Thread: help me become better

More eye contact, more casual touching, more smiling.

EDIT: And generally speaking don't worry about being too obvious. It's going to be a lot more obvious to you than the guy.

Originally Posted by aorozco

i hate to say this but i suck at flirting. seriously. i do. when i try to flirt, it makes me become more of a "friend" and that sucks. (sorry that alot of the men get stuck in that position"the friend...) nways, what do i do, or say that will not make me come off as a friend. without being so like obvious.

Be more surprising and outrageous, do the unexpected and sometimes controversial, but always keep it fond and complimentary.




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edit: that only appplies to guys, i didnt see the uh female uh yeah.


̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉.

Originally Posted by Omicron

Be more surprising and outrageous, do the unexpected and sometimes controversial, but always keep it fond and complimentary.




̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉.



edit: that only appplies to guys, i didnt see the uh female uh yeah.


̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉ ҉̵̞̟̠̖̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̊̋̌̍̎̏̐̑̒̓̔̿̿̿̕̚̕̚͡ ͡҉҉ ̵̡̢̛̗̘̙̜̝̞̟̠͇̊̋̌̍̎̏̿̿̿̚ ̔̕̚̕̚҉.

nice....
lol
well like do i do certain gestures, or like be like more outgoing? cause i really can't just drop everything and change... wich would be syupid so ignore that... nways, thanxz. if you have more suggestions please let me know.

Ummm... OH CRAP!!! I thought you were a guy!!! O_o

Well, that changes everything. Unless... You aren't a lesbian, are you? :S

Oh well, gotta go now... I'll try to get to you a different time. Tomorrow maybe. I'll just leave this post here as it does contain some things you might want to think about (being fun, sexual, etc.). However, you're a woman, so you'll have to calibrate differently.

Some quick tips:
1) do flirt verbally, as described below...
2) at times, you may flirt with physical contact, but KEEP IT TO A MINIMUM!! You're a girl. People might label you a 'slut' if you go about groping every guy you meet.
3) On a similar note: qualify the guys. Ask questions to see what kind of guy they really are. Test them a bit. "do you smoke?", for example.
4) If you have the body for it, dress sexy. We guys are very much programmed visually. So when we see something we like, we like it... So: accentuate the good points about your body. Example: wear a low-cut top. Get some collarcone exposed. It's really sexy. Or, if you have really nice eyes, accentuate them with accentuating eye-liner. Or, if you have a nice butt, get some slim-fit jeans. Also: make sure you accentuate your skin colour. If you're dark, wear light colors (such as yellow). If you're very light, wear stuff that doesn't make you look too pale (such as beige and brown). If you're tan, you can wear pretty much anything, as long as you follow the above rules (darker skin --> lighter clothing, and vice versa).

Ummm... See you tomorrow!!

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Simple... You simply don't flirt right...

Question: what do you think is 'flirting'?


'Sort of an answer to your question': well... I'll tell you what flirting is not: it is not complimenting her or buying her flowers or something. And it's also not 'being outgoing' Because that's just basic social skill.

Flirting is an artform... Really... It's pretty hard if you have to think about it all the time. So in the end, it'd just be better to completely rewire your brain into another thinking pattern. You'll just need to realize that 'girls just wanna have fun... and sex... and a confident powerful man'
So we'll need to display that.
Confidence, therefore is needed. This is achieved pretty simply by confidently delivering your lines, getting your bodylanguage more relaxed and confident, etc.
And powerful? Well, for one: be powerful. Control the conversation. Let the conversation go where you want to go. In fact: be a leader. If you're talking. Suddenly go "I'm hungry, wanna come to grab a bite with me?" And of course: don't accept second-class behavior. If she drops paper on the floor, and doesn't pick it up, stand still, look her in the eye, seriously, and say "Oy, throw that away in a litter-bin. This isn't your home."

Now... on to the fun part: what kind of fun?
Well... Teasing people would be a good way to start (example: if she trips, but manages to not fall, say something like "well, that was gracious... you must be a dancer").
Also: pretend like she is flirting with you (even if she is not). Just say stuff...
Like: if they bump into you: "Easy there, tiger!" or "I know I'm attractive, but please, do try to control yourself".

Or, if you bend down to pick something up, you come back up, look them right in the eye, and say "you... you were looking at my ass, weren't you? I'm not just a piece of meat, you know... I... I have feelings too." The best response they might give is a smack on the ass (of course), after which you say "Oy, now, save that for the bedroom", after which you immediately move on into a completely different topic (or after which you simply introduce yourself).

Or even when they do something good. In stead of merely complimenting saying "wow, that was great". Say something like "Wow, that was great... It would've been even better if I did it, though" Then proceed to act out something she did (in an overly exaggerated way, to make it look like she actually looked very strange while doing that).

Do smile though. And act certain things out a little bit. Don't be too serious, as you don't want to appear arrogant or weird. You're simply enjoying yourself. You're playing a game with them.
So if people do not like your flirting, they may either be testing you, or they may be very un-funny. In either case just say something like "Well, aren't you miss crankypants. Are you always like this? Gosh, where is your fun-button?" But do make sure you make a mental note and analyze why she probably didn't like the thing you did.
Flirting isn't something to be too obsessive about, though. It is a fun thing. So treat it like any other normal fun thing. And more importantly: have fun with it. Flirting basically is 'having fun with the other person.'

And yes. Touch them. Get used to touching people. Anyone. Then do it. Even subtle things, like touching them when moving past them, or touching their backs when leading them through a doorway may be enough at first.

One final point: JUST DO IT!!! Try some of the things I said above. It's fun. Say the things you want to say. Don't hold back.


Oh! And another thing: the reason why you probably end up in the friends zone, is because you don't escalate sexually. You don't show interest. Always move forward. If you don't get some sort of vibe going between the two of you, she won't be attracted to you. So whenever you see the opportunity, add some sexual tension (like the 'watching at the ass'-thing above).
However!! If you banter all the time, you'll simply become 'best friends' (well, at least it's a step up from 'just a friend'). So add some physical sexual tension. How? Simple: really start to escalate; start touching her.

How do you do that? Simple... You start simple, touching the wrist or the back or the shoulders for example, and then you escalate. For example: when you suggest to her to go somewhere, hold out your arm and say, "come here, gimme some arm candy." If she does lock arms with you, then just throw it off, laugh and say "you're such a dork". If she doesn't, then you still have some work to do. This is simply a test whether she is comfortable having physical contact with you (which is the reason why you don't keep your arms locked). Besides: just think of the sexual tension you'll have sparked right then. "Here, have my arm." *the girl gladly accepts* "Get your arm off me!" *What? Where are you going with that arm? I wanted it *
After that, escalate into holding hands. Example: high five, and let your hands slide down and hang there. See what happens. Maybe, if it feels right, grab her hand yourself.
Hug her after a conversation when you feel the two of you click. Hold her a little bit longer than you normally would.
If you hands are cold tell her to hold up her hands, clap them together, and tell her to start sliding them to and fro. Then stick your hands in between them.
When you've done something nice for her, and she says thanks, tell her that "you owe me one". Then turn your cheek to her face (just DON'T LEAN IN!!! Let her come to you) and point at it as if to say 'gimme a smooch'.
-If she goes for it, tell her that 'well, didn't you just go all-out on that one?' in a somewhat ironic voice. See how she reacts. If positive, tell her to "come here" and go in for the kiss yourself. And voila! All done!
-If she is taken aback by it, just say "hmmmhh". Shrug, and continue doing what you just did, or what you were going to do.

Do note that you should escalate. Don't just start off doing these examples, expecting a kiss when you've just met her, for example. Touch on the wrist first, to make a point, then touch her back when she goes through a door, then lock arms, then high five, and get some hand-to-hand contact, then expect the kiss.
A girl won't kiss you if she doesn't even let you hold her hands.

So calibrate to the situation.


And remember: Always move forward. ALWAYS.


In summary:
1) Flirt verbally. That is: tease her, act like she is flirting with you, etc. Just say what you want to say. JUST SAY IT.
2) Flirt with touch. JUST DO IT!! WRAAAAAH! And don't forget: EYE CONTACT!!!!!!! AND SMILE WHEN YOU FLIRT!!!
3) Always move forward.
4) One last tip: a great way to treat girls is to just treat them like they are your younger sister (or brother), if you have one (yes, even stealing their stuff and not giving it back without having her win three thumbwrestle games, does include that... Why? It's fun! Oh! And if you do thumbwrestle with girls. Do make sure to cheat... And make it obvious. It's just funny.) HAVE FUN!!!!!


MMkay?

A'ight... Good luck and don't forget to report back. Bye!

CD

As long as you don't appear needy, you should be fine. Someone said in this topic more eye contact, and thats all I believe that one needs to signal. Usually I can tell if a person likes me with the kind of look they give me, you can kind of see it in their eyes. Besides, wasn't it a guys job to do all the flirting? :X

First your hit down your girl, stick in your penor and...

oh shi u liek girl duh D::::

Yeah.. And I'm gonna wait with giving the pointers for flirting for a few days. Busy busy busy. ^^

Besides... It's the guys' job to flirt... So this can wait for a bit anyways.

thanxs people...

well i guess i' just chillax... i just want to be better at friggin flirting cause i am so stupid when it comes to that!!! lol

Right-oh! Here I am!


Well... Picking up guys is quite easy, really... (It's not fair!)

You'll need a few core attributes first before you can get to the real deal:
1) Be desirable
2) Be friendly and social
3) Be feminine
4) Be in touch with your sensuality and sexuality

Let's start with number 2: general friendliness, as it is the most simple to explain:
-When talking, become genuinely interested in the other person.
-Be in a good mood, always. Don't be sarcastic, don't act rude... The basic stuff of normal social conduct, really.
-SMILE AND LAUGH!!!

Now, what do I mean with 'be feminine'?
Simple: don't want to be a guy. Don't dominate people, don't desire to compete with people (look what I did! Oh that's nothing, look at me!). In stead: be cool with stuff, don't try to out-do people, hand out compliments when they achieve something (just try to not JUST give out value to anyone. They'll have to REALLY impress you or grab your interest).

Be in touch with your sensuality and sexuality.
Simply don't be afraid to say certain things. Don't be afraid to touch and be touched, and don't be afraid to utter your interest. In short: don't be shy.

And now we get to numero uno: be desirable.
Present yourself as a desirable thing. Make people want you. How do you do this?
-Cultivate a good general attitude towards life. That is: be confident (and carry yourself in a confident way, with a gracious, dancer-like touch), be comfortable (so don't rush when you're doing stuff, don't run, just walk nice and slow don't panic, make GOOD EYE CONTACT etc.), be in a good mood (don't let bad things bring you down, find an upside to everything, )
-Be fun. Be fun to be around. So try to cultivate humour. Find the fun thing in everything (analyzing comics could work). Be spontaneous (sing, dance!), play games (whether they're physical (thumb-wrestling) or mental (riddles)), etc. And laugh, smile! BE HAPPYYYY!!!
-The following point counts especially for women (as we men are more physically-oriented): be physically attractive. Get that skinny look (if you don't have one already), dress sexy (spaghetti tops, low-cut tops, blousses, skinny jeans, you know what I'm talking about), emphasize your own physical strengths (if you have striking blue eyes, wear a skarf equally blue that emphasizes that and wear eye-makeup (NOT TOO MUCH!), or if you're tanned, wear colours that bring out your colour more (like yellow, in a tan's case), or if you have nice hands, wear bracelets and rings to draw attention to that area, etc. etc. etc.


Now, when having established the above, you have yourself a GREAT foundation on which to build the rest. If you have succesfully cultivated this stuff, you're 90% done. People will WANT to be with you.

Now, here's a warning for you: BE SURE NOT to overdo the flirting. Be like the above 99% of the time, and when appropriate, flirt. Don't go out and be the slut, flirting with absolutely everyone.

So, on to the meat of this post: How to Flirt for women?
Well, first of all: what is flirting? In essence, flirting is sexual communication. Signaling 'Hi, I like you and I'd want to be more than friends'. So how do we do that?
1) Communicate in a sexual way.
2) Convey interest.

Conveying interest is easily done. And it's done sub-conciously, really, so you won't have to worry about it (when you're interested in a person, you'll laugh a lot, you'll smile a lot, and you'll be standing closer to him than you normally would. It's just subconcious. And if not: just do it yourself).

Well then: how do you communicate in a sexual way?

1) flirt verbally.
2) flirt physically.

Both can be found in my previous post, also, but I'll repost what I said before.

Basically, flirting verbally is simply teasing. 'Did you just look at my ass? Easy there, tiger...' Even when complimenting, add a tease 'wow, that was great... for a guy' or 'wow, that was great... You know when it'd be even better? If it was me who did that'.
And qualify, too. Try to find out what kind of guy he is. 'Can you cook?' 'No.' 'Oh, too bad... I guess we aren't meant for each other...'
Do make sure you have that playful look on. You don't want to look serious. 'cause you're not. You're just having fun. You're basically playing a game.

Flirting physically is... well... touching, really. Hugging, simple physical contact, like touching the arm when making a point, or high-fiving, or shaking hands. The thing is that you'll need to make this more sensual, more sexual.
The next time you tease a guy, like this example: (him)'oh, I did so bad on a test'; (you) 'oh, it's okay, wanna cry?' Just place your hand on his shoulder, and in stead of doing a very manly *taptap*, you let your hand gently glide down.
The same with handshakes: in stead of grabbing his hand and then letting go, just shake his hand and gently let go, brushing your fingers against his as you slide your hand out of his.
If you meet a dancer, ask him to do a lift with you (where he picks you up and stuff). Then, of course, accuse him of grabbing your ass, call him a pervert, then say 'you enjoyed that didn't you?' Watch his response, then riff on with it.

And that's it, really. It's pretty simple. If you need any further help or clarification, just reply or PM me or whatever, as I'm sure I've left out plenty of stuff I forgot.


But DO remember one thing: it is NOT your job to flirt. It is the men's job to flirt and pick you up, not the other way around. There tips are designed to make you more attractive, to make you more of a catch. You're no slut. So NEVER should you go out to get a guy. Let the guy get you.

Mmmkay?

A'ight! See y'all mortals! CD out!

Originally Posted by aorozco

i hate to say this but i suck at flirting. seriously. i do. when i try to flirt, it makes me become more of a "friend" and that sucks. (sorry that alot of the men get stuck in that position"the friend...) nways, what do i do, or say that will not make me come off as a friend. without being so like obvious.

If you find yourself being stuck in the friend zone when it comes to guys, perhaps they're just not interested in you? If a guy is interested then you'd know it. It might not have anything to do with you trying to learn how to "flirt properly" at all.

it's not that. i just really truly am not a good flirt... sadly...

Well, about the interest: if you think so, then the question becomes 'when do you become interesting?' When will people be interested in you, stopping in their tracks to go 'who's that?'

It's the great attitude to life. It's the confidence. It's the whole way you carry yourself. It's how good you look.

Imagine someone with a sad, sad look on her face, slouched over, with clothes that are three sizes to large and her hair all messed up.
Will you be interested in her?

No, of course not.

Now think of a person who's first of all good looking, has a great sense of style, is happy and smiling all the time, and who carries herself with a great kind of confidence that says 'here I am'.
Would you be interested in her?


You see, men work somewhat differently. When we see a physically attractive woman, we go 'woooooow, look at her'. We are stimulated, first of all, visually. So that's the first thing you'll have to nail to get people interested in you.

After that, you'll have to preserve their initial interest by being attractive, by being fun to be around. And while you do that, you'll have to get them interested in you in a romantic/sexual way. And that's what you'll do by the means of flirting.

However, to achieve the optimal effect, you'll of course have to have all three of those elements.


Now, as for the flirting, do you understand what I said in an above post?

Another nice tip:
Just say it!/ Just do it! Whatever wells up in your mind, just say it or do it. Go along with it from there. It's nice. Just improvise. It could be as simple as:
'Hey, when you do that with your face, you look like a dog... A lil' cute golden retriever puppy' *pinch his cheeks and make funny faces with it* (and be sure to talk with that tone of voice like you would talk like a dog.)
It's fun, it's stupid, it's crazy, it's daring... And no-one has ever done that to him before, probably. And best of all: you'll be touching your little goo-goo boy!


Besides, I'll tell it yet again: the purest form of flirting (i.e. escalating to a sexual/romantic relationship) is a guy's job. YOU don't need to flirt as much as you think you do. You'll just have to be attractive and fun.

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

4) If you have the body for it, dress sexy. We guys are very much programmed visually. So when we see something we like, we like it... So: accentuate the good points about your body.

Be careful with this though. A lot of people try this and end up looking like a slut or like they're trying too hard. Make sure it still looks at least somewhat classy and fits your personality


but basically what most people are saying: be friendly and smile, act genuinely interested in them and what they have to say, don't be fake, act cute but not ditzy (ugh that drives people crazy), make eye contact when you talk to them, don't be afraid to make physical contact but don't overdo it, always try to look your best, be social, be spontaneous, be fun, but don't change who you are at all.

Good luck

Originally Posted by lagunagirl

Be careful with this though. A lot of people try this and end up looking like a slut or like they're trying too hard. Make sure it still looks at least somewhat classy and fits your personality

That's true. But I wasn't advocating to her that she should go to school in a bikini and a mini-skirt with make-up as thick as mount everest... I actually gave her some tips on how to dress for her part XD.
And before I forget: the very basics of 'looking good' is 'don't buy clothes that are 3 sizes too large... They'll fit you like a sac'. Find clothes that fit. That accentuate your body.

but basically what most people are saying: be friendly and smile, act genuinely interested in them and what they have to say, don't be fake, act cute but not ditzy (ugh that drives people crazy), make eye contact when you talk to them, don't be afraid to make physical contact but don't overdo it, always try to look your best, be social, be spontaneous, be fun, but don't change who you are at all.

Well... 'Don't change who you are at all?'
If 'you' is 'not fun' 'not social' and 'not spontaneous', then you will have to change yourself. Why? Because it's the opposite of what you are wanting to achieve. It's boring and non-attractive.

I have my own policy on 'change': I try to always change myself (and often others also, I mean... what do you think I'm trying to do here?) for the better. I evolve. If I analyze myself and other people during the day and during the night, I can find the things that I find myself lacking in. And after I've identified what the problem is, I go on a quest to find solutions to them. I try to look in other people, more 'succesful' people, and how they interact on that field, and I try to see what I should do in order to bring that out into me. If someone says something hilarious, I remember it for a later time. If somebody is great at conversation or public speaking or whatever, I try to look how and what he is doing.
You see, I'm constantly changing myself. I just choose to change certain parts of me for the better.

Everybody should do that... In stead of being a static, non-evolving person, you should always strive to achieve that 'one more level'.

So I'll just slap you all with one of my favourite quotes:
"That which is not growing, is dying."

Don't be stagnant. Don't be rusted into place. Don't die... GROW!



That being said: How are you doing Aorocobolobldfgdfgo?

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

That's true. But I wasn't advocating to her that she should go to school in a bikini and a mini-skirt with make-up as thick as mount everest... I actually gave her some tips on how to dress for her part XD.
And before I forget: the very basics of 'looking good' is 'don't buy clothes that are 3 sizes too large... They'll fit you like a sac'. Find clothes that fit. That accentuate your body.

yeah I wasn't implying that you were advocating anything, I was just saying that for aorozco's sake, cause I didn't have time to read if anyone else said something similar.

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

Well... 'Don't change who you are at all?'
If 'you' is 'not fun' 'not social' and 'not spontaneous', then you will have to change yourself. Why? Because it's the opposite of what you are wanting to achieve. It's boring and non-attractive.

... I just choose to change certain parts of me for the better.

Everybody should do that... In stead of being a static, non-evolving person, you should always strive to achieve that 'one more level'.

By "don't change who you are", I was meaning things like... for example: I know a lot of girls at my school who really are smart, but instead of trying to use that in such a way to flirt, they try to act stupid and ditzy instead because they think it's cute.

It's important, like you said, to grow as a person and learn to develop qualities that help you to better interact with people, such as being fun and spontaneous etc. etc, but just don't substitute one of your good qualities for one that you think is "better"

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

That's true. But I wasn't advocating to her that she should go to school in a bikini and a mini-skirt with make-up as thick as mount everest... I actually gave her some tips on how to dress for her part XD.
And before I forget: the very basics of 'looking good' is 'don't buy clothes that are 3 sizes too large... They'll fit you like a sac'. Find clothes that fit. That accentuate your body.



Well... 'Don't change who you are at all?'
If 'you' is 'not fun' 'not social' and 'not spontaneous', then you will have to change yourself. Why? Because it's the opposite of what you are wanting to achieve. It's boring and non-attractive.

I have my own policy on 'change': I try to always change myself (and often others also, I mean... what do you think I'm trying to do here?) for the better. I evolve. If I analyze myself and other people during the day and during the night, I can find the things that I find myself lacking in. And after I've identified what the problem is, I go on a quest to find solutions to them. I try to look in other people, more 'succesful' people, and how they interact on that field, and I try to see what I should do in order to bring that out into me. If someone says something hilarious, I remember it for a later time. If somebody is great at conversation or public speaking or whatever, I try to look how and what he is doing.
You see, I'm constantly changing myself. I just choose to change certain parts of me for the better.

Everybody should do that... In stead of being a static, non-evolving person, you should always strive to achieve that 'one more level'.

So I'll just slap you all with one of my favourite quotes:
"That which is not growing, is dying."

Don't be stagnant. Don't be rusted into place. Don't die... GROW!



That being said: How are you doing Aorocobolobldfgdfgo?

well i tried some of the tips on this kid in class, he asked me to dinner but i had to turn him down... i know i am a jerk, but i just wanted to see if it actually worked. thank you for asking. lol.

so thanx guys. and girls.

Originally Posted by aorozco

well i tried some of the tips on this kid in class, he asked me to dinner but i had to turn him down... i know i am a jerk, but i just wanted to see if it actually worked. thank you for asking. lol.

so thanx guys. and girls.

Woo! You go girl! *slaps yo ass*


And @ Lagunagirl...
Mmmkay. We're cool

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

Woo! You go girl! *slaps yo ass*


And @ Lagunagirl...
Mmmkay. We're cool

ok

nice job aorozco! keep it up

I would say that you can't be all that bad at it. Just have the confidence you have here on dreamviews. I mean you did start a post about what people will do in their underwear. You should approach guys you know in life with that exact question. .

Originally Posted by Basilisk

I would say that you can't be all that bad at it. Just have the confidence you have here on dreamviews. I mean you did start a post about what people will do in their underwear. You should approach guys you know in life with that exact question. .

lol. that i did... it's not neccessarily that i don't have the confidence, it's more that i am shy and too like, i guess you could say like one of the guys. which can suck...

Well the shyness is just something you'll have to overcome but it gets easier with time, as for being one of the guys don't let it throw you off, a lot of guys are in to girls that are willing to get a little dirty, personally I do not like the prissy girls that only worry about how they look. There are times for being girly like dances and big events but on a normal day theres no reason to not let yourself "be one of the guys." You just have to find a comfortable balance.

I think you need some *ahem* one-on-one experience.

Send me a PM, baby...

Originally Posted by Delphinus

I think you need some *ahem* one-on-one experience.

Send me a PM, baby...

lol. delphinus you crazy... lol

you realy wanna get raped?

lol

Originally Posted by aorozco

lol. delphinus you crazy... lol

you realy wanna get raped?

lol

careful, this girl will cut off your egg roll before raping you

she is THAT much of a lesbian....