Please help! Dream attacks me when i become lucid!!

I have this problem when ever i become lucid my dream characters attack me or do something really disturbing that makes me really angry.
few examples to give you the picture.
1. I became lucid and this dream character started acting weird came in front of me started shitting right in front of me!
2. Again lucid. Was at party dream characters started barfing as soon as i became lucid started hitting them to get out. woke myself up.
3. Became lucid in some kind of field. Really scary dream character came attacking me with blades lost lucidity.
4. Was at beach with my sisters became lucid because i saw huge shoe under water then my sister tried to drown me i could breath underwater but then she hat me with something and i felt real.
5. Became lucid. dream character told me that he wont let me control the dream. Tried few times didnt work got angry and started fighting.
6. Became lucid and suddenly this huge truck came driving towards me and i lost lucidity.
7. Saw my brother do something disturbing and then my mom died and i lost lucidity.
I could go forever.
WHAT COULD THIS MEAN!!! any tips would be great. My dreams are normal nothing disturbing until i become lucid. I never have the time to bring more awareness and understand what it really means to be lucid. Dream character stop me before it happens. This is so fucking annoying please i need help. I never heard this kind of problem and the thing is i never except them to do anything i just ignore them until they do something really weird that i just dont understand. Every time i become lucid i except it to be normal good lucid dream but i have no control.

Maybe it's related to your everyday approach to life? Perhaps you get annoyed too easily at others, or are too concerned with how others may act or are acting? I find that as my way of being and looking at life changes, the nature of my dreams change along with it. Or maybe you have some other deep-seated psychological issues related to control or even maybe to excrement and barf xD Just speculating aloud.

This thread made me laugh pretty hard xD, but it does not seem like you thought it was as funny as i did. So... i think this happens just because you think it will happen. How you can stop this way of thinking, i do not know. Just be confident, and know that it is your dream and that you can do what you want. If it this keeps happening and you feel it is too much. maybee you should take a break from lucid dreaming, and try again after some weeks have past?

I agree with nisset1. The fact that these things only happen in lucid dreams makes me think that they're happening because you're expecting something disturbing to happen while you're lucid.

I recommend reading this so you could further understand why these things are happening. http://www.dreamviews.com/dream-cont...m-control.html

Try visualizing the ideal lucid dream scenario. Go to sleep knowing this it's possible. Changing the expectation of how you're lucid dreams are going to go will solve your problem.

I think you may need to lighten up. When someone starts barfing or shitting right in front of you, laugh at it. I don't see why you would get pissed at such a thing when you are LUCID and know it's a dream. Are you that uptight in real life? take it easy brah. The worst that may come from it is a lingering stench, that's all :-)

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Originally Posted by nisset1

This thread made me laugh pretty hard xD, but it does not seem like you thought it was as funny as i did. So... i think this happens just because you think it will happen. How you can stop this way of thinking, i do not know. Just be confident, and know that it is your dream and that you can do what you want. If it this keeps happening and you feel it is too much. maybee you should take a break from lucid dreaming, and try again after some weeks have past?

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No it was funny and disturbing:D. But became annoying.

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Originally Posted by na0mi0

Maybe it's related to your everyday approach to life? Perhaps you get annoyed too easily at others, or are too concerned with how others may act or are acting? I find that as my way of being and looking at life changes, the nature of my dreams change along with it. Or maybe you have some other deep-seated psychological issues related to control or even maybe to excrement and barf xD Just speculating aloud.

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Naah. Im really calm person no problem with being annoyed by people. I have changed the way i look at life. I see life exciting and fun:D.

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Originally Posted by Sospiro

I think you may need to lighten up. When someone starts barfing or shitting right in front of you, laugh at it. I don't see why you would get pissed at such a thing when you are LUCID and know it's a dream. Are you that uptight in real life? take it easy brah. The worst that may come from it is a lingering stench, that's all :-)

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I would laugh if i was 100% it was dream. But would you laugh if bunch of people started barfing at you in reality? I know it is dream but im not fully lucid when i realize im dreaming. I dont get the chance to fully understand it in dream.

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Originally Posted by nisset1

TIf it this keeps happening and you feel it is too much. maybee you should take a break from lucid dreaming, and try again after some weeks have past?

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You are probably right. OR!!........ I will use it as dream sign to confirm it is dream when something disturbing like this happens.

Thanks for advice i guess this is problem only i can solve. But dont you think it is really weird? and pretty fucked up:D! I just dont know where this comes from. Maybe my subconsiouss has really weird sense of humor or communicating problem.

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Originally Posted by nisset1

TIf it this keeps happening and you feel it is too much. maybee you should take a break from lucid dreaming, and try again after some weeks have past?

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You are probably right. OR!!........ I will use it as dream sign to confirm it is dream when something disturbing like this happens.