ex-girlfriend charged with "seduction"

I dreamed I was in a big room. Not sure where I was exactly,but it had to have been some kind of business. I didn't get the feeling it was a restaurant. Wherever I was,it was empty,or so I thought. The walls were wood-paneled and there were booths lining one wall. The room was very faintly lit,the ceiling had these little round niches in it where the light bulbs went. At first I thought it was just me in this place,but I looked again and saw my ex-girlfriend sitting at the nearest booth. Her hair was pulled back and she was wearing a floral print blouse,black pants,a necklace of large pearls and large black plastic-framed eyeglasses. This struck me as odd since she doesn't wear glasses in real life. She was reading some paperwork. When she noticed me there,she handed me the papers. I read through it but didn't see anything unusual so I handed it back to her. She said to me,"They're trying to stick me with seduction charges,they're saying I seduced you,blah blah blah. And I just don't have time for anything else right now," I was standing in the middle of the room. I walked over to where she was and kissed her on the forehead,saying,"I'm so sorry,baby. This shouldn't have happened and it's all my fault,"

This is not the first dream I've had about her. I had two last year within a month of each other. As with this one,in those dreams I had a feeling something may have been going on in her life,that she wanted to tell me something and that it might not have been good. Obviously because the situation is what it is,I can't just hit her up,email her,etc. without coming across as nosey,meddling or worse. And,more to the point,I'd hate living the rest of my days knowing I had accidentally caused her marriage and family to break apart.

What I am thinking is that part of you secretly wishes to seduce your ex-girlfriend, although another part of you knows that would not be right, and so you project the seduction charges onto her, when really it is you who is thinking those thoughts - when you say that it is all your fault, in a way it is true, in that the dream is all in your mind and thus the thoughts of seduction and ex-girlfriend are your fault - though of course should not blame yourself because it is your subconscious thoughts which you can't control, and your conscious waking self points out that you wouldn't want to cause her marriage and family to break up, so it is not like you consciously want these dreams, can't help it. I frankly do not think that the ex-girlfriend was really trying to tell you something in these dreams, but rather that you wished you could tell something to her.

Do you have someone special in your life now? If not, your dreams may actually even not be so much about that particular ex-girlfriend, but more about the general ideas of "girlfriend" and "seduction" and the desirability thereof, sure relationships are complicated, and bring a lot of complexities with them including feelings of guilt at times, but relationships are desirable - we are social human beings who long for intimacy, and I suspect these dreams show that you long for it, and if I may suggest, in waking life someone other than your ex-girlfriend greater intimacy with someone else will hopefully resolve the issues of dreams of her. However, if you do have someone else in your life now, is there something about that particular ex that was special that you miss about the current significant other in your life?

Did you want some business to be satisfyingly resolved? Something you wanted to see clearly in a big way regarding her?
Perhaps part of you felt she seduced you, influenced you, in something, perhaps the break-up. And maybe this has been consuming you or your time.
But you saw you were sorry for it. That it was your fault and it shouldn't have happened.

So your previous dreams could have been trying to tell you something along thse lines about her regarding your relationship to her, if it was not resolved like you seem to have done better now.