Thread: Sleep Sex

Rape anyone...

JK

unless shes got a habit of doing sex alot (so much so that she can do it without really thinking at all) then i believe this to be a NON-NORMAL occurence

Try it again tonight

Sure you weren't dreamin

Never can tell these days hehe

Originally Posted by Smileyguy597

unless shes got a habit of doing sex alot (so much so that she can do it without really thinking at all) then i believe this to be a NON-NORMAL occurence
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I've kind of got that habit, yet I don't do it in my sleep.

That seems a little strange that she was awake enough to go to the bathroom, yet falls into such a deep sleep so quickly.

Three thoughts: 1) She's messing with you, it's just for fun, something different. 2) Was she sober?
3) She has a sleep disorder.

(You know, I didn't think at all you did anything bad until Smileyguy said that...but maybe you should be careful, if you don't know her too well. I don't know, something to think about. Did she seem pissed or anything? Or still being friendly? That will tell you a lot.)

Originally Posted by Smileyguy597

Rape anyone...

JK

unless shes got a habit of doing sex alot (so much so that she can do it without really thinking at all) then i believe this to be a NON-NORMAL occurence

Try it again tonight
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can't rape the willing lol. i had her consent!

i just wanna know if anybody else has had sex while asleep?


Edti: Moonbeam, she thought it was hysterical, she still asks me over a lot. it actually seemed kind of "run of the mill" to her.

i found this at www.sleepsex.org.

"I noticed your site on the internet off of a link from MSN.COM , me and my fiancee is experiencing a problem with sleep sex. Most nights that she falls asleep for a few hours she starts moaning and soon is masturbating and acting out sexual acts in her sleep. She has spoke to her dr and he doesnt seem to think anything serious about it she was put on an anti psychotic pill that only seemed to change the pattern for a couple weeks and then went back to her usual sleep sex. She discontinued the pill at this point. If you can offer any suggestions or help it would be greatly appreciated."

"Me and my wife have been having a very difficult time since our marriage began four years ago. At night I become a very aggressive person in bed only to awake to a horrified wife that knows all to well what I have on my mind. It is only when she awakes that I do realize what is going on. I do have a very difficult time a night sleeping getting up every night. She has been so patient with me until recently the unwanted ness has become more aggressive. Our marriage is on the brink of divorce because of this obsession. She brought in an article that explains sleep sex! I read this and to my surprise I am astonished at what I was reading. I am looking a mirror image of what is happening to me. Is this just a stipulation or a convenience excuse with men with a sex obsession? If there is more information about sleep sex I would really like to know. I am in desperate need of answers to the question of what is going on."

As early as 1996, (Shapiro, Fedoroff and Trajanovic, 1996) SBS was identified as a medical condition that may place one at risk of being accused of sexual assault. Thus, if a person is aware of their SBS and takes it seriously, this knowledge may carry with it some accountability for not taking actions to prevent sexual misconduct.

SBS is mentioned in the most current (revised) edition of the International Classification of Sleep Disorders (ICSD-2), which is the diagnostic manual used by sleep medicine practitioners to make diagnoses. Although it is recognized as a sub-type of parasomnia, "sexsomnia" is not included as a particular type of sleep disorder with its own diagnosis.

While SBS is mentioned in the ICSD-2 and recent medical research suggests sexual behavior in sleep is a unique form of sleep-related behavior in the class "parasomnia" (Shapiro et al, 1996; 2003; Schenck & Mahowald, 2005) and over the past five years information in the popular realm has become available (e.g., articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan , Redbook, Details and a Web search will yield a number of information sources), the community of legal and health professionals and the lay public remains incredulous when it comes to SBS.

In fact, when one discovers their own SBS, usually after being informed about their behavior by a bed partner, they are unlikely to believe that they are, themselves, behaving in such a fashion. Often this is a source of conflict in couples as it is embarrassing to accept it as fact. Even when one reports another's (that is, a person complains he/she has been fondled, etc., by a person who clearly appeared to be asleep), to a friend or health care provider in an attempt to try to get some support and to encourage their partner to treat his/her SBS, these persons cannot expect others to believe their story-that they have been "victimized" by a sleeping individual. At present most people know that people walk, talk and eat in their sleep. That sexual behavior also occurs in sleep is not, at present, common knowledge.[/b]

i told her the whole thing and she didn't remember a thing...... is this normal???? I'm serious[/b]

Maybe your just a poor lover. Or you too small to remeber

Only joking. Well in REM sleep this can happen as you play out your dreams. On the other hand she did go to the wash room and I remeber a joke that if girl walks out of the room after making love then your crap. Well because the girl has to finish herself off.

Originally Posted by wendylove

Maybe your just a poor lover. Or you too small to remeber

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well, she was asleep, woke up, and then went to the washroom. And if i'm so bad in bed why does she want me over at her house every weekend???????

and FYI: my standing record is four hours, with the odd water break.

Originally Posted by ranma187

well, she was asleep, woke up, and then went to the washroom. And if i'm so bad in bed why does she want me over at her house every weekend???????

and FYI: my standing record is four hours, with the odd water break.
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Four hours? That would be very tedious, and not to mention being sore afterward. LOL

Anyway, I get the feeling that he was joking, so chill.

I read something today about sleeping aids (like lunesta) causing sleep-driving, sleep-eating, and sleep-sex.

Originally Posted by Gwendolyn

Four hours? That would be very tedious, and not to mention being sore afterward. LOL


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yeah, it was a bit tedious but i can't really afford to go to the gym, so i gotta do something to keep my testosterone up.. there was a few times where I was so dehydrated that I had to gasp "just get me some water damnit". So far she's never complained about being sore.

oh this is interesting because i was watching a programme about sleep walking recently and sleep sex is a part of it.

She is sleep walking, many sleep walkers can do things and look like they are consious, making toast, cleaning the bathroom, etc but they are still asleep really.

That theory is also inforced in your case as she gets up to go to the bathroom, sometimes when your still doing it . It;s because shes not awake, and so her brain isnt really focused on anything inparticular and so has decided it wants to go to the bathroom because it needs the toilet, even though its already busy .

I think there are some drugs that can help, maybe trying harder to wake her up if you want to make sure shes consious. But if she doesnt mind, and its obviously good for you , then there is no real problem.

theres a very strong probability she was awake the whole time.

Ive heard of people who do this because they are turned on by the fact that their partners think they are asleep and think they can do anything they want.

personally I wouldent believe what your girlfriend says at all. its quite obvious she is lieing, because she doesent even claim to remember a thing. most people would remember atleast something after having experienced such strong sexual feelings, as your girlfriend seemed to have expirienced, judging by her loud moaning.

ahh yes, the art of seduction is a cruel game.

Hmm.. Everyone seems to be forgetting something. Has it never happend to you that you slept in on the couch and woke up in the bed? And dont remember it?

If we wake up and go to sleep whitout any bigger disturbances we forget the whole thing.

Sleepwalkers are harder to wake up, as you can be loud, do anything and nothing happens.

And yes, it is normal to have such sex at night. REM faze is a very deep sleep where you dont register anything from the enviroment ...

I think it definately was a form of sleep walking. I've tried it again acouple times lol, but she wakes up halfway through. she seems to like it lol.

Originally Posted by Gwendolyn

Four hours? That would be very tedious, and not to mention being sore afterward. LOL[/b]

Yeah, four hours is tedious! I dunno bout being sore, but, well, I found that condoms suck up juices that you need after a while. So you gotta keep changing, which breaks the rythm, or use lube.

I much prefer the usual 20 minutes or so!

Originally Posted by Gwendolyn

I think it definately was a form of sleep walking. I've tried it again acouple times lol, but she wakes up halfway through. she seems to like it lol.[/b]

lol I'm sure she would! My girlfriend loves it when I wake her up in the middle of the night and start seducing her! haha

Anyway it could be just one of those where you're awake but don't remember, much like if you're dreaming and someone phones you, and you pick up the phone and speak and go to sleep and then don't remember it in the morning

Originally Posted by 13redfan

Yeah, four hours is tedious! I dunno bout being sore, but, well, I found that condoms suck up juices that you need after a while. So you gotta keep changing, which breaks the rythm, or use lube.

I much prefer the usual 20 minutes or so![/b]

20 minutes? I prefer to go as long as i can. even after i blow my load, all i need is another "sock" and a glass of water and I'm good to go for another round. She "claims" that I'm the only guy she has met who can sexually satisfy her for so long. she says other guys pass out too soon after about 5-20 minutes.
and yeah, she tends to get dry after a while.

to me it's just common sense to go for longer, because they seem to appreciate it more - more willing to do things for me and not start fights and shit.

Originally Posted by ranma187

20 minutes? I prefer to go as long as i can. even after i blow my load, all i need is another "sock" and a glass of water and I'm good to go for another round. She "claims" that I'm the only guy she has met who can sexually satisfy her for so long. she says other guys pass out too soon after about 5-20 minutes.
and yeah, she tends to get dry after a while.

to me it's just common sense to go for longer, because they seem to appreciate it more - more willing to do things for me and not start fights and shit.[/b]

For me it depends, me and my girlfriend go at it a lot, always in the morning, at least once or twice at night, and then maybe once or twice in the day if we not busy. So I get it a lot, it depends who's in control really as to how long it takes.

every day? yikes. i would never do that unless i was seeing 3 women at a time but alas, my balls aren't big enough to pull that off yet.

Originally Posted by ranma187

every day? yikes. i would never do that unless i was seeing 3 women at a time but alas, my balls aren't big enough to pull that off yet.[/b]

lol

My globes like physically hurt if i go without some means of "release" for more than 2 days. I need it man!