wedding dream

hi everyone, i'm new to this site. found it while looking how to interpret my dreams.

anyway, i dreamt that i was getting married. my mom and dad were with me, plus a couple of my closest friends back in high school. we were on our way to the wedding place, which happens to be in an island. to go there, we need to ride a chopper which was already waiting for us by the beach. my white gown was very long and i had to pull it up to keep it from getting wet. i was being accompanied by my mom and dad to the chopper when i tripped in the water and got drenched all over.

my makeup got messed up so i had to redo it by myself. my face turned blue as i was putting on the foundation. in an attempt to erase the blue foundation, i went to the bathroom to wash my face. my dad was helping me to remove my makeup.

we were able to get to the island on time. i was so happy and i feel so beautiful in my dream. the wedding went well but it didn't show who my husband will be...though i have a feeling that it is my current boyfriend.

background:
i am in a relationship right now and before i have dreamt of this, my boyfriend and i were talking about marriage and living together. he's not yet ready to get married he says and because of that, i got worried and kept on bugging him about this issue.

about my mom and dad, i am currently in another country so we haven't seen each other for more than a year. i am not on speaking terms with my dad because i still find him irresponsible as a father.

my friends in the dream were my high school buddies. one of them is my best friend who got married last year and i haven't seen them all for almost 4-5 years i think. actually just recently, they have been a regular character in my dreams.

Hi Mystique,

Reading this dream, I am wondering if you are madly in love with your boyfriend and want to marry him, the man who isn't visible in your dream, or if you just want a WEDDING with all the trappings? More than the usual trappings, really, as this helicopter makes me think of episodes of "The Bachelor" or "The Bachelorette." Or that you must have in mind marrying someone with a great deal of wealth, like in a romantic movie.

As one who was married at nineteen, I would never do that again! I don't recommend anyone get married so young, or have children as young as I did. I think it is important to start developing yourself first, and know yourself first, beyond romantic fantasies. That's not all we are!

The dream seems to be trying to warn you away from this wedding plan, by first having you all in the water (being all wet is being unconscious about something, or being immature in your approach to it), then having the make-up come off. (We make-up fantasies... they aren't reality based.) Then you turn blue in the face. ("Blue in the face" can be about stuffing rage, or dead people turn blue, or it's alien to humanity, or it's unnatural... any way I play it, it's not good. It could also say this is a recipe for depression, having the blues.)

I used to have my own email list, and there was one young woman there who had wedding dreams every single night! I got so tired of all her wedding dreams. She had no boyfriend, no one she loved, but all these detailed wedding dreams.

Besides not usually doing nightmares, I usually skip the wedding dreams and boyfriend dreams, simply because I'm so far removed from that age and stage of life. But here, really, it feels as if you want the wedding itself rather than the marriage to a beloved. Marriage is a lot of work, and needs to be entered into without the blinders and the fantasy.

Your boyfriend probably also needs to have his feelings that he's not ready respected. Be grateful he knows himself that well.

I hope that helps!

You stumbled............ ............ you made a mistake
You got all wet.................... you were full of nonsense
makeup messed up.................... you have to fix mistake yourself
the foundation of something
is blue related to your dad ................ you are sad about your relationship with your dad

You were trying to remove the blue.... you want to end the sadness


Worried about the time............ you are worried about time in this
........................................... problem with your dad.
..................................... Must not be late ending
...................................... the sadness?

Read the second column. I don’t think this dream is really about your wedding.
I think your subconscious believes there is a mistake/problem/sadness in your dealings with your dad. Maybe you had harsh words? Maybe he wants to talk to you but you have cut him off?

I hope you find healing. Sometimes parents screw up really badly but you will have to learn to forgive him to heal yourself.

I agree with Iris about not getting married at an early age.

hi guys, thanks for the reading.

yeah...i'm really not sure if this is about marriage or my relationship with my folks. i haven't spoken for my dad for a long time. my mom is also having problems with him because he's flirting with some girls.

i agree that the chopper could mean as a means of escape. i had a lot of problems last year and during those times i had dreams of my childhood friends and high school buddies back home. i'm really not that young anymore, so i guess i feel like my youth is about to end and i wish to go back to that time, with less problems and worries.

Well many dreams like this just tell us how things are. They just repeat reality... but in a symbolic language. Thats really the case here - you want a more serious relationship ... yet he doesn't - hence he isn't directly there... you want things to be perfect... yet there are problems on the way there. I think you are confident it will work out but you have your doubts...

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