What are your thoughts?....

I found this forum because I was hunting for more information on Lucid Dreaming due to a series of precognitive dreams I've had. I've been lucid dreaming for as long as I can remember and I have no one close to me to talk to this about since my metaphysical beliefs, when voiced, are generally met with raised eyebrows and half smiles. So despite the fact that actually writing this has suddenly become intimidating, here goes....

The Dream:
I'm walking in front of the Masonic Temple in the city I love and live in and the man I love and hate and everything else walks up to me and tells me he has something to show me. He then proceeds to lead me through seven temples, explaining the purpose of each one as we go along. Each of these temples is hidden in a normal looking building. Then we walk into this red brick Victorian house which leads to a staircase extending into a perfectly clear blue sky. Eventually we come to a woman in greek garb who welcomes us to the feast. We walk into another temple, much like I would picutre Mt. Olympus, open to the sky with pillars and a black and white checkered marble floor. Someone is speaking but I don't pay attention because all of the sudden the one who led me here is gone and I'm looking desperately for him. Then the sky turns to night and the most amazing ambient IDM [a type of techno music] is playing and I get lost in dancing, forget that I was looking for someone, and dance, and dance, till I fall. When I fall I reach out for the person next to me, and it's the man I was looking for. He grabs my hand and throws me off of him and starts to yell at me for reaching out to him, albiet unknowingly, and I wake up.

The Rest:
Fast foward to a year and a half later. The things this man taught me save my life, literally, and turn me around 180 degrees from where I was. I learn that we all create our own realities, and begin in depth studies of the metaphysics. Also, I start reading about metaprogramming (the programming of the brain). On Halloween, I attend the yearly rave since I've gone every year for five years. I enter myself into a trance dance state, am completely meditating, and I come to on the ground with someone yelling at me. I look up and it's him. He's going off about how I can't grab for him everytime I fall, and how we can dance together but not touch because he can't handle the energy yet. I just cry. When he sees my face covered in tears he stops completely and walks away.

This is not the only dream like this I've had about him. Not only that, but if we sleep in the same house, we share dreams, and always wake at the same moment. This is freaking me out. Lucid dreaming is one thing, but I can't even find information on this type of phenomena anywhere. I'm confused. I'm scared. I'm intimidated, and it's made it hard to lucid dream because of the frequency of these dreams that come true that he's in. What in dreams is going on here? Anyone? Help, please. Can this really be happening?

Dream sharing does occur on occasion. I assume you have talked to him and verified that both of you are sharing the same experiences?

There are a number of thread at this site on dream sharing. Search for Dreamscaping and Dreamwalking.

On a side note, I have been working for months now to experience what you are talking about with other people. So far, a big fat zero.

You are experiencing something rare. Make the most of it because it is special.

Yes, I'm sure we're experiencing the same thing. However, it's unwelcome as of right now. We're in the middle of a fight right now.

What about the precognitiveness of the dreams?....

This is something people are trying to achieve?!!!.....Maybe it's just our feelings toward each other, which are muddled at best, but we'd both like to rid ourselves of this at this point, not continue. On a side note, we're not the only two to experience this in our group of friends. Max, it's been six of us at once.

Thanx for the input bro. Hope you have better luck with achieveing this state. Try falling in love with another lucid dreamer, it helps/hurts. That's the best I can offer.....

both precog and shared dreams occur to others, but the reason that there is no real documented evidence or articles written about them is cause science finds it soo easy to put speculation in the way...i have had both precognative dreams and ive had a shared dream or two before...but what you're getting is extraordinary,...its just odd that you want it to stop, and it wont...maybe there is a reason you two are being forced to share a dream? our subconcious know more than our conciouses, and since it is that part of us that creates/controls the dreams we're in, it is your subconcious that is putting you in the same dream as him, and likewise for his subconcious...there is probably a reason...maybe you need this? think about...only you can come up with these answers

Sometimes I thimk I'd prefer a lie to the truth.... Then I think some more.... You're right, maybe there is a reason.... But then the question that applies is.... How do I go about finding out the reason without him... Now that we're fighting.... or is it even worth finding out....