Would work better before sex, the hornier you are, the easier it will be.
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Would work better before sex, the hornier you are, the easier it will be.
thank you for the advice im always looking for things to make sex as amazing as possiblle :)
Do post back if/when it works. I tried this a few times but never came close. Well a once on my second attempt I felt like I came close, but it was short lived and it never got any closer than that.
Tried again just now, got quite close a a few tries but never... there. It's the strain of keeping it flexed, it seems to just slowly weaken and weaken until I can't feel it anymore and I am just not flexing the PC muscle anymore. I can't keep it flexed long enough. Just more practice and working it will do the trick?
Couple of points that came to mind. Even if you don't believe in chacric system really existing, it's good metaphore for stages of sensual experience. In Chacric system there is lowest point at the bottom of spine where energy is said to be sleeping. It's all the potential and and longing for love, both in the horny sense and tender longing of someone touching something deep inside of you. In tantric sense energy starts to flow upwards (childish thoughts really are somewhat on the way, if you just wan't to get laid and mess around you'll almost never feel other stages). Next level if fiery and animal like, lot's of motion, deep locked feelings get expressed in sometimes violent way (this is why tantric realtionship should base on mutual trust). It's a good level and very full of instinct, very physical and sometimes out of control.. Physical lust and desire expressed. Above this comes wide range of feelings of connectednes, sensuality of slow touch and motion, melting together, losting the track on time (it happens on the animal level also, but on upper level you can concsiously experince time acting funylly and stangely and not giving a logical damn about it for the experience and moment is everything).. up from there experinces telepathy and empathy got stronger.. you (atleast believe) that you can experience something from out of the other person, reflect dreams with your touch etc etc
It doesn't necesarrily go througt this system, not even by my experience but it has been best map for me to somehow raise and sink the level of experience. When you get into moment you intuitivly know what to do.. But it could be that some of my previous studyings and breath / pulse exercises has helped me to cross the animal threashold. For tantric experince is about prolonging the experince and the mars-aspect of animal level is that what usually ends the experince. That's a strong experience too but it was a barrier that I was wrestling with for a long time.
Also tantric way of dancing together, tantric approach to enjoyng life sensually from lowest coffee cup to most magical evening help a lot with the sex part. It's not about consuming stuff. It's not about peak experiences but lasting experience. And one myth that should be busted is this: there is no erogenic areas. There are parts of body that experience sensuality and touch in so quiet wait that we are almost deaf to it. So don't you sporty guys and girls run first to score.. or you'll miss the fun. And if you have problems with ejaculation (he said bad word now he must be punished) try to have start orgasming / tanric experince before you hit the erogenious areas.
(this all might be more about partner tantra, but there was some points about tutorial / conversation that sounded more like sport / technical practices.. they didn't work for me. it took genuine feeling and connectedness.. that said, good conversation.. didn' want to thread jack and don't wan't to be thought as somekind of guru or full of own bullshit bragger :cheeky::cheeky::panic:)
If dreamviews is about one thing, it's about the expression of people's views in an open forum. Mostly on dreaming, hence the name, but this topic was on sexual matters, so it makes no difference.
I'm more of a creative person when it comes to thinking about things, but I'm also quite logical in the fact that I tend to ignore stuff that doesn't seem to help. I'm not calling what you posted useless, it's just for me I prefer practical tips and steps to get to my goal.
It's the middle of the night where I am, so I'm not even thinking straight- can't sleep. I'll probably come back in the afternoon and change what I said.
Your armor reflects that, which is not meant in a bad way. I'm sometimes so pissed off on this whole new yoga-industrie and all kinds of other ways ppl are into, that i miss the point how biologically people think about their bodies. And afrer this new generation of phones and computer games it's sometimes harder to distinguish difference between machine and user. Computing systems and programs affect to mental views of body too... It's not wrong either.. it's just that I see age techosexualism quite close in probility space.. I'm just defending body views and feelings that go way before doctors and teachers and measurments.. even though new horizons might provide scientific basis and technics to those kind of experinces that were once believed in and now belong to beyond dreaming
it's like two different approaches to this, where non is wrong
I see nothing has been posted in this thread for a few months so....but I found this site when searching google for "orgasm and meditation". I wasn't sure if this was supposed to happen or what so I was looking for others who experienced such things.
The first time it happened to me was during intense periods of meditation and after I began energy work as well as activating the chakras. As each chakra pulsed and energy seemed to move from my first chakra upwards it's like my body took over. I just kept getting this wave of pulses and energy that erupted into an orgasm. :eek: Afterwards, I was not able to 'reproduce' the sensation until today. I read the instructions here but didn't seem to need anything other than my meditation music and visualization during meditation. The music has a heavy 'beat' which pulses and well - you can use this pulse to gear up your body by focusing the sensation on the first chakra. It just built and - well - hands-free - erm - "O". I didn't start out trying to experience this as I had no idea it could be done. And today, I just intended to get back into meditation when I began feeling the pulsing down low, in my first chakra. Once that began...well...the pulsing just expanded. So, I was wondering if this is really a desired effect during meditation? I have heard of Tantric Sex and Tantric meditations but am not sure of the mental benefits other than the obvious one. :cheeky: Thoughts?
GL
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Hmm, this sounds pretty interesting I'd like to give it a try. Are there any books on the subject of Tantric Yoga that you'd recommend?
Worked great on first try. Lasted for a very long time.
well, it's been a while since someone replied in here, but i hope someone might help me ;)
do my legs have to create like a right angle with my back? or is it okay if i lift them just a little, like 20cm above the bed? because i have tried this method twice already and the first time was most likely hindered by my back and legs which were hurting a lot when i lifted them up (i barely could even keep them straight and it was painful throughout the whole part), and the second time i got close (i think), but again my back was hurting, and i just couldnt reach it idk why ;(
could my failures be caused by my back pain or was it sth else?
also, why is it necessary to switch from lying to indian position?