Originally Posted by
BugFolk
I've tried similar things as above trying to gain control, but find whenever I try to control a dream and force an expectation, it seems to do what it can to make up its own objective and follow that. If I resist, the dream may go along with me for a while, but it will work its way back to whatever objective it set. Sometimes it will also change objectives depending on how far I stray from its intended path. When it makes those changes they very seldom are favorable. It usually ends in frustration or going through some kind of never ending loop until I wake up. In note to making up checkpoints, I've seen the dream thwart those too if it is determined enough. I can read my alarm clock, read writing, turn on light switches, possibly even see my image in a mirror if that particular dream is bent on keeping me in line.
If I can, lately I've been just kind of going along with the dream's objective. if it shows me a plot, I try to follow along with it. if it sends me to another scene, i try to work out ways to get back to the original scene. The dream then throws all kinds of random events or places. Sometimes I can get back to the original plot, and sometimes not. Doing this I seldom may be aware I am dreaming, but I gain the feeling like I am really living in that setting the dream setup for however long it lasts, and I notice sometimes the more I go along with it, the more able I am to observe the setting, remember details, and make decisions, as well as gain self awareness, and sometimes even remember things from previous dreams related to the setting (if it is a recurring setting).
I'm kind of on the fence. In some ways I'd like to have more flying dreams and dream control, but in the same way, whatever is going on is interesting, letting the dream do what it wants and "living" in its set of physics and "reality". I've seen some really neat things and experienced some great stuff, just doing that. Things like flying, listening to music, visiting surreal buildings and cities, being different animals, seeing mythological creatures, traveling into space, seeing planets, and lately communicating with a figure who I used to be afraid of and be chased. it seemed the more I expected control, the less I got. I wanted to stop being chased. I demanded answers. But when I gave up and let the dream guide me, that was when I realized I could chose to carry on with the dream goal without being afraid. In doing so, the dream being finally spoke with me. His answer was random and genuine. Just throwing this out, my ongoing experience and challenge with dream control.
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In re: the banana dream:
Maybe if you get a banana instead of a cold soda, just go along with it, see what happens. Okay you got a banana. Try peeling it. What does it peel into? Maybe it will peel into a house? What is in that house? Try walking through some rooms, noting what the place looks like. The walls, the curtains? The view outside? maybe it is raining? Maybe it is outer space? See what you can do from there. Go along with it. Maybe you don't get the cold soda you're craving, but the experience might be worth it.
For whatever reasons looking up at the sky in a dream almost always seems to generate really vivid, strange and beautiful imagery worth looking at whenever given the chance.