Thread: Orgasm by thought..

I think girls can do that (not sure)...Never heard of a guy that could though

Are you sure that it wasn't just a nocturnal emission? When was the last time you had sex / masturbated?

It is possible to orgasm from pure thought, it's called tantric meditation, I do it from time to time.

Originally Posted by RetepNamenots

What. The. Hell.

I was insanely tired last night, and (I'm a guy), was awake but with my eyes closed, and virtually on the edge of having an orgasm, from pure thought alone.

I'm not kidding, it was crazy... I searched a bit but haven't been able to find anything like this... any thoughts?

Well I've often wondered this. If orgasms can happen in dreams then why not by mind-over-matter?

Not sure I'd be able to make it happen and haven't had a wet dream for years and years anyway.

It's called a dry orgasm, an orgasm with only mental stimulation.

Originally Posted by Shaderem X

It's called a dry orgasm, an orgasm with only mental stimulation.

But still wet, right?

How long did the "virtually" part last? I have a (male) friend interested in extension of the orgasm. Were you trying to WILD, and are you able to WILD usually?

We (my friend and I) figure since females can have extended orgasms, males should be able to do it in too, in dreams. Surely the part of the brain that experiences it is present in men too; it is more a matter of not knowing he is able to do it that is the problem (since females can do it IRL, it is easier to do it, and even a lot longer, in dreams).

It seems that men have more trouble with sex in lucids in general; again, this may be due more to an expectation rather than a real limitation.

I've had what you are describing--sex-fantasy WILD's, except it goes all the way and seems to last for a long time. That is what my friend is trying to achieve.

Originally Posted by Burned up

But still wet, right?

No, orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. They usually come together, but don't have to. Tantric meditation does not include an ejaculation, in fact, most of the time I don't even have an erection.

Tantric orgasms can last several minutes, I've done it for three or four. I'm sure that people that do it more often can probably orgasm for ten or fifteen.

I know a girl who can do it. Personally, I don't have the discipline.

I know a male is able to have multiple orgasms.

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. When you have an orgasm, you will contract the muscles near your prostate, making you ejaculate.

If you relax enough to not let those muscles contract, you will have an orgasm but not ejaculate, so you can go for another orgasm straight on.

Originally Posted by ninja9578

No, orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. They usually come together, but don't have to. Tantric meditation does not include an ejaculation, in fact, most of the time I don't even have an erection.

Tantric orgasms can last several minutes, I've done it for three or four. I'm sure that people that do it more often can probably orgasm for ten or fifteen.

Bloody hell. Ten to fifteen? That's longer than ... well, never mind. I can't begin to think how the two bodily functions can be separated. It's like sneezing without bogeys coming out of nose. Although I guess it ought to be possible so I shouldn't be too surprised.

Originally Posted by Kromoh

I know a male is able to have multiple orgasms.

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. When you have an orgasm, you will contract the muscles near your prostate, making you ejaculate.

If you relax enough to not let those muscles contract, you will have an orgasm but not ejaculate, so you can go for another orgasm straight on.

I can foresee my sex life taking a new direction here....

Just FYI, orgasm IS possible just by thought in a lucid dream.

Originally Posted by RetepNamenots

What. The. Hell.

I was insanely tired last night, and (I'm a guy), was awake but with my eyes closed, and virtually on the edge of having an orgasm, from pure thought alone.

I'm not kidding, it was crazy... I searched a bit but haven't been able to find anything like this... any thoughts?

I can do that too, though I can't reach climax. It's more like a constant feeling of half a orgasm

For guys only:

(read at own risk )

Spoiler for technique:

I developed this masturbation/sex technique hmmm... yesterday.

What happens is that, when you have an orgasm, the muscles by your prostate contract, making you ejaculate. Notice, here, how an orgasm is not the same as ejaculating.

The technique is simple: you must be relaxed enough not to let your prostate muscles contract, allowing you to have an orgasm without ejaculating (which means the possibility of multiple orgasms as well)

When doing it, you must not bend your muscles the slightest (I mean the muscles in the pubic area, you may still use you hands/legs etc). Leave them completely relaxed and do not move them.

If you manage to do it properly, not only will you get an orgasm without ejaculation, but also th best masturbation/sex you've ever had. It will last longer (not only the orgasm, the whole thing) and it's pretty much more satisfying. It's like.. hard to explain... Aff just do it... but be sure it will take longer than usual, and the whole thing will be satisfying, not only the orgasm itself.

Guess I explained it properly. Any doubts, go ahead

I can't find much relevant to this on "tantric meditation". Theres a group which practice "orgasmic meditation", but... well, look it up, "one taste urban retreat", done in pairs; women are stimulated by a clothed partner.

I didn't find anything on orgasm by though. If anyone has a better pointer I'd be very interested.

Marvo - "me too". I've also had something else: if I do something similar when I experience SP I do climax, but quite quickly and without that much pleasure. A bit like wet dreams that wake you up, except it happens without any actual dream. It happened to me a couple of times when I thought I was going to WILD, after I woke up in the morning.

I can't quite believe I'm writing this, but hey. DV rocks.

Try googling "tantra" instead. I bought a book on it years ago but back then I wasn't particularly bothered. I am going to dig through the bottom of the bookshelf now.

I've experienced something similar to this but only after enhancing my meditation with some special herbs.

Try asking about it here: www.sexualforums.com

Warning though, it's heavily moderated and if you're under 18 the mods will know and kick you out.

I have achieved orgasm several times by thought alone. I just wish I could do it at will!

Imagine a never ending orgasm? no ejac, just a never ending orgasm.

Lol Lucid, we'd probably go bored after the first weeks xD

but it would be a nice thing to try out though ^^

Originally Posted by Kromoh

For guys only:

(read at own risk )

Not quite sure how I'm going to explain this to Mrs Burned Up.

I am a Certified Tantric Guide and have worked with both men and women on these issues. One school of thought (the one I adhere to) is that there is no seperation between body and mind and one of the things we want to get rid of are our contractions. These are our predjudices and judgments. We tend to carry our stresses, worries, and guilt in different parts of the body and the sexual practice of not "contracting" a lot of muscle groups especial in the pelvic floor is directly related to the crap we carry in life. For example the biggest one happens to be our sexual hang ups. Eastern thought is that we all develop what is known as a kundha banda, which is a blockage at womanipura( third chakra, will center). This block for most intents and purposes is a good thing, its what keeps us (most of us) from having sex with a sister or brother. It develops supposedly when we are weened (unless your a bottle baby like me) and teaches us that its not ok to hang on mommy for milk at a later age. In different cultures this age comes at different periods. In some not at all. And in the United States we take it to the extreme, which shows in our naivity and ignorance. Through the study and practice of Tantra I am a much happier person. I'm bisexual and polyamorous. Not to be confuse with what I call polyfuckery (promiscuity). I'm part of a Tantric "church" and attend the feast of 5 M's regularly,look it up . And most important of all this rant is that a relaxed mind is one that has more vivid dreams!

Originally Posted by jahnauasca

And most important of all this rant is that a relaxed mind is one that has more vivid dreams!

offtopic: Well, I was in a distinctly un-relaxed state of mind last night, and I had some quite vivid dreams. Not all in a good way though!