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Oh great. Now you've embarrassed him and he's going to leave the forum, or possibly create a new account, leaving this one with only TWO posts. Just 'cuz he wanted to know about masturbation in dreams....
Though, admitedly, it IS a funny idea. WHY? OH THE HUMANITY!
...but I wonder if it would make you go blind.
Hey, new to the forums and site but a very experienced lucid dreamer.
anyway, assuming the masturbation question is just out of curiousity.. yes, it's entirely possible to masturbate, have sex, etc etc during a lucid dream. Why you would want to is beyond me though.
This is assuming that you don't get too excited since surprise/excitement can often terminate a dream you're currently having.
I totally concur. My obscure point was simply that lucid sex-play makes a lot more sense to me, at least, than solo activity. But maybe I'm missing something?
Yeah, I guess the curiousity factor could have it.
Fun (and disturbing) fact of the day: Male bears prefer masturbation to sex.
wow, bears masturbate...
Well one doesn't have to masturbate alone. Perhaps one would find it erotic to do it in front of another in a dream. Or in front of others, plural. Or with them. Or mutually with them. Or on them?
Not that I'm really into any of that. I'll have no responses to any pointing and laughing at Ex Nine.
I haven't read the 4 pages thus far, so I apologise if someone has mentioned this already:
One possible method is this: Photo Gazing
Except, instead of using a photo, try a small picture of your favourite porn pic :D
I think people have errotic dreams no matter what anyways. Guys get boners during the night every night, so I'm guessing that's from errotic dreams.
It is possible to do anything you want in a lucid dream. You are limited only by your imagination and the amount of control you have while in your dream.
Although I would prefer to either float or fly after becoming lucid, I have had lucid sex dreams with multiple orgasms that were better and more powerful than having sex in the physical, mainly because in the dream world you are not limited by your physical body, as you can virtually do anything you want, and feel anythnig you want, once you learn to control the dream.
Although I will agree that bringing sex into a lucid dream can many times cause the dream to end, this does not have to happen, as it only happens if you allow yourself to become too excited about what you are doing.
So enjoy yourselves. There is a whole world of safe sex out there just waiting for anyone willing to work hard enough to become lucid and control their dreams, and this is one of the main advantages to having a lucid sex dream. You needn't concern yourself with getting aids, getting someone pregnant, or even getting emotionally involved with someone.
You are only limited as to the amount of enjoyment you can derive from your dreams by the amount of control you have in your dreams.
Although sex can be great in a controlled lucid dream, I still prefer to rise above the physical and either go floating or flying somewhere, because that to me is the most liberating experience of all. But to each their own. :D
hello,back again,just went through hurricane wilma,and the eye passed over my house.
then afterward,we had a hurricane party with shrooms.i met with alien beings and negociated tradeing some of their technology for some of ours.i think i had a lucid dream,but im not that good at recalling them yet.i know i didnt get the chance to masterbate.i still havent gotten that flying thing down either-chow
Leo Volont
your a bit of an asshole really
To increase your frequency of errotic dreams try using the dream-reentry technique.
When you wake up from a dream with an attractive member of the opposite sex, go back into that same dream with the intention of controlling it this time.
To do this start by reviewing the dream in your mind like a daydream, only while doing this start changing the dream a bit to the way you want it to go, all the while remembering your intent to enter the dream again and be lucid this time.
By reentering a previous dream this way and controlling it, the dream should not come to an end when you reach the sex part since you have been in control of it the whole time. :D
Yes, it is possible to masturbate in dreams. I did it not too long ago in a (non-lucid) dream. Why? Because I was horny and I thought it was reality.
Haha, I've never thought of that before. I usually just get a girl in my dreams. Kind of dissapointing though I presume.
So, what you are saying js that thinking about 'assholes' is what could give you more eroticism in your dreams. Well, I shouldn't be surprised... you are, afterall, English.Quote:
Originally posted by Ants
Leo Volont
your a bit of an asshole really
Theres nothing quite like a sweeping statement stereotyping 60.5 million people to procure everyones respect.. :D
Leo Volont
Leo I have to say while I tend to disagree with your opinion's that was a great comeback :DQuote:
So, what you are saying js that thinking about 'assholes' is what could give you more eroticism in your dreams. Well, I shouldn't be surprised... you are, afterall, English.[/b]
As for the subject of this post, I'll say to increase errotic dreams, look at photo's of whom you'd like to play with before going to bed, and just before going to sleep start to build the base of the dream in your mind.
Someone once said, "One nice thing about egotists: they don't talk about other people." I guess there is an exception to every rule.
There is no exception, Leo Volont IS talking about himself. In every piece he writes. He opens up the turmoil in his soul for all to see how fucked up it really is in there. I believe he speaks from his own experiences although he seems not to be able to admit to this(?), as he aims arrogance and disgust to those around him for their actions through is ingeniously witty sarcasm.
Leo, why are you so disgusted by yourself? Do yourself a favour...when you go to sleep tonight dream of your deepest most lustful fantasy, get whipped by your grade three math teacher while bent over her desk...whatever...and you know what, not only will you love it, you'll wake up with a smile on your face and a fucking sense of humour at your wild escapade and you won't feel the seedy repulsion you felt about yourself after your drunken orgy experience...and you know why? BECAUSE IT WAS A DREAM!!!! Take off the chastity belt man, you're missing out on a whole other world.
Getting back to the topic of errotic dreams.
The most powerful dreams I have ever had have been lucid and full of passion and wild emotion. From mouth watering lust to sobbing, bitter saddness. These dreams often lead to some sort of more wakeful state as I believe I try to deal with these powerful feelings. Usually after a minute I am able to focus on returning to sleep and enter back into the same dream, or to start anew. This doesn't always work, but I've never regretted attempting the dream in the first place, nor the experiences that occurred. I have visited with deceased relatives, and had wicked sex including orgasm (any women who can dream control to the point of orgasm, please respond...i've never met anyone who can do this and I consider it to be an incredibly powerful skill, considering the anatomy of a woman, and the fact that most men can't figure it out with two hands AND a penis?)
For me, it helps to daydream/fantasize before bed about the experience you wish to have. Dream control takes work and concentration and I'd love to hear the experiences of others. Errotic dreams are an incredible way to explore your fantasies without having to deal with the reality of the consequences. ie. don't sleep with your neighbours husband, just dream about it!
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So, what you are saying js that thinking about 'assholes' is what could give you more eroticism in your dreams. Well, I shouldn't be surprised... you are, afterall, English.[/quote.
Your one of those old codgers that sit at bus stops moanin about everyone int ya?
Just remember everyone,,, He who agners you, CONTROLLS YOU!
Some say things just to start fights, why give in to it and do what they want?
I just smile :lol: see..? moving on... :okbyenow:
im severly retarded
I am sofa king we todd did. I'll do anything for a klondike bar, but I won't do that.
With your 50 or so years of dreaming I would think you had learned the value of respect. I agree that name calling (like someone calling you a moran) is very childish. But is your reply any better? You, in a very intelectual way called him a pervert. Dose putting the insult in this manner make it any better? You have come to your opinions about this trough life experiance. Dose that make it worth more and more corect for him? You might be the center of your univers. But you are not the center of his. Are you sure what is right for you is right for him? This is not ment as a attack. This is mearly something I ask you to consider. Has your opinion about sex always been the same? How about religion? Would you respect anyone pushing down your opinions as they view theirs better then yours? If you cant respect the question, why bother awnsering? To make people feel bad? To feel superior? I have only been dreaming for 24 years... Should I respect you more then you respect me? Dose age make you a better person?Quote:
Originally posted by Leo Volont
Oh, I've been criticized for not being constructive and helpful, and for this I apologize, and so I will give you my sincere advice on how to have more errotic dreams.
First one needs to liberate oneself from every trace of personal dignity, self-esteem, or even the spirit for decent personal hygiene. *One must really degrade oneself. *The lower the better. *First, get rid of that bed. *One needs only the bath tub, which one can fill full of whatever slimes and excrements that are on hand. *That should be able to set the tone for one's basest instincts. *And then one can get in the mood by taking into one's every available bodily orifice all manners of living squiggly things. *But that is only preparation for the body. *One needs to prepare one's soul. *Toss out all literature with any higher appeal. *One should concentrate on only the most purient of literatures. *Here there is a slight problem as the best literatures for this use are often illegal or are considered so far below decent taste that no reputable retailer will carry them. *But I'm sure if one roots around on the seemy side of town long enough one will find literature sufficiently focussed enough so that your every thought is as low as it could possibly go.
That should be enough to do it. *Now simply fall asleep and you will have the dreams of your lifetime.
I'm just apalled that he considers eroticism to be debased and grotesque.
Let's all just chuck away our physical love and affection we express with our partners. It's low and fleshly. :roll:
PS: I'm in this thread as a member, not a moderator. I'm not even assigned to this section ;) So no screaming for moderation or screaming that I'm moaning please...
hey guys been gone a few days, :P
me no like you leo, you poo head.
*waits to be called a moron*
anyways this post is very graphuc, for those who are offended by this sort of thing look away and miss this post
anyways on to the subject, ive found that after masturbating once at night erotic dreams are hard to come by, but by a combination of what i now know as "Wild" and a masturbation session after i wake up before going down again erotic dreams come really easily. and lucid dreams with them. personally i used lucid dreams for sex for a long time, ( between ages 13 - 16) and i had lots of fun and found that the loss of lucidity only comes with the sex for the first few times and after a while it becomes like any other lucid activity, easier to do.
these are just my opinions and experiences so if you want to flame please feel free.
smoochies
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