My Ex took My daughter!!!Help

Okay this is the Haunting dream.

I'm at my dads house laying on the floor on my back.I am scared of him in my dream but not in real life. My ex walks in and Is totally being sweet, smiling just extremly happy in a flirty way.I feel paralyzed lying on the floor On my back He's standing over me and I ask him one question Can i see my little girl? He says sure and he calls her into the hallway I get up with so much fear and go to the hall way and she hugs me but in a wierd way kinda like she was just doing it to be polite.I felt such distance from that little girl It was scary.When I first saw her I was thinking this isn't my daughter.Like she didn't know me at all! I'm so freaked out about this...Please help

the history on me Is my ex took my daughter 3 years ago and he wont let me see her...I have no idea where he is...

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Originally Posted by chanelartist

Okay this is the Haunting dream.

I'm at my dads house laying on the floor on my back.I am scared of him in my dream but not in real life. My ex walks in and Is totally being sweet, smiling just extremly happy in a flirty way.I feel paralyzed lying on the floor On my back He's standing over me and I ask him one question Can i see my little girl? He says sure and he calls her into the hallway I get up with so much fear and go to the hall way and she hugs me but in a wierd way kinda like she was just doing it to be polite.I felt such distance from that little girl It was scary.When I first saw her I was thinking this isn't my daughter.Like she didn't know me at all! I'm so freaked out about this...Please help

the history on me Is my ex took my daughter 3 years ago and he wont let me see her...I have no idea where he is...

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She was 4 years old when i last saw her...

Well, isn't that called kidnapping? Aren't the police involved?

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Originally Posted by Dannon Oneironaut

Well, isn't that called kidnapping? Aren't the police involved?

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Yes they are and so are the family courts!!!He Is in violation of the court order now.But there is a fine line when a biological parent takes the child Because In california Both parents have joint custody until the court determines otherwise.So technically If he's still in the state it's not Kidnapping.he would just be in violatation of the court order...which is serious but not as bad as kidnapping.But I'm sure he will just buy his way out of it also!!!I'm still waiting for my attorney's to get the court date.

I don't care which state you live in, you have a right to see your daughter, there is no way to buy yourself out of that. Even if you don't have joint custody you have the right to know where she is and to see her. If the court is involved then they must know what his address is. I can't believe that you haven't seen her in three years and you don't know your rights yet. I find that hard to believe. You have joint custody but you would be arrested if you took your daughter away from him and didn't let her see him. You would be arrested first, and then you would go to court. If he is in violation of a court order he will be arrested. If this is a true story, you have enough reason to get full custody and a restraining order against him.

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Originally Posted by Dannon Oneironaut

I don't care which state you live in, you have a right to see your daughter, there is no way to buy yourself out of that. Even if you don't have joint custody you have the right to know where she is and to see her. If the court is involved then they must know what his address is. I can't believe that you haven't seen her in three years and you don't know your rights yet. I find that hard to believe. You have joint custody but you would be arrested if you took your daughter away from him and didn't let her see him. You would be arrested first, and then you would go to court. If he is in violation of a court order he will be arrested. If this is a true story, you have enough reason to get full custody and a restraining order against him.

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Being "on your back" and "Paralyzed" is the condition you feel you have been in. Being not able to do anything much to get your daughter and custody, makes you just feel paralyzed, and him "over you", is quite literal as well as a pun. He IS lording it over you it seems.

good luck, hope things improve for you.

Thank you very much!!!Have a blessed day...

In real awake life... your ex kidnapped your daughter?!?! Dont bring that to this forum, jesus.