Thread: Tell me about a positive trait you have that you think is attractive.

Originally Posted by Merlock

But aye, technically, I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others...
...
But good hair is likely to appeal to a much greater circle of people.

Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed

I'm not jumping on the fact that you have long hair, just your implication that long hair = good hair = sex for everyone.

"Many others" =/= "everyone else".
"Likely" =/= "will".
"Much greater" =/= "everyone else".

I phrase everything I say with precision.
There was no implication.
No statement of fact.

My hair is sexy. I am cute. My eyes are hot/gorgeous/awesome.

The ladies said those.

Oh yes, a very major one. "ahaha you're so funny!"

Originally Posted by Merlock

"Many others" =/= "everyone else".
"Likely" =/= "will".
"Much greater" =/= "everyone else".

I phrase everything I say with precision.
There was no implication.
No statement of fact.

You were backing up an opinionated statement with equally opiniated support. Your implication that many people will like your lovely locks still stands. Many implies a significant number. I'm aware there is no statement of fact (impossible when describing one's own traits) and that your opinion is flawed, despite what you say.

Also, take what I say/type with a grain of salt. 'Long hair = good hair = sex for everyone' was an exaggerated point. If you had said 'good hair might appeal' as opposed to 'likely', I would've taken it differently. If you had said 'people who can appreciate hair' instead of 'much greater circle of people,' I would've taken it differently.

Originally Posted by Merlock

I figure long hair is an attractive trait in general, and while I do find long hair attractive myself, I imagine so do many others, seeing how growing it and taking care of it takes effort and it makes quite an accent to one's image.

Insta-Bias. Just add opinion.

I hate to say this because everyone has lol but my eyes.
People love my accent, I live in South Africa but I lived in the Uk for 11 years so yeah . . .
Oh another one, you know when you look at old painting like victorian ages and all the women look the same. One guy said I had some of those features, Does that make me old looking???

Hera, when I think of women from the Victorian era, I think of poise, grace, class and modest beauty (except for the cleavage lol)
I would definitely take what he said as a compliment.

Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed

Insta-Bias. Just add opinion.

No, you don't get it. I use phrases like "I imagine", "many" and so on when I am not claiming something, thus what I said has no weight whatsoever. I wasn't arguing anything, I wasn't advertising anything or stating anything. It was basically just a post saying, "I think long hair is good and chances are so do other people, but disclaimer: this is just my opinion and I am not implying, trying to convince or stating fact whatsoever".

It's just that I use various wording to write that in a creative way rather than so blatantly.

So I did indeed say "good hair might appeal..." but worded it differently, and combined with the overall tone of my original post, that's basically what was meant.

Maybe you should add a disclaimer to your every post to show that nothing you say can be held against you.

EDIT
Btw, are you still in Russia, Merlock?

I like my ears.

Originally Posted by lucidreamsavy

Originally Posted by mysterious dreamer
Dinaric Alps stretch across the Balkans and yes, that's true. I'm teased that I'm short with 5' 10" and, believe it or not, there are many girls who are taller than me.

5' 10" isn't THAT bad (I think you know that), but I know a guy in my grade who SAID that he is 4' 10". That's what I call short. Does that make you feel better? I think he's the shortest guy I know

I have no problem with my height, I'm just a little below the local average. Except that I sometimes get teased for going for girls taller than me but that's just a part of the fun.

Originally Posted by mysterious dreamer

I have no problem with my height, I'm just a little below the local average. Except that I sometimes get teased for going for girls taller than me but that's just a part of the fun.

I know this other guy, an old neighbor, who is short too in my grade and he's the shortest person, I think, ever on his BB team!!!

Originally Posted by Zhaylin

Hera, when I think of women from the Victorian era, I think of poise, grace, class and modest beauty (except for the cleavage lol)
I would definitely take what he said as a compliment.

Aw thanks Zhaylin

my tummy!! have a six pack and love to show it off!! thanks yoga and pilates!!!

Welcome lost!

My humor.

thank you for the welcome!!!

Originally Posted by Shift

I like my ears.

i have cauliflower ears =(

Gotta stop letting people hit you!

My eyes and my pretty mouth.

My eyes and general niceness.

Originally Posted by grasshoppa

i have cauliflower ears =(

Whoa can you hear okaY?

Originally Posted by Merlock

Lengthy excuse

Okay. I never said you stated, argued, advertised, convinced, masturbated, and so on... I was disagreeing with your opinion, and that was that. Or - for your perspective - I was disagreeing with the way you worded your opinion, you creative genius you.

And damn, grasshoppa, how old are you if I may ask? Cauliflower ears are meant for 25+ boxers and wrestlers.

I dunno, no one has ever really complimented me on anything.

I like my hair, but that's probably just me. Most people just say I'm gay.

*sigh* people.

I've gotten the way I walk thing. Ears commented on once, that was weird.. They're pretty small and delicate. And smile, if I ever smile enough so that my dimple shows.

Originally Posted by Xox

I've gotten the way I walk thing. Ears commented on once, that was weird.. They're pretty small and delicate. And smile, if I ever smile enough so that my dimple shows.

Your voice is incredible.