Tell me about a positive trait you have that you think is attractive.

To either the opposite or same sex.
Whichever rubs your buddha.
Or floats your boat.
Or whatever.


You can only choose one trait that you think would be attractive to just about anyone you were trying to start a sexual relationship with(long term or and One Night Stand, it doesn't matter).

The size of your dick doesn't count fellas, because you're probably lying.

The trait doesn't have to be easily noticeable, you might have to tell them for the other person to know(i.e. size of your junk) but it has to be true


You can mention other traits, but keep them limited to like a sentence.

I'm confused.

You mean a trait in US or a trait in someone else?

A trait in us, Mes, as the subject line says.

Also, is this limited to physical traits?

I'm sorry... a trait that you feel that you have.

Not one that you like to see in other people.

My long flowing hair that infatuates people on sight, causing them to do my bidding and obey my every whim.

But aye, technically, I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others, seeing how growing it and taking care of it takes effort and it makes quite an accent to one's image.

I chose this "trait" because it's simple. With personality traits, you never know: to each their own.
But good hair is likely to appeal to a much greater circle of people.

Sad tough how you said "start a sexual relationship with".
Associating sex with love so thoroughly, as if sex is love. :whyohwhy:

I got confused because the post right before mine (which magically got deleted just recently) had answered differently.

I think my height's good. I'm only 5'8 but in Asia people seem to think that's tall, and they like it.

This isn't a question about love, it's purely a question of basic primal instinct.
What do you think is something that can attract anyone you meet.

It doesn't have to be a physical characteristic, but that's the easiest to answer with I guess.

My ability to create emotions that may not exist naturally, only to see them exist naturally over time. I find it an attractive trait in myself to be able to understand peoples' perceptions, opinions, feelings, and whatever they experience or believe without regard for any determined worldviews society creates.

Emotional and psychological flexibility, to put it short.

my oral sex skillz.

The ladies would love it if they would just let me try!

Well hair has already been said sooo....

I'm going to have to go with my teeth. This is because I've noticed that so few people have perfect teeth. It will always be something that I have over other people no matter how attractive they are otherwise.

I just noticed I forgot to post mine...

It would be that I am fast at sex.

haha elisd, quick and painless eh? Thats my approach too

I think it's my smile. Lots of people commented on it, otherwise I'd have no idea what to say.

Hmmmm... I've no idea.

Which is exactly why you're so damn sexy.

I think I have really good looking feet.

I've been told I have great eyes.

I throw great parties.

Other than that, I have absolutely nothing to offer.

I like my eyes. Sometimes i just stand in front of the mirror and stare at them for like 5 minutes, i guess the girls are missing out. Too bad I have to wear glasses, but my glasses are cool too i have gotten tons of compliments on them.

Eyes are probably the most beautiful part of the human body. They are my favourite thing to draw. That's all I'm good at drawing .

I am magically Delicious!

I routinely have guys tell me that my ass is perfectly shaped. Yes, guys tell me that I have a cute butt, in the most homoerotic way possible. I like to think that they're joking, but they might be serious.

So, I guess that my butt must be attractive to somebody. :buns:

I would say my eyes but it's mentioned many times now, so the next best compliment I have would definitely be my feet. Especially when I am wearing sandals. :)

The lady who cuts my hair once told me that I have a round head. I don't know if that's good or bad though.

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The lady who cuts my hair once told me that I have a round head. I don't know if that's good or bad though.

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH.

OH. MY. God.

Anyway...






Uhm, I've heard a bunch of times that I have "gorgeous eyes" and I've been told quite a few times that my eyelashes are amazing. It's normally girls saying "wow I wish I had your lashes, I work so hard to get mine like this!".

I don't know how to take that, being a guy and all.

I think a lot of girls like my sense of humor, and my out-goingness. My honesty, and my ability to just not give a fuck.

Besides that, uh.. my dick is big?

But that doesn't count, does it?

I've been told my eyes. But I think the only reason they find it attractive is because it confuses them about my ethnicity. :shock:

Personally I'd go with my skin/complexion. I have great skin and I'm the type of girl that doesn't need makeup (which is why I don't wear any). So yeah, no surprises in the morning (ie. No coyote ugly moment). :eek:

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH.

OH. MY. God.

Anyway...

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Gosh... There are a few... For help's sakes, I will post them all :D.

I have been told by certain girls that things that are attractive/sexy on me are:
-The way I walk (which apparently is perfectly straight. Not slouched. Not even a bit).
-My "big brown pretty cute-dog-eyes.":whyme:
-My dry sense of humour.

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-And the way I pull their hair and tell them to do stuff for(/to?) me :shock: (I will leave it at that... no specifics here :P)

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-And the way I pull their hair and tell them to do stuff for(/to?) me :shock: (I will leave it at that... no specifics here :P)

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I'm afraid to ask. :shakehead:

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-And the way I pull their hair and tell them to do stuff for(/to?) me :shock: (I will leave it at that... no specifics here :P)

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Do tell more.

The thing people remark on the most about me is my charisma.

As far as physically, I've often just heard that I'm "good-looking," but nothing really too specific, aside from my smile.

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Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

I think my height's good. I'm only 5'8 but in Asia people seem to think that's tall, and they like it.

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DOOD! WTF?! 5'8" IS tall, in most countries I would think.

Then again... I'm only 5'2" so everyone is tall to me...

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DOOD! WTF?! 5'8" IS tall, in most countries I would think.

Then again... I'm only 5'2" so everyone is tall to me...

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It depends if you're a man or a woman. For a woman it's tall for a man, well it's on the less than average scale. The average height for US male is I believe 5'9" or 5'10".
Honestly, I'm only 5'2" and I would consider a guy that's 5'8" as short.

My deep voice. :D

I think my strangeness is a positive trait. I've been complimented on a wide scope of things but I'm not going to list them as to avoid feeling anymore egotistical. :P

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Originally Posted by Liberty

It depends if you're a man or a woman. For a woman it's tall for a man, well it's on the less than average scale. The average height for US male is I believe 5'9" or 5'10".
Honestly, I'm only 5'2" and I would consider a guy that's 5'8" as short.

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Well I'm a girl, that's what she was referring to. :D

A prof of mine (really short guy, totally insecure) told me the average height of a US male was 5'8? I dunno, I feel like looking it up now.

Edit: Oh never mind, looks like it's 5'9... AND 5'10? God damn these contradicting sources. :P

Edit 2: Looks like guys from the Dinaric Alps (wtf?? Haha... apparently that's near Croatia) average at 6'1. :shock: WOW.

I'd say my physical appearance cause it's always the first thing people are attracted to.

eyes, and abs

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Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed

I think my strangeness is a positive trait. I've been complimented on a wide scope of things but I'm not going to list them as to avoid feeling anymore egotistical. :P

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People tell me I'm strange all the time. I've never really known if they see it as a good thing or a bad thing.

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Originally Posted by Merlock

My long flowing hair that infatuates people on sight, causing them to do my bidding and obey my every whim.

But aye, technically, I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others, seeing how growing it and taking care of it takes effort and it makes quite an accent to one's image.

I chose this "trait" because it's simple. With personality traits, you never know: to each their own.
But good hair is likely to appeal to a much greater circle of people.

Sad tough how you said "start a sexual relationship with".
Associating sex with love so thoroughly, as if sex is love. :whyohwhy:

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I agree. One rub(of my hair) and she'll orgasm.

What used to be my long, wavy hair, until I cut it a few years back out of spite.

I've been told that I scare people, which I'll vote as being my most sexy characteristic.

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Originally Posted by Merlock

But aye, technically, I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others, seeing how growing it and taking care of it takes effort and it makes quite an accent to one's image.

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To be perfectly honest, long hair (especially depending on one's definition of what is long) can be connotative with more things than a care-taker. Not to seem insulting, but long long hair can be seen as a reflection of an individuals laziness to get it cut, a reflection of being stuck in the past, and so on and so on. Just because you figure others should see it like you do does not make it so. Maybe some, but definitely not all.

That would be like me saying, "Well, I really liked my blue mohawk because I thought it was a wondrous display of artistic flair, so I imagine others must think the same," when I know for a FACT that a lot of people simply viewed me as another stereotypical skinhead punk trying to prove something to the world.

I'm not jumping on the fact that you have long hair, just your implication that long hair = good hair = sex for everyone. And hey, I used to have long hair, too.

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Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Well I'm a girl, that's what she was referring to. :D

A prof of mine (really short guy, totally insecure) told me the average height of a US male was 5'8? I dunno, I feel like looking it up now.

Edit: Oh never mind, looks like it's 5'9... AND 5'10? God damn these contradicting sources. :P

Edit 2: Looks like guys from the Dinaric Alps (wtf?? Haha... apparently that's near Croatia) average at 6'1. :shock: WOW.

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Dinaric Alps stretch across the Balkans and yes, that's true. I'm teased that I'm short with 5' 10" and, believe it or not, there are many girls who are taller than me. :lol:

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Dinaric Alps stretch across the Balkans and yes, that's true. I'm teased that I'm short with 5' 10" and, believe it or not, there are many girls who are taller than me. :lol:

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Yeesh. :lol: Wow.

For some reason I just got a flashback of Futurama and 'snoo-snoo'.

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For some reason I just got a flashback of Futurama and 'snoo-snoo'.

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Me likey snoo snoo.

I've been told by what I think are too many people that I'm weird, and am not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing. It could go either way.

Oddly enough, girls seem to think I have soft hair and have spontaneously burst into rubbing my head because of that.

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Do tell more.

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*things are getting heavy and sweaty*
*me pulls hair* "Do the dishes!"

...Works wonders :goodjob2:

Nah... But I don't kiss and tell, so let's just leave it at that... :wink:


Anywhooo... I just had an english oral examination, and my teacher told me I have a nice and deep voice, "perfect for speaking english" as he said it.

i guess i would choose my butt. it is nice. i also like my and eyes...
uumm i also have a freckle right on my right breast and it is really cute...

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i guess i would choose my butt. it is nice. i also like my and eyes...
uumm i also have a freckle right on my right breast and it is really cute...

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I'm going to need photos to verify this. Call it a second opinion.


As for myself, girls seem to like my easygoing yet slightly flirtatious teasing, and the way I hold doors for them and generally behave as a complete gentleman.

Personally, I think the only thing I have going for me are my eyes and that I'm somewhat slender... since I've gained weight, my boobs have gotten bigger (WOOHOO!), but there still nothing spectacular lol.

In the past people have tended to be attracted to me because I carried myself with an air of mystery and a slight "damsel in destress" ??? atmosphere (?) that make some men want to rescue me.
When my hubby met me, I was a stripper. While all the girls were hustling the guys for their last dollar and wore hardly any clothes on the floor, I sat at the bar alone, improving my vocabulary with some electronic device I used to have. And I always told the guys not to go crazy on me, but to save some of their money so they could come back and see me again. I was lucky to make $20. a night in tips from dancing while my hustling best friend could bring in a check of $250. a week from drink and Private sales**. And I always dressed modestly (though still sexy) while on the floor. Hubby says those things are what attracted him to me.
(**Granted, the Club was in a horrible location and had hardly any traffic).

My loyalty, kindness and empathy attract people to me, but it's more as a best friend or a shoulder to cry on than something sexually appealing.


I LOVE deep voices. Even women who have a sexy feminine deep voice [what is that called?] gives me goosebumps.
And I'm attracted to people who carry themselves with an air of security and confidence. Looks mean VERY little to me. I guess I so often felt the need to be rescued and protected when growing up that it stuck with me even though I'm no longer the doormat I once was lol

# 1 best feature: full lips
Close second: big blue/green eyes. The inside of my eyes are green, surrounded by some blue

Originally Posted by mysterious dreamer
Dinaric Alps stretch across the Balkans and yes, that's true. I'm teased that I'm short with 5' 10" and, believe it or not, there are many girls who are taller than me.

5' 10" isn't THAT bad (I think you know that), but I know a guy in my grade who SAID that he is 4' 10". That's what I call short. Does that make you feel better? I think he's the shortest guy I know

My [half] brother amazed me. There's something in our gene pool that made us early starters when it came to growth and puberty.
All throughout school he was bullied, picked on and beat up because he was extremely short. When he was about 18 years old though he grew to be about 6'2" lol Even taller than our dad (my step dad).
I weighted 80 pounds in High School, I was so small. People used to ask me if I had cancer, was dying, had AIDS, or did crack lol. I didn't start growing until I was 15-17 years old. Now I'm a nice 5'5"

Here's a picture to put size in perspective :D
http://img151.imageshack.us/img151/1...dinchar.th.png

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But aye, technically, I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others...
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But good hair is likely to appeal to a much greater circle of people.

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I'm not jumping on the fact that you have long hair, just your implication that long hair = good hair = sex for everyone.

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"Many others" =/= "everyone else".
"Likely" =/= "will".
"Much greater" =/= "everyone else".

I phrase everything I say with precision.
There was no implication.
No statement of fact.

My hair is sexy. I am cute. My eyes are hot/gorgeous/awesome.

The ladies said those.

Oh yes, a very major one. "ahaha you're so funny!"

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Originally Posted by Merlock

"Many others" =/= "everyone else".
"Likely" =/= "will".
"Much greater" =/= "everyone else".

I phrase everything I say with precision.
There was no implication.
No statement of fact.

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You were backing up an opinionated statement with equally opiniated support. Your implication that many people will like your lovely locks still stands. Many implies a significant number. I'm aware there is no statement of fact (impossible when describing one's own traits) and that your opinion is flawed, despite what you say.

Also, take what I say/type with a grain of salt. 'Long hair = good hair = sex for everyone' was an exaggerated point. If you had said 'good hair might appeal' as opposed to 'likely', I would've taken it differently. If you had said 'people who can appreciate hair' instead of 'much greater circle of people,' I would've taken it differently.

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Originally Posted by Merlock

I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others, seeing how growing it and taking care of it takes effort and it makes quite an accent to one's image.

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Insta-Bias. Just add opinion.

I hate to say this because everyone has lol but my eyes.
People love my accent, I live in South Africa but I lived in the Uk for 11 years so yeah . . .
Oh another one, you know when you look at old painting like victorian ages and all the women look the same. One guy said I had some of those features, Does that make me old looking???

Hera, when I think of women from the Victorian era, I think of poise, grace, class and modest beauty (except for the cleavage lol)
I would definitely take what he said as a compliment.

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Insta-Bias. Just add opinion.

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No, you don't get it. I use phrases like "I imagine", "many" and so on when I am not claiming something, thus what I said has no weight whatsoever. I wasn't arguing anything, I wasn't advertising anything or stating anything. It was basically just a post saying, "I think long hair is good and chances are so do other people, but disclaimer: this is just my opinion and I am not implying, trying to convince or stating fact whatsoever".

It's just that I use various wording to write that in a creative way rather than so blatantly.

So I did indeed say "good hair might appeal..." but worded it differently, and combined with the overall tone of my original post, that's basically what was meant.

Maybe you should add a disclaimer to your every post to show that nothing you say can be held against you.

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Btw, are you still in Russia, Merlock?

I like my ears.

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Originally Posted by mysterious dreamer
Dinaric Alps stretch across the Balkans and yes, that's true. I'm teased that I'm short with 5' 10" and, believe it or not, there are many girls who are taller than me.

5' 10" isn't THAT bad (I think you know that), but I know a guy in my grade who SAID that he is 4' 10". That's what I call short. Does that make you feel better? I think he's the shortest guy I know

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I have no problem with my height, I'm just a little below the local average. :) Except that I sometimes get teased for going for girls taller than me but that's just a part of the fun. :D

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I have no problem with my height, I'm just a little below the local average. :) Except that I sometimes get teased for going for girls taller than me but that's just a part of the fun. :D

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I know this other guy, an old neighbor, who is short too in my grade and he's the shortest person, I think, ever on his BB team!!!:banana:

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Hera, when I think of women from the Victorian era, I think of poise, grace, class and modest beauty (except for the cleavage lol)
I would definitely take what he said as a compliment.

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Aw thanks Zhaylin :hug:

my tummy!! have a six pack and love to show it off!! thanks yoga and pilates!!!

Welcome lost!

My humor.

thank you for the welcome!!!

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I like my ears.

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i have cauliflower ears =(

http://www.ghorayeb.com/files/CAULIF..._22006_066.jpg

Gotta stop letting people hit you!
http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e27/shiftld/ear2.jpg

My eyes and my pretty mouth.

My eyes and general niceness.

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i have cauliflower ears =(

http://www.ghorayeb.com/files/CAULIF..._22006_066.jpg

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Whoa can you hear okaY?

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Originally Posted by Merlock

Lengthy excuse

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Okay. I never said you stated, argued, advertised, convinced, masturbated, and so on... I was disagreeing with your opinion, and that was that. Or - for your perspective - I was disagreeing with the way you worded your opinion, you creative genius you.

And damn, grasshoppa, how old are you if I may ask? Cauliflower ears are meant for 25+ boxers and wrestlers. :P

I dunno, no one has ever really complimented me on anything.

I like my hair, but that's probably just me. Most people just say I'm gay.

*sigh* people.

I've gotten the way I walk thing. Ears commented on once, that was weird.. They're pretty small and delicate. And smile, if I ever smile enough so that my dimple shows.

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I've gotten the way I walk thing. Ears commented on once, that was weird.. They're pretty small and delicate. And smile, if I ever smile enough so that my dimple shows.

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Your voice is incredible. :smitten:

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I've gotten the way I walk thing. Ears commented on once, that was weird.. They're pretty small and delicate. And smile, if I ever smile enough so that my dimple shows.

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Your voice is incredible. :smitten:

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Dimples are better.

When she laughs, and they combine... :bowdown:


Damn, we SO sound like stalkers here. :eek:

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When she laughs, and they combine... :bowdown:

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Agreed.

Yup. Well... She already knows that I stalk her, so it's okay.

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My hair is sexy. I am cute. My eyes are hot/gorgeous/awesome.

The ladies said those.

Oh yes, a very major one. "ahaha you're so funny!"

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None of this happened.

I get my hair. I don't know if we can do non-body related stuff, but if so, I get my clothing style the most.

Bah... my taste in clothes is non-existent lol. I wear whatever I'm comfy in for the most part.
And my hair... I would be bald if such was socially acceptable. I do nothing with my hair except pull it back in a pony tail and wear a bandana over it.

I like long hair on both men and women, I just don't like to be bothered with it myself. It always falls in my eyes or tickles my neck or shoulders or face.

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Originally Posted by Zhaylin

Bah... my taste in clothes is non-existent lol. I wear whatever I'm comfy in for the most part.
And my hair... I would be bald if such was socially acceptable. I do nothing with my hair except pull it back in a pony tail and wear a bandana over it.

I like long hair on both men and women, I just don't like to be bothered with it myself. It always falls in my eyes or tickles my neck or shoulders or face.

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Haha, same here, except for the bandana part. I like having long hair, but I hate having it in my face or on my neck.

My sense of humor. It connects me to people that are completely different from me.

Being bat-shit insane.

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Being bat-shit insane.

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I like my lips. Their not Angelina Jolie or any thing their just nice lol

I liek eyes.

Well I'm really nice and very gentleman like.

I guess they'd also like my nice personality and that I can be really funny sometimes.

But my looks aren't all that great :(