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      "Why do I like boys?"

      What is it about them?

      The familiarity? Sense of commonality?
      The innocence?
      Not having to say much? Understanding without words?
      Common ground in gender, in existence?
      You merely have to change your point of view slightly, and then that glass will sparkle when it reflects the light.

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      Mabye something a little less pure? mabye something ulterior, you might just want to be diffrent?
      or mabye its just the way youre wired, with no way to to change it, and no real reason why...

      i think its just because we can, so we try it. and suddenly were hooked.

      just my opinion, nothing to be taken seriously.
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      This thread would be funnier if a catholic priest started it.

      Edit: nn, you're into boys?
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      No mercy for the Catholics... We all know thats a free masonic conspiracy, an attempt to discredit Catholics.

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      Of course, they forced priests to touch little boys.

      I don't blame you, girls are psycho.

      Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.


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      Quote Originally Posted by Jeff777 View Post
      This thread would be funnier if a catholic priest started it.

      Edit: nn, you're into boys?
      This is the internet.

      Everyone's into everything.


      I can't personally get how one can be attracted to boys.

      I suppose I'm just wired tighter than you. But I think it probably comes from some kind of fetishist turn on by being different to what is expected, and a little bit naughty in that sense, combined with an association of boys and sexuality, probably rooting from your own experiments.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Omicron View Post
      This is the internet.

      Everyone's into everything.
      Don't get me wrong, I just pegged him for a straight as an arrow romantic metrosexual. I didn't know he was bi-sexual.
      Things are not as they seem

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      Girls are extremely complicated. I honestly can't tell you why, unless I really got to know you, but to just throw it out there- It's probably the familiarity.
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      I wish I liked them more but either boys arent showering enough or forgetting to put on deodorant!

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      Quote Originally Posted by juroara View Post
      I wish I liked them more but either boys arent showering enough or forgetting to put on deodorant!
      Are you hispanic? If so, I'll add you to my list of crushes.
      Things are not as they seem

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      Cause.

      You're just a little straight boy dipping into the cookie jar. For the entire male homosexual community I say this to you. Get out. We don't want male "bisexuals" slumming it up so they can choose women one day and be like "yeah, when I was younger I experimented."
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      Sandform, at first glance, my original inclination was to respond to you by saying, you can't speak for all homosexuals, and people can do what they want. And to an extent that's true. However, you have a point..

      To ClouD..

      I do not know your age, so perhaps this doesn't apply to you, but it seems to me that a large portion of the youth of both American and European, and hell, even Australian society, male and female alike have really begun dabbling into the rather controversial topic of homosexuality, and a lot of that has nothing to do with their genuine interest in the opposite sex.

      A lot of it is following a trend. Before you blow this off, hear me out. Even if on a subconscious level, young people are falling into "bisexuality" and "bicuriousity" because it has become the new "in" thing. Even for those young people to whom this concept doesn't apply, it is widely known that a large portion of silly fools (primarily in the previous generation) have determined that being a homosexual makes you some sort of outcast, or "messed up" person, which is obviously untrue.

      However, as I said before, even if only on a subconscious level, young people "become" curious about same-sex relations because it's rebellious. It's controversial and "different" and thus becoming the new "in" thing for young people to do, just so that they can feel like they belong to something. To me, that's called being a poser, which don't get me wrong, I am not saying about you at ALL.

      Just take a real close look at yourself. Don't answer this question out loud. Answer it completely in your mind. I'm a stranger on the internet, whose opinion doesn't matter. But do you REALLY like boys because you are actually interested in them, or because it's experimental, exciting, new, and rebellious?

      If you are genuinly bisexual or even homosexual, awesome, more power to ya. Just don't try to be bi or gay just because it's the new trend. Homosexuals suffer a LOT of hardships, and I'm sure must take offense to people saying they're bi or gay when they really aren't just because they think it's "cool".

      Just my two cents.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Rainman View Post
      Sandform, at first glance, my original inclination was to respond to you by saying, you can't speak for all homosexuals, and people can do what they want. And to an extent that's true. However, you have a point..
      I was really just being silly. I don't care what ClouD does lol.

      He can sleep with as many little boys as he wants, as long as he and his boy are of legal age.

      In fact, my initial thought to this post was about him liking "little" boys, because when I think boy I think child, and when I think guy or man I think adult or at the legal age limit.

      I think ClouD may have been talking about his pedophilia tendency.

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      The question is more general, not only for opinion from someone's inference into my attraction, but also how they feel about their own, and others.

      I am myself, that's enough for me to be than worrying about what sexuality I am defined by what I am and am not attracted to, which does change constantly.

      I'm not for pedophilia, nor against it, nor really know what the definition actually consists of. To be honest it doesn't really bother me.
      You merely have to change your point of view slightly, and then that glass will sparkle when it reflects the light.

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      I am myself, that's enough for me to be than worrying about what sexuality I am defined by what I am and am not attracted to, which does change constantly.
      Brilliantly written, and a manner of thinking that I wish more people had in common with you.

      I guess simply put, pedophilia is generally speaking any sexual act with children. Now that I think of it, I guess it was a bit unclear as to if you were referring to your sexual orientation in terms of gender or if you meant "boys" as in children.

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      I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.
      Of course, this doesn't count for instances where 19 year olds have sex with 17 year olds. That's why it gets a lot of people confused as to where to cross the line.
      When I close my eyes it looks like this...


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      Both girls and guys can be very complicated or easygoing.
      Yes I've encountered some of the typical man-woman miscommunications before with female friends and lovers, but then again I can't say the male friends I have have all been very easygoing, respectfull people either.

      In general I guess you'll always have more male friends and mates, than female lovers. Cuz love isn't as common as friendship. So I guess many men look at their 5 love relationships with women, of which 3 were problematic and then look at their male 27friends and mates, of which 4 are problematic.. and then draw the conclusion "women suck"

      Well I can say the same for men. But then there are enough men I really like. That are really kind, honoust people. And there are also enough female friends and lovers I like and that are kind, honoust people.
      And that's how you oughta look at it. As people. Forget judgement by gender.

      There's crap people, and there's nice people, and everything in between.
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      not to overestimate the Value of our Concrete Knowledge;"Common sense"/Rationality,
      for doing so would make us Blind for the unimaginable, unparalleled Capacity of and Wisdom contained within our Felt Knowledge;Subconscious Intuition.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Maroon_Sweater View Post
      I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.
      Strictly speaking, pedophilia is the sexual attraction to prepubescents, however many people use the term for sexual attraction towards any minor. Hebephilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to children during puberty. Teleiophilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to adults.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Rainman View Post
      I guess simply put, pedophilia is generally speaking any sexual act with children. .
      No it isn't. It's the sexual attraction.

      Quote Originally Posted by Maroon_Sweater View Post
      I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.
      Of course, this doesn't count for instances where 19 year olds have sex with 17 year olds. That's why it gets a lot of people confused as to where to cross the line.
      No it isn't. Pedophilia is the sexual attraction to children.

      Quote Originally Posted by John11 View Post
      Strictly speaking, pedophilia is the sexual attraction to prepubescents, however many people use the term for sexual attraction towards any minor. Hebephilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to children during puberty. Teleiophilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to adults.
      Hah, I didn't know about the last one XDD

      Quote Originally Posted by Rainman View Post
      Just take a real close look at yourself. Don't answer this question out loud. Answer it completely in your mind. I'm a stranger on the internet, whose opinion doesn't matter. But do you REALLY like boys because you are actually interested in them, or because it's experimental, exciting, new, and rebellious?
      That can be pretty hard to answer, actually... Dream guide!

      I must add to it, then, I do get thrills from being a pedophile, I mean talking to people about it is thrilling, "how will they react", sort of exciting.

      But it has also gotten me into sitting around, worrying about how fucked up I might be, and that is honestly not fun.

      I still can't say for sure, maybe it's just for the thrills and giggles.
      Hopefully. I would like to revert some day and go "Oh haha, I was so stupid back then. Tsk tsk."

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      Quote Originally Posted by Maeni View Post
      That can be pretty hard to answer, actually... Dream guide!

      I must add to it, then, I do get thrills from being a pedophile, I mean talking to people about it is thrilling, "how will they react", sort of exciting.

      But it has also gotten me into sitting around, worrying about how fucked up I might be, and that is honestly not fun.

      I still can't say for sure, maybe it's just for the thrills and giggles.
      Hopefully. I would like to revert some day and go "Oh haha, I was so stupid back then. Tsk tsk."

      I'm sorry, did you just admit you like little kids? Bro, that is pretty fucked up.
      When I'm at the pearly gates, this'll be on my videotape. Mephistopheles is just beneath, and he's reaching up to grab me. This is one for the good days, and I have it all here in red, blue, green... You are my center when I spin away, out of control on videotape. This is my way of saying goodbye because I can't do it face to face, I'm talking to you before... No matter what happens now I shouldn't be afraid because i know today has been the most perfect day I've ever seen.

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      Yeah, and I've done that a few times already here on Dreamviews...

      Actually, I think I'm polluting too many threads with it...
      But I can't really talk about it anywhere else.


      Also, you're the first person ever to tell me it's fucked up. I don't quite get that.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Maeni View Post
      Yeah, and I've done that a few times already here on Dreamviews...

      Actually, I think I'm polluting too many threads with it...
      But I can't really talk about it anywhere else.


      Also, you're the first person ever to tell me it's fucked up. I don't quite get that.

      I think it's pretty messed up, because children don't naturally have sexual desire. So, they are pretty much raped to please a couple of weirdos with hairy asses. I'm sorry but pedo's sicken me.
      When I'm at the pearly gates, this'll be on my videotape. Mephistopheles is just beneath, and he's reaching up to grab me. This is one for the good days, and I have it all here in red, blue, green... You are my center when I spin away, out of control on videotape. This is my way of saying goodbye because I can't do it face to face, I'm talking to you before... No matter what happens now I shouldn't be afraid because i know today has been the most perfect day I've ever seen.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Maeni View Post
      Yeah, and I've done that a few times already here on Dreamviews...

      Actually, I think I'm polluting too many threads with it...
      But I can't really talk about it anywhere else.


      Also, you're the first person ever to tell me it's fucked up. I don't quite get that.
      plz make a thread about it.
      :3

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      I normally get along much better with girls. I feel like they are about 17% more likely to laugh at my jokes, for whatever reason.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Zera View Post
      I think it's pretty messed up, because children don't naturally have sexual desire. So, they are pretty much raped to please a couple of weirdos with hairy asses. I'm sorry but pedo's sicken me.
      That's why I stick to lolicon.
      Don't worry, I won't do anything to anyone.


      This is why we have lucid dreams.
      EDIT: *stares at his "Lucid Dream Count" and sighs heavily*
      EDIT2: Actually, sex with children is far from my first priority when I get lucidity working, that would be a waste atleast for the first few ones... I'm not that perverted.
      EDIT3: Now that I think about it, I might not even want to do that.. At all.

      Quote Originally Posted by Carôusoul View Post
      plz make a thread about it.
      :3
      Wut?
      About pedophilia? Or me being one?

      ... Or about lolicon maybe? *perverted face*
      .. Or not, rules and all.
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