bad for your mind maybe?

I just re-read the scientist out to lunch thread. Goose bumps.

I would really like to make a connection with forum members, not for a deep personal relationship, but just to do it and hang out as friends.
I think Jill and I came close a couple of weeks ago.

Seri, I think we all should heed your warnings. Like you, I am an amature scientist and want to explore this from an objective point of view.

Lost Soul :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
I'd come over and give you a hug and a nice back rub if you weren't 1000 miles away.

Thank you very much :happygolucky:

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Lost Soul *:cry: *:cry: *:cry: *:cry: *:cry: *
I'd come over and give you a hug and a nice back rub if you weren't 1000 miles away.

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And married. :-P
Seriously, thank you though. I don't mean to sound all 'pity me' and stuff because that's not the point of me saying all of this. I'm stronger than that. I just don't want to see anyone else hurt, that's all. As much as I complain about the human race as a whole, I still hold a lot of love in my heart for all living things. Ugh... love... I hate that word. There needs to be more words to describe the different levels and kinds of love instead of just one, comfortable blanket term.

Anyway, if anyone wants to find me in a dream, apparently you can just concentrate on me and I'll appear at your beck and call. :roll: It would be really cool to meet you guys though, dream and reality. :)

We should organize a lucid dreamers/crazy people camping trip or something. :-P

ROOOOOOAAD TRRRIIIIIIIIPPPPP!!!!!


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Lost Soul:

I don't think you should give up on love, soulmates, blah, or whatever you want to call it. Instead... just quit looking or caring, and go with the flow. I mean, I still think that my ex may have been my one, may still be the one again at some other time. But honestly... I'm human still, and I just don't care anymore. Sure, it hurts to think about. I couldn't even watch porn for weeks because when I did all I could think about is some other guy fucking my girl. But then I realised that I can't change things, I don't have control over the situation, and to be desperate and sad and weird is lame. So... I still talk to her(she's not pregnant... yeah!), and I just try to maintain a friendship, for whatever it's worth. However, it's definitely not like I don't have my own prospects. As I stated before, I am definitely human, and young, and full of...umm... hormones... yeah... we'll say that. I talk to other girls... work my ways... and simply see what happens. No worries, no regrets. I still strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. So... I'll live, and be me, and do what I do, and just hope that things go well. Not a whole lot else I can do. Just don't give up hope.

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I don't think you should give up on love, soulmates, blah, or whatever you want to call it. Instead... just quit looking or caring, and go with the flow. I mean, I still think that my ex may have been my one, may still be the one again at some other time. But honestly... I'm human still, and I just don't care anymore. Sure, it hurts to think about. I couldn't even watch porn for weeks because when I did all I could think about is some other guy fucking my girl. But then I realised that I can't change things, I don't have control over the situation, and to be desperate and sad and weird is lame. So... I still talk to her(she's not pregnant... yeah!), and I just try to maintain a friendship, for whatever it's worth. However, it's definitely not like I don't have my own prospects. As I stated before, I am definitely human, and young, and full of...umm... hormones... yeah... we'll say that. I talk to other girls... work my ways... and simply see what happens. No worries, no regrets. I still strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. So... I'll live, and be me, and do what I do, and just hope that things go well. Not a whole lot else I can do. Just don't give up hope.

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*Slaps SA five*
You rock.
Damn right I'm not looking anymore. But I have given up. Thus I am not looking or caring at this point. If I meet some guy and he's cute and wants to bang, well what the hell right? I'm still human. I still have my urges. Plus, everyone is doing it so I may as well too. No worries, no regrets. I also still talk to the two big loves of my life, and as far as I know we're still friends.

I'm not desperate and I'm not sad. Weird... well, yeah, I'm weird. I can't help that. :-P Anyway, I'm really trying to see the good in everything (why is that such a struggle for me?). I'm going on with my life, looking for my missing pieces within myself, and thanks to past experiences I have learned very valuable lessons. I hope you have, too, and I sincerely hope that all goes well for you on your life's path. From what little I know of you, you seem like a cool person, strong and sure of what you believe. I hope that you find what completes you and makes you happy someday soon, whether it be this woman or someone/something else. *hugs*

Paperdoll: I LOVE ROAD TRIPS! :D

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I used to wake up drained when I first started having lucid dreams... but only because I used to have three or four each night and I would wake up (and then stay up) in between them. Most of them were so disturbing (apocalyptic, demonic, etc.) that I often didn't go back to sleep until I couldn't keep my eyes open anymore. After I got used to them, they calmed down and so did I. I still have them occasionally, but have learned to deal with them in ways that don't detract from my sleep.

Oh, and sorry for breaking into that hugs 'n' kisses 'n' back rubs TANGENT... Maybe a better fit fer pm?... yeeesh! drama!

As fer the whole soulmate concept... I don't believe in it. I do believe that some people are fortunate enought to meet someone who they were/are able to connect with on that deep of a level where their souls seem to entwine or "become one." I consider myself a romantic to some degree and also believe in predestination, but think that people often take the idea of a soulmate too far.

sorry bout that.
I will shorten that up.

I didnt focus/meditate on the thought of you...Lost soul
I focused on increasing my own ki level, when I transferred to dream though my thoughts came to you and poof.

I said it before I dont think a soulmate automatically completes the parts of yourself you have yet to find or understand.
Those can ony be found within yourself, a soulmate can help you find those peices in yourself, through experience of life together and learning from one another and helping the other find the missing peices in them.

This is how I think it works, you learn of yourself through learning about another, and trying to help them. But the parts of yourself you think are missing, or that you dont understand, they are within you.

Some decide to learn of themselves through interaction with the divine, others, through interaction with people, and hopefully a soulmate. I guess it depends on what your cup o tea is.


Evangel
I will wake up tired from dreaming, its like your body is rested but YOU are not.

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There are, actually, just not in English... That's one of the beauties of being able to speak other languages -you see reality from different facets.

Greek breaks love down into four types:
storge (stor-gay) = affectionate love
filio (filayo) = brotherly/familial love
eros = sensual/sexual love
agape (agapay) = unconditional love

hmmm deep

I like that Chi thing serinth, have you ever been able to move objects with your mind...... J/K But for real, like say i wanted to Dreamscape in a Friends dream. Do I kind of concentrated and connect with there chi, or kind of focus on there physical descriptions.

Shawndow: I'm not married. :P
Evangel: That is awesome! For some reason, I'm horrid at being able to learn and retain languages other than English, but I try anyway. It's interesting that the Greek language has multiple words for love, yet English has only one. I'll have to do some reading on that and other languages. Thanks! :)

I`m sorry to buz in here(and I`m not a LD also) but...

I had about 2 or more dreams in which I think I was kinda of lucid but... I felt I had no way of getting out and it was very frustating . In the first dream of this nature which I recall exactly I was accepting every method indicateed by the "dream people"->one said that you must take a haircut in order to get out(I don`t think It was related to me not having one) and in some other dream I felt very frustrated and stole a car from a shop(or something like that) and ran away .

I also have some dreams in which everything fades and I become some sort lucid but... I can`t move->I feel myself inside the bed, paralyzed, and with eyes closed and I can`t open them nor move myself.. and sometimes I can hear mother....

For this things I developed a trick, actually its vibration of the head. First a lower intensity and then a higher one and... everytime I use that I get out of the dream instantly and open my eyes .

Oh yeh Cippboy It's called Sleep Paralysis , look it up here under a topic, or some where else

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How about we all meet at the next Raelian outing?

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Evangel: That is awesome! For some reason, I'm horrid at being able to learn and retain languages other than English, but I try anyway. It's interesting that the Greek language has multiple words for love, yet English has only one. I'll have to do some reading on that and other languages. Thanks! :)

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I'm not that good at retaining other languages either. I know a little bit of Spanish, bits and pieces of Fijian (my mother's tongue) and a little bit of Hebrew. Becasue of my interest in the Bible, I have also have an interest in Hebrew and Greek... Music and mathematics also fascinate me although I never took courses past pre-calc! I think many other languages also have a wider understanding of love because they have more words that describe or allude to it...

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Evangel
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This is kinda late, but...

Yeah, I hear ya. I have woken up several times after dreaming where my mind is laden with "stuff," while my body feels fine... There is a point where the mind can get stretched and warped to its limits and sometimes oblivion (as in sleep where you are not conscious) becomes a welcome reality.

Autistic people could just be the lucid dreamers of this world.

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There are, actually, just not in English... That's one of the beauties of being able to speak other languages -you see reality from different facets.

Greek breaks love down into four types:
storge (stor-gay) = affectionate love
filio (filayo) = brotherly/familial love
eros = sensual/sexual love
agape (agapay) = unconditional love

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The Greeks also thought that there were only five elements too...

umm there are =)
Yeah they forgot some
Earth air fire water spirit light and dark.
they were close only off by two :D

Nope, everything in the universe is energy. :)
Quarks, gluons, muons, etc. are just quantum wave fluctuations in the local energy field.

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I think the reason why a lot of people get confused and disheartened in love relationships is because they simply apply the term "love" and thus misunderstand the subtle differences between the different types of love...

I thought about that today, and I remembered that alpha radiation happens without a large amount of energy given off.

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