Kind of having an issue with feelings towards dream characters

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Originally Posted by gab

What are you really asking?

1. Is it ok for a 18 yr old to date/have a crush on a 17 year old?

Yes. One year difference is ok, especially since she is over a legal age, which here is 16 I believe. Otherwise it would be statutory rape. (both parties agree to have sex but one is not of legal age to give consent)

2. Are you 35 and you ar crushing on a 17 yr old?
She is of legal age and if there is pure love from both sides, who is to judge?

3. Are you 35 and you are crushin on underaged (under 16) and you are asking us to approve it on pretense that you are 35 (18) and she is underaged?
No, that's pedophelia. You go to jail for that.

I'm only saying the #3 because I'm pretty sure that you know that 18 yr old can date 17 yr old. But then you ask "what if I was 35"? Wut? Are you?

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I'm in the 1st position. I'm just asking is an 18 year old starting uni is on the same level as i don't know a 30,35, yr old or whatever crushing on someone who's 17 or something.I don't mean to sound judgemental, but I do think #2 is kind of odd tbh

If it makes you feel better, my departed significant other appears as 7 to 13 year old in lot of my dreams and I don't love her any less. I'm in love with her soul and not her body. We both have very low libido too, so we don't participate in much erotic activites. However, we have gone to hotsprings in a lucid dreams together with age difference. I too take on younger age form in lot of my dreams, lucid and regular ones. I hope you get over whatever you feel conflected about. Of course, if it's fictional characters that makes it even less cause for concern in my opinion. I would still advise you to seek concent from the dream character in you wish to do anything erotic. ^^