There's someones I can never be with or be close too in my life. Shes my whole world and I wanted to lucid dream so I can see her. So we can spend time together even if it is my imagination. Can I do this. Can I see her in my dreams.
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There's someones I can never be with or be close too in my life. Shes my whole world and I wanted to lucid dream so I can see her. So we can spend time together even if it is my imagination. Can I do this. Can I see her in my dreams.
You can do whatever you like Stoned once you are lucid you can change the color of the sky if you really wanted to.
Sure, it is possible to summon a dream character just like her. But if u mean having a relationship with her, in your dreams. It's not really healthy for you, in the sense of it's not 'reality'. It's not really her.
I know it's easy to say there are more fish in the sea, but it does get better. I've been in your situation. Best thing u can do is just have fun, get your mind of her. Cause in the end you may end up with depression, if u just keep thinking about her non stop.
Do I sound bad if I say the "her" you see in your lucid is actually a projection? She's not really "her", she's just a reflection of who you think she is.
I also have this question in my mind for last few days.
When you lucid dream well enough, then yes you can be with her in your dreams. I don't think it is unhealthy as other people have said. You are just indulging in your fantasies. Have fun!Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
You can, but you need practise first. If you get good at summoning, you can just find her easily anytime you want.
I agree, there is nothing unhealthy about it. Why shouldn't you enjoy your dreams? It's your own private world... for the most part. I have shared lucid dreams before and had someone say something to me about it, without my having told anyone. So I say the possibilities are endless as to what you can do with your mind! Best wishes.
I didn't mean that it's unhealthy to dream about a girl u like. I was more talking about the fact that you do it to a point, where it starts to interrupt your social life. Nothing wrong with having some fun in your dream, but it is a dream in the end. And it's important to understand this.
Just assuming for a moment that he isn't doing any shared dreaming with this girl, if that's even possible. Not sure if u guys see where im coming from? Just saying that in my opinion it is healthy but only to a certain point.
I get you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ekyu
It's the obsession for a person that's unhealthy, a person whom you'll never be with. It's as bad as idols' fantasises. If she's a real life acquaintance, I would rather you confess or made an effort to be her friend or more than just a friend.
this person isnt a person in reality tho. thats the thing.
You can try. I wouldn't stop you from doing it. But I'm not sure how effective it will be on a long run.
Well who is she? Explain the whole thingQuote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
Then who cares, do what you want ^^Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
You can use your dreams for whatever you like.
Does it matter? I hear of people flying in lucid dreams all the time. We can't really fly, we never will and it's a mere fantasy. Does that mean we should stop being obcessed with it in our lucid dreams?
IMO it's not really that unhealthy unless someone develops, or already has, some kind of mental illness that leads them to reject other people in real life just because they have an imaginary person to come back to in lucid dreams.
I'd say go on, fantasise about her all you want to your heart's content. After a while you'll probably discover that you get bored of her anyway and the feelings for her dissipate, even more so if you stop seeing her for an increased period of time. For peace of mind I'd advise you to confess your feelings to her as well. Maybe when she rejects you, you'll see that she's not worth your attention; after all, if she wouldn't be good enough for you.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but IMO if someone doesn't want you, after numerous attempts and efforts on your part, they're just not worth it.
Yes you can, I did a very similar thing in real life, and It even helped me push myself so that I tried being with her in real life, but then that turned out really bad and started the greatest downfall in my life. So I don't really recommend it because Having someone always in your dreams, and knowing that they'll be gone in the morning, Starts to have a depressing side effect.
You can legitimately do anything you please. A very common thing I do is spend time with the people I love in places that we're generally unable to go to. Lucid dreaming is your free plane ticket or even space ticket to anywhere in the multiverse, my friend.Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
As weird as it sounds her name is Rukia kuchiki and she is from a tv show.
Go to a doctor now. Unless you have met the person, the are some serious problems here. You need help.Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
EDIT: I just googled the name. Its a cartoon character. Can't tell if this is a troll thread or not?
If this is a serious thread, and you're talking about your ex-gf or something, then I would suggest using lucid dreaming to get OVER her, not be "with" her.
If you are really in love with a cartoon character and this is ruining your life, then you do have a serious problem. Whether or not lucid dreaming could help you with that, it depends how you would utilize it.
If this is a troll thread, then please go away.
I am both deeply concerned and sincerely entertained. Well done.Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
yeah and you can bang her too
No it is not anything to be suprised about, the young around us older men enjoy japanese cartoons. The style lends to devloped heroic beatiful fantasy people. As an adult I still find some of the cartoon charectors alluring.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThAtaInTmE
Now we arevtalking about going aware into the world od dreams, why the hell shouldn't he plan on having a lovely exotic fantasy cartoon woman for is date? Sound just as valid as any other cool dream.
I would agree that if she was a real person something may be in need of counsaling.
I understand.Quote:
Originally Posted by StonedSoulReapr
She looks lovely, I see why now.
I've been through something similar, to love a person I can never be with, she's real but our paths will never meet, after sometime you need to realise this love bears no fruits but it's good to have something to hold on to.