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back on topic answering your question "Why do I like boys" you can only know try putting some work into it on figuring why you do. In my case I do to and thats because of their personality and appearance too :P.
Though anyways I'm into younger guys 12 -> and up (also animals) I've had a very hard time accepting it specially because I always went to religious schools, and anyways I was this way since I have memory o.O but now I can cope with it, I have some theories why it can happen yeah.
Children can and do have sexual feelings. Often these feelings aren't associated with actual acts, like sex itself. Often they're only feelings.Quote:
Originally Posted by SyluxJr
Even if you argue that children should be allowed to make their own decisions, an adult having sex with a child is wrong. Most children think of all adults as authority figures who are supposed to protect them, and even if a child seems to willingly have sex with you it may be out of fear, or out of some idea that they have to do whatever adults tell them to do, and they'll probably have to deal with extreme feelings of guilt and shame later. It's taking advantage, and it will lead to psychological issues in those children later in life.
Is it wrong to be sexually attracted to children as long as you don't do anything? If that's the way you feel, you can't help it. Just make sure you don't end up obsessing over that feeling to the point when your desire to satisfy it outweighs your courtesy for the wellbeing of others.
Dude, I'm a lesbian and I think some MtF trannies can be really hot. For example, Isis, a transgendered contestant that was on America's Top Model (not that I watch that show, btw-- no hetero). You couldn't even tell she used to be a man.Quote:
im not homo sexual, i dont find any attraction to guys, but i think i would do a M>F tranny if she had looked enough like a girl
I love you.Quote:
Originally Posted by ebullere
Haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandform
I like boys as well.
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Originally Posted by CarmineEternity
I'm really suprised... I figured this thread would be full of 'fa*got!' and 'f**kin pedo'... yet it turns out this board is relatively understanding.
As far as I go, I'm not sure how I feel about this... I'm pretty good with kids, and most call me the big curly guy... or just curly (I'm real tall, with long curly hair)They're fun loving, funny, kinda cute... but i'm not sure I could say, even to myself, that there is any REAL atraction to boys... I just couldn't see my self doing anything like that, even if kid was into it... it would be super wierd... it's really wierd and kinda disturbing for me to even comprehend.
p.s. even before puberty males and females can reach orgasm... just to clear up that argument. And I remember even when I was young (7-12) kinda messing around with me and others. So the potential is there IMO, but it still a very VERY touchy subject... expecially if the child is hurt emotionally or physically. 'Cause I know of 'couples' who are 11 or 12 yo and already kinda dipping into experiences like that.
Still, super touchy... and SUPER illegal. Child molesters are looked down on even in prisons by their inmates... and many are constantly harrased... or even killed!
Big no no in western society!
I'm not gay, just extremely attracted to transvestites. I like them because of their femine qualities. I am attracted to feminine qualities period.
but one reason why i like guys, is they are much more friendlier to me. I can't even look or say hi to arandom woman without being called a creep or a loser. Guys are generally ok with me just being friendly. which is why i have more guy friends than girls.
I agree. Femininity is hot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Man of Shred
I'm not sure this is about liking boys as much as it is about liking the same sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by mindwanderer
Everywhere except DreamViews :DQuote:
Originally Posted by mindwanderer
<3
Paedophilia is the new gay.Quote:
Originally Posted by Maeni
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Originally Posted by Idolfan
My thoughts exactly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandform
I agree. It's funny, because so many societies practised pederasty in the past, I wonder what made it retreat?Quote:
Originally Posted by Idolfan
am i the only one that noticed this?
maybe you should talk to someone about that, bro.Quote:
Originally Posted by mowglycdb
So yeah back ontopic
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Idk why you like boys jake. I like girls myself but i would imagine you could like boys because of the familiarity.
And ive got no problem with that. You can sex who ever you want. Although if its an animal i might call you a weirdo. and babies are a no no. But if you want to kiss guys, thats fine with me, for for it..
Lack of pederastic relationships = More people get married = Supression of the pederastic archetype = Lack of a male hero figure (fathers suck) = More people develop an attachment to their deity = The church makes more moneyQuote:
Originally Posted by Kromoh
You can narrow down pretty much any cultural change to natural selection by the church.
Or, people just started to find pederasty pretty much disgusting.
I think I must be just a natural born boylover. And provided he loves your touch too, I think it's absolutely beautiful...
Most people who call themselves pederasts or boylovers say it is a completely different sexuality to just being gay. I know where they're coming from.
Most boys aren't interested in having sex with older guys. 90% of them aren't interested in having sex with guys in general. Which means the majority of cases end up being like this:
(Don't listen to this if you are disturbed easily. Some rather disgusting stuff is discussed in this video)
Why don't we practice this in our society? Because it isn't easy to find a child and an adult who can have a relationship that isn't damaging for the boy's mental health.
(Well, at least not at young ages. 16 year olds and 18+ seem to hit it off fine.)
So I take it that the majority of contacts are acts of MOLESTATION? Only because they are the only ones that actually get REPORTED?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandform
Mind you, 'molestation' can mean anything from being fucked up the arse six times a day trapped in a cellar to being kissed by a clergyman these days.
Well, thanks for providing a completely irrelevant example. So, I guess if I were to show you a testimony of a woman who was fondled by a man, we should all start saying that straight people are EVIL? GREAT fucking logic!
So, if an adult and a child had a close relationship (yeah, it's nice to start out with one of those before you start groping people), you think that would play out much the same way would you?
The reason I find this so insulting is because you know you are being ignorant by framing paedophiles under this molestation case, but you are doing it because you KNOW that everyone will agree with you, because of the innately negative stigma associated with paedophiles?
I think that in Ancient Greece if a man were to just come up to a boy and start touching his pee pee parts without consent, THAT would raise a few eyebrows even in those times, and the thing is... YOU KNOW IT!!!
I have never even proposed that it is 'okay' for someone to make sexual advances on a child. It is only 'okay' if it does not harm the child and it is beneficial to both parties. If it is not, then FAIR DOS. The point is you're deliberately and KNOWINGLY generalising child molestors with paedophiles. How would you like it if I generalised rapists with straight people? You fucking wouldn't, so don't do it!
Ps. anyone who was disturbed by that video is seriously weak minded. Welcome to Earth, haven't you fucking seen it before?
Ha ha! Sorry, I have a tendency to post before I watch the whole thing.
(but everything I said in the last posts still counts Sandform the Ssssssssnake)
I pissed myself when he said he kicked the guy in the nuts XD XD XD
If it were me I'd go along with it. Then once he had his cock in my mouth I'd chomp down on it as hard as I could and LACERATE it!
His mother's a FUCKING BITCH. If she said that to me I'd punch the bitch in the face and then piss on her, fucking imboselic prick. No seriously, I hope that she died/s REALLY FUCKING PAINFULLY.
I LOVE fantasising like this! It gets me high!
I mean like the Pope today! You don't have a clue. I hope I am never in any distance of him because if I was it would bring out a part in me that I couldn't live with afterwards. The stuff I imagine myself doing to him scares me...
How can you not follow the logic? Under 10% of boys are even possibly interested in having sex with older men, of this less than 10% men have to decipher which boys are and are not interested, which, if you didn't know, is hard to do even among grown men, and then after all of this once they find a boy that could want them, the kid has to like the guy. Mind you this is all in the hopes of finding one boy.
Meanwhile most child molesters will molest many more than just one boy before getting caught. In fact it goes as high as an average of over 100 boys molested per offender.
I think you're confusing my statements about the people involved and the actual cases involved. I'm not framing anyone, I'm saying that it is quite difficult to find a boy who wants to partake in these kinds of relationships, which is why you don't see these relationships often.
I find nothing weak minded about being disturbed that a young boy has to live for years being raped and constantly sexually abused...
That's fine then...Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandform
I just thought you were confusing paedophiles with child molestors; which isn't really that uncommon even for smart people.
I believe that you are right as well. That just leaves the boylover with an insatiable dilemma, that it's just a retard sexuality.
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I guess then it must just be exercised in different ways. Surely a man and a boy can at least have a loving relationship... even if it's not sexual?
I also have to protest that I do believe kissing is still appropriate. When I was a boy I would kiss anyone; it's just a natural form of affection. Surely we can't go as far as to say that such a proportion of boys only would want that? Taken away from, environmental gayfearing factors, that is.