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Has anyone been able to engaged in a full-on intercourse and reach orgasm while still maintaining lucidity ? It seems that most lucid dreamers struggle to stay awake in such situation, and eventually end up waking up before finishing or even starting. So is a lucid orgasm ever possible ?
Yes -- somewhat... I do indeed have sex dreams frequently but I usually just wake up in heat, breathing heavily and sweating and need to do extra to achieve an orgasm. Though honestly my experiences were mostly during regular dreams since I haven't had many lucid dream in general. I did, however, have a couple lucid dreams that were sex related.
I'd say an orgasm and full on intercourse within a lucid dream is possible, I just never had reached release in mid of one. The individuals I have sex with in dreams usually orgasm before I do as well.
I too would like to hear other people responses to this, and if there is any way to achieve such pleasures within a dream.
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Originally Posted by MobianAngel
I have, LD sex is quite short in my experience but I've managed to stay lucid from start to end. It is very intense by the way
The other day I had sex with Emma Watson... haha
It's hard to stay in dream while reaching an orgasm because you have one also in real life (at least according to my experience in non-lucids). So probably you need to practise and learn how to control your dream, emotions and excitement.
Haven't orgasmed in a lucid yet, but was very close in a lucid dream less than a week ago... In non-lucids, I have, and at least some of these were among the best even compared to real life ones! I guess that I still don't have the control to stay composed enough in a lucid to not wake up... lol
I read it as Emma Stone at first, and couldn't believe the coincidence... Had tonight a long dream chain with Stone's Gwen Stacy as my love interest, and you (or at least how my brain imagined you - which is probably 100% false) were there too! (See here)Quote:
Originally Posted by jzinser
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Btw... I do believe in shared dreams! Although I think they are very very rare
Yeah, it can be done! However, it does take some skill. I only had this happen so far a couple times in my life where I "finished what I started" and woke up with cum on my sheets.
I am able to finish about 40% of the time of or so... sometimes it's within 30 seconds. I wake up for a quick pants check then hopefully reenter the uh... dream. Yes reenter the dream.
By the way, forgot to mention that I find lucid sex to be a great opportunity for something more "tantric". Maybe it's because I'm convinced I'll wake up otherwise, but I usually slow down a lot the closer to the "end" I get. It is very fun, and I can definitely stay excited for longer then in real life, like a whole long dream just about that! (had many of these in my teens when my lucidity practice was at peak, but I'm nearly there again!)
I actually have a mustachio IRL, even if not that long! :chuckle:Quote:
Originally Posted by jzinser
I appreciate the answers guys thanks. Although I feel like I need to clear something up that I should've mentioned earlier. I had an accident a couple years back that left me paralyzed from the chest down. I however have had orgasms before the accident, so the feeling of it isn't unknown to me. So I'm just seeking a new way to re-experience sexual sensations through means of, well obviously, lucid dreaming. I've only had a couple of lucid dreams where I was able to run and fly. So given that I'm able bodied in my dreams, I can't see why an orgasm is so hard to achieve (based on what other lucid dreamers say). As for me, I haven't had the chance to try yet, but hopefully I will have fair results.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope that you will achieve the pleasant experience again soon enough. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by BombastiCliches
Your motivation should be definitely stronger than most people! This is the primary factor for success, keep working and you'll probably get amazing results.
By the way, I've heard some really cool healing stories from LD. I haven't tried anything like that but who knows? You could try to see if it helps in anyway!
Also, don't buy the idea that orgasm is hard to accomplish... maybe it isn't that way for you. Don't assume problems of other people that you might or might not encounter :D
I've only had one orgasm in a dream and it was non-lucid. It's definitely possible! And like others have said, for some reason dream sex and orgasms tend to be really intense. As good or better than waking life.
I think that's great to turn to your dreams for these experiences, what a healthy outlet and alternative. I have heard a lot about orgasm and sex after paralyzation and some people learn to orgasm in other ways by stimulation of different parts of their body. I think one of the most popular ways is by stimulation of the ear. So if you have a significant other, good friend, sex therapist, or someone who is willing to explore that with you it might help.
BombastiCliches, like the others said, just keep staying motivated - it's definitely something you can achieve! Also, I have much respect for you... Most of us lucid dreamers do it for the fun or to explore our imagination, your reason for practicing lucidity is much more noble in my opinion, so keep it up!
Yea keep trying I'd bet my life you will be able to achieve it especially since it isn't unknown. Even if it was unknown I assume (with no evidence though) that just based on what you will hear all the time about how great it feels the mind can create a sensation that feels amazing.... But yea it may have to be with another body part like Luna goddess mentioned. You should be good though having the stimulation in that area in the past. Hope the best for ya
A little embarrassed to post this here but I actually achieved one lol. It also carried over into waking in which the climax was resolved....if you know what I mean lol.
With that being said, it's very possible as I've experienced it myself but to achieve higher or deeper levels of it with lucidity will require a great level of discipline.
This is one of those things where we just have to be persistent.
I've orgasmed once or twice during lucidity. I've also woken up during sexual lucid dreams, so I have varied success with this.
I woke up the other night and couldn't get back to the dream :( I guess dream Justin Bieber is still waiting for me for next time
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Originally Posted by jammylammy