), dreams. Just for the purpose of telling different dream sequences apart, I used what I call the theatrical classification of dreams: I would count as a dream, any "sequence of scenes with a particular set of actors, a particular plot, taking place at some set of locations, with remembered transitions between individual scenes." So any two dream scenarios that didn't share any of those common elements (actors, plot, location, remembered transition between scenes), I would count as different "dreams."
Some people consider "anything remembered within a particular sleep cycle [or since the last waking]" as one dream. Again, the precise definition doesn't really matter. I just wanted to set the stage for my next point.
At the height of my practice, I would reliably have 4-5 dreams (counted as above) per night, minimum. Less was very rare, and more was fairly often (8-10). Sometimes I would recall upwards of 4 dreams per waking for each of about 4 wakings in a night, leading to, well, lots of dreams recalled and recorded. I could count on one hand in a year the nights I had with no recalled dreams at all, usually at times of sickness or severe stress in waking life or a topsy-turvy sleep schedule (e.g., jet lag). At that time I was also recording at least summaries on a voice recorder on most wakings, and transcribing and filling in details from memory to typed format on the computer during the day. Yes it took a lot of time, but I'd say the results were worth it. I was highly motivated both to recall dreams and to experience lucid dreams.
I do not go to those lengths these days. I do try to keep a mental running list of keywords/summaries of all dreams I recall during the night through to the morning. I also don't have LDs much any more, but again I've fallen out of practice and have different waking life priorities for the past few years.
The point of all this is not to toot my own horn about dream recall -- it's to show that if one is really motivated and sets strong intent, and makes recalling dreams (having lucid dreams) a priority in life, it is possible to go far beyond just a few dreams recalled per night. I think as LDers go I'm nothing special as to frequency of having lucid dreams. But I do think I was very successful in building very high dream recall, and I really enjoyed the heights I had achieved (I'm trying now to work back towards that...)
So while I do agree that "you don't have to have great dream recall in order to have lucid dreams," I also believe that having great (reliable, detailed, vivid, frequent) dream recall is a sure sign that lucidity is close, and that a person is on the right track in terms of day and night practice for lucid dreaming.
If you check the links in my signature I go into a lot more detail on how I recommend approaching increasing dream recall and working to have lucid dreams.
In short, I believe that our dreaming experiences and level of awareness in the dream state closely track that of our waking experiences and awareness levels. Those who stumble through waking life on autopilot, barely taking notice of day to day experience, can't really expect to have frequent bright, vivid, and yes, lucid dream experiences in the dream state at night. To be even more short, "if you want to be lucid at night, you should strive to be lucid during the day."
I believe dream recall can be trained -- we remember best those experiences to which we pay active attention. Practice paying attention to life experiences during the day, and recalling those experiences in the evening before bed (a "day review" if you will), just like how in the morning we recall our dream experiences of the night. Do this regularly, integrate attention to (and yes, reflection of), and recalling the memory of life experiences, day and night, and over time dream recall can't help but grow and grow. In the words of "The Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep," if you pay mindful attention to experience and behavior [reaction to experience], "your dreams will change in extraordinary ways."
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