Haha! Emotional attachment! That dream character is mine! :P
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I'm certain that I played the game so much and saw him on actions a lot. Maybe it get absorbed into my subconcious minds. Never expected him to appear in my dream naked, haha. Who knows once you play that game so much, you get to dream about any sexy characters there.
I did the other night, was with a group of friends, and a girl. Never seen her before in my life, but we were flirting with each other and my friends were moaning about it !! (get a room etc!)
That's kind of interesting how many people have experienced this. I never have, but I imagine it would feel awesome. After all, emotions feel so much more vivid and powerful, as does sex, in a dream, so I'm guessing falling in love would make you feel like a Disney princess ;p
I have a husband in real life I love, so I don't think I could ever do this in dreams, but I do get a lot of attraction and 'emotional attachment' in my lucids sometimes, to the point of chasing after it again later.
I've not had a girl yet, mostly because I keep moving around, but I have had recurring dreams of a girl who I cannot ever remember her face. When I wake up, I remember feeling the most powerful feeling in the whole world when I was dreaming... it inspired me to go and find it in real life, but does that type of feeling exist in real life, or is it just my brain only pulling the highest positives from love and combining them into a new "dream love" that I can't find in real life?
Either way, it has inspired me to seek love in real life.
I've had this happen with both real people and others whom I've never met, however with the "fictional" one, I don't think it's been reoccurring. These types of dreams have also been rather sporadic.
Falling in love in a dream is such an amazing thing. I often find that certain dreams result in a "hormonal high" (as I call it). More often than not I still feel like I'm in love for the entire day afterwards; just like the dream actually happened no matter if I realized it was fake or not. I have had the feeling of being let down, but not to the point of emotional breakdown.
I've had this experience twice that I can remember. Both times it gave me a hormonal high, as well as the encouragement I needed to make a move, and both times I managed to get pretty close to the people in question.Quote:
Rileyduggan: But sometimes you will have a love dream about someone who you know, and could get with. One of my earliest girlfriends, I asked out only because I had a dream about her, and it gave me the confidence to really pursue her and go for it.
10/10 would make a move based on a dream again. :chuckle:
Yep. Had one of these the other day ("A Girl Named Ki" in my DJ) and it was totally fantastic. I woke with a hormonal high and still can feel it if I think about it.Quote:
Rileyduggan: One is where you fall in love with someone you don't know, this can be the most wonderful experience of your life...
I've had that exact same experience (without the crying) and conclusion as well :)Quote:
itachix: I have had a dream Where I was in love. I cried the next day basically, and vowed to find someone who makes me feel that way who has that aura about her.
Sigh. My DC husbando doesn't accept my love. He appeared but when I tried to give him a cheesy hug, he dissappeared instantly. It's not like he appears often too. Need to train more. :P
So, i had a very random dream where my teacher and I had fallen in love. It evolved so gently and he treated me with such care. However, it was obviously a dream. Though this did not stop me from waking up with butterflys in my stomach and a glimmer of hope that this would actually happen (deep down i know it wont).
To make things better i had him that day too. I GOT NERVOUS AROUND HIM and then thats where i realised i had actually kinda fallen into some silly love with him and boy did it depress me as i know it will not happen.
Does anyone have any tips on dealing with this :') i couldnt stop thinking about him today, i got all nervous when seeing him and i felt like bloomin crying all day cause i know it's just in the land of dreams! I feel like ive gone through a whole relationship and bloody break up! Someone please help :')
^Mizzyme, the best I can come up with is to keep the experiences separate in your mind. Remind yourself that you can have such wonderful experiences in each world but they are separate and not likely to line up with each other...especially in the case of a relationship that you might consider forbidden or unhealthy. When you see him you can smile inside at the wonderful experience you had in dreamland and then refocus on what other relationships might actually be healthy for you in the waking world if you are ready for a relationship. Sweet dreams! :)
I have had one amazing dream experiencing something close to love.. I created a life/relationship with the most captivating, intelligent, and attractive man. It was only one dream, and the physical arousal and emotion was so real. In my LDs.. I try to find him (Micheal) and sometimes open doors to no where, or stay in the hallway and call his name. I have never seen him since, but I do not think I will ever give up. So what if it is a figment of my imagination, it felt more real than life itself...so fuck it.. :mwahaha:
Mizzyme!,
I have had a series of dreams like this when I was in high school. His name was Nathan and he was my etymology teacher. The girls and I always joked about how he reminded us of Prince Charming. Blonde hair, blue eyes, and extremely nice ass.. ANYWHO... He was always really deep with eye contact, and one day he and I were in class alone. (my school only had 50 people, and about 5 to 6 people in each class, very personal environment) I am do not recall what our conversation was about but he ended up saying to me.. "You have eyes that could kill a man" under his breath. I of course did not reply and I acted like I didn't hear it.. Little did he know..he sent me on weeks of dream agony. I felt he was everywhere, and I had really odd dreams that a 17 year old shouldn't have about her teacher. Immediately.. it was hard to talk to him, or keep eye contact. He didn't know that he was doing this to me, but I just couldn't hide my desire.
My method of dealing with it... I embraced it.. I knew I could never be with him, or act out my desire, but I made it my own little game. Let it be your fun to imagine whatever you like. Use your dreams as a canvas of how you would like to express your feelings towards him, but keep it to yourself. Your own little romance novel. However...The last thing you would want is everyone gossiping and embarrassing you on your teacher crush. It is natural to have these types of feelings. Keep it to yourself because.. A time from now, the feelings wills subside and you will laugh! Just as fogelbise said.. let these experiences be your own and do not let reality & dreamland collide..
Hope this helps!
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i just had worst of the worst dream. I had best career i would ever want and i was even somewhat famous. Which clearly is total opposite of my real life. But neverthless I fell in love in my dream with a woman. I cant be sure if i ever met her in real life. I went forward and asked if she wanted to go for a date. She then answered to me that she supposes she could. Ofcourse i know that sounds damn fishy. But as weak personality as i'm in real life i went for it. And then the best friend of mine in that dream comes up out of nowhere and takes her away from me like candy from a children. then i see them talkin with each other and having fun times with each other from far. And they seem to be totally oblivious of my existence.
Dunno about others but this is just shattering experience and not a first one of those neither, just starting to get fed up with these kindof dreams.
I've had the same dream lover for the last 15 years or so dream about him several times a year at least, I wake up feeling all warm and happy inside, when i got married irl, i was a bit concerned and stopped dreaming about him for awhile, but now i started up again . Feels a bit odd sometimes because its a real person but i haven't spoken with him for about 15 years, i do wonder if he ever dreamed about me not because i think we should be together, perhaps in another life :-)
I have had this happen. I had a really weird dream about a girl I had only said like a couple sentences to. Then after I woke up. I didn't move for three hours as I sat in pain over the crush I had on her. But I knew she had a boyfriend. In my opinion. Since it is your brain creating the dreams it can put a seed in your subconsciousness that you are in love or have a crush on said person.
I've had it happen a few times, but I wake up feeling disappointed that it wasn't real rather than sad or anything.