Originally Posted by
CryoDragoon
That's true. But I wasn't advocating to her that she should go to school in a bikini and a mini-skirt with make-up as thick as mount everest... I actually gave her some tips on how to dress for her part XD.
And before I forget: the very basics of 'looking good' is 'don't buy clothes that are 3 sizes too large... They'll fit you like a sac'. Find clothes that fit. That accentuate your body.
Well... 'Don't change who you are at all?'
If 'you' is 'not fun' 'not social' and 'not spontaneous', then you will have to change yourself. Why? Because it's the opposite of what you are wanting to achieve. It's boring and non-attractive.
I have my own policy on 'change': I try to always change myself (and often others also, I mean... what do you think I'm trying to do here?) for the better. I evolve. If I analyze myself and other people during the day and during the night, I can find the things that I find myself lacking in. And after I've identified what the problem is, I go on a quest to find solutions to them. I try to look in other people, more 'succesful' people, and how they interact on that field, and I try to see what I should do in order to bring that out into me. If someone says something hilarious, I remember it for a later time. If somebody is great at conversation or public speaking or whatever, I try to look how and what he is doing.
You see, I'm constantly changing myself. I just choose to change certain parts of me for the better.
Everybody should do that... In stead of being a static, non-evolving person, you should always strive to achieve that 'one more level'.
So I'll just slap you all with one of my favourite quotes:
"That which is not growing, is dying."
Don't be stagnant. Don't be rusted into place. Don't die... GROW!
That being said: How are you doing Aorocobolobldfgdfgo?