Sex the Motivator

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06-17-2007, 03:16 AM
becominglucid

Sex the Motivator

Here is my two cents on dream clarity.

Last night I had a lucid. One where you just realise you are dreaming. This really hot girl I knew was standing next to me, and I had unfinsihed business from a previous dream. Unfortunately, I lost all clarity, the image went fuzzy and blurry and diffcult to make out, like being really drunk. Then it went black. There was nothing there, and I was on the verge of waking up. But I wanted it back, so I didn't get excited or disappointed. I just concentrated on willing the dream to return. After a few seconds, it did - it formed with complete clarity. And you can guess what happened from there

Anyway, it lasted about 2 minutes, becuase I was walking around looking for another girl (yes - the focus of my LD's are rather predictable.) The dream started to fade again, I tried to stop it but this time it didn't work. I woke up with a buzzing in my ears and sleep paralysis.

So basically, this just goes to show that if you don't get excited, frustrated, worked up, and don't lose hope, it is easier to maintain and re enter a dream. Perhaps a tip for other newbies like myself?
06-17-2007, 06:16 AM
Clairity

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Originally Posted by becominglucid

So basically, this just goes to show that if you don't get excited, frustrated, worked up, and don't lose hope, it is easier to maintain and re enter a dream. Perhaps a tip for other newbies like myself?

And a good tip it is.. all very true! :D
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06-17-2007, 08:52 PM
Selmuir

Ill take that in mind for my 1st LD ( if i get one )
06-17-2007, 10:41 PM
KuRoSaKi

Yes about what you said that is very true. But if you decide to step on the good foot and do the dirty in a dream what kind of feelings do you think that brings up?

1) Very Happy
2) Excited
3) Anxious
4) Worked Up

Hmmm... those all sound like the kind of things that would end a dream. So if you are going to find the nearest opposite (or same whatever your preference) sex and bump and grind be ready for what comes or you may find your dream will end rather quickly.
06-17-2007, 11:26 PM
Man.vs.Mind

use ctrl+f type sex find girls lol
06-18-2007, 11:30 PM
DCK7

I'm always in the public with girls so I can't seem to have lucid sex. Anyone have tips?
06-19-2007, 08:13 AM
HockeyIsLife

do it in public?
06-19-2007, 11:42 PM
Xaqaria

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Originally Posted by HockeyIsLife

do it in public?

I second
06-20-2007, 02:09 AM
DCK7

lol, I will try it tonight! Who cares if people stare?
06-20-2007, 06:40 AM
Faticus

Well im pretty sure its called indecent exposure or however u spell it but not the best idea
06-25-2007, 01:34 PM
Truffles

Quote:

Originally Posted by HockeyIsLife

do it in public?

Haha, I third. Who cares if it's in public? It's a dream!
06-30-2007, 10:44 PM
Keurslager

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Originally Posted by Truffles

Haha, I third. Who cares if it's in public? It's a dream!

I fourth.... Okay that sounded stupid, but soon as I get the chance to get some dream poon tang, nothing can stop me :p Anyone ever get their LD to continue for a long time after lucid sex? Mostly I don't even wake up, I just feel so laid back that I lose lucidity :(
07-01-2007, 07:51 AM
LucidMike14

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Originally Posted by Truffles

Haha, I third. Who cares if it's in public? It's a dream!

True that. Haha yeah I don't mind what DCs think of me
07-01-2007, 09:11 AM
KuRoSaKi

If your uncomfortable doing it in public you could always take em' by the hand somewhere "Secluded."
07-04-2007, 05:39 AM
Xanous

Nice post. I have the same thing where it gets fuzzy and then dark then I open my real eyes and I am awake. I will try to remember not to my eyes but go back to the dream. The problem is I aways want to remember the the dream before I lose it and I sit there and try to replay the dream rather then re-enter.
07-07-2007, 04:08 AM
TalkingHead

One time I stole some guys girlfriend in a dream and starting doing her right their on the spot. Unfortunately she wasn't quite willing and then her (Huge) boyfriend starting chasing me. I ran away and then flew off but all that stress made me wake up. I'll be more careful next time...
07-08-2007, 01:14 AM
tekkendreams

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Originally Posted by Brandon Heat

Yes about what you said that is very true. But if you decide to step on the good foot and do the dirty in a dream what kind of feelings do you think that brings up?

1) Very Happy
2) Excited
3) Anxious
4) Worked Up

Hmmm... those all sound like the kind of things that would end a dream. So if you are going to find the nearest opposite (or same whatever your preference) sex and bump and grind be ready for what comes or you may find your dream will end rather quickly.

is there a way to maintain the LD though if you bump and grind? there must be .
07-12-2007, 05:17 AM
Volume

Quote:

Originally Posted by DCK7

lol, I will try it tonight! Who cares if people stare?

ever seen Crank?