Hi Mystique,
Reading this dream, I am wondering if you are madly in love with your boyfriend and want to marry him, the man who isn't visible in your dream, or if you just want a WEDDING with all the trappings? More than the usual trappings, really, as this helicopter makes me think of episodes of "The Bachelor" or "The Bachelorette." Or that you must have in mind marrying someone with a great deal of wealth, like in a romantic movie.
As one who was married at nineteen, I would never do that again! I don't recommend anyone get married so young, or have children as young as I did. I think it is important to start developing yourself first, and know yourself first, beyond romantic fantasies. That's not all we are!
The dream seems to be trying to warn you away from this wedding plan, by first having you all in the water (being all wet is being unconscious about something, or being immature in your approach to it), then having the make-up come off. (We make-up fantasies... they aren't reality based.) Then you turn blue in the face. ("Blue in the face" can be about stuffing rage, or dead people turn blue, or it's alien to humanity, or it's unnatural... any way I play it, it's not good. It could also say this is a recipe for depression, having the blues.)
I used to have my own email list, and there was one young woman there who had wedding dreams every single night! I got so tired of all her wedding dreams. She had no boyfriend, no one she loved, but all these detailed wedding dreams.
Besides not usually doing nightmares, I usually skip the wedding dreams and boyfriend dreams, simply because I'm so far removed from that age and stage of life. But here, really, it feels as if you want the wedding itself rather than the marriage to a beloved. Marriage is a lot of work, and needs to be entered into without the blinders and the fantasy.
Your boyfriend probably also needs to have his feelings that he's not ready respected. Be grateful he knows himself that well.
I hope that helps!
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