ok, im trying to get into the whole meditation thing. a lot of the websites i checked out said that sitting in the lotus position is really helpful and effective. but i can barely get my legs to bend that way. i can, but it hurts like a bitch, and it slips out after a couple seconds.
what im wondering is, is the lotus position really so effective that its worth learning and getting used to? (because if it is, i will do it) and if so, how would i go about getting my body used to sitting like that?