Dreaming of my dead dad

So my dad died 4 yrs ago by killing himself. I loved him more than word can explain. He was my rock, my hero! I was devastated by his death, he killed himself over drugs but was clean at the time of his suicide. He had 2 kids. He was goregous && the best dad ever!!! I Guess I have a few questions.

1) why do I only dream about him on occasion? Not often?
2) why do I dream of him?
3) and In my dreams all I can do is look at him, hug, kiss, && just be by him as much as possible??

Is there a message to be seen here? Is there a reason I see him?

Hi there my friend,
First of all, sorry about what happened to your dad. Anyways, I'm more than happy to answer your questions. So here it goes:

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1) why do I only dream about him on occasion? Not often?

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The things you experience and see in a dream are random. You see here, when a person dreams, past memories and memorable moments clash with each other thus resulting to the formation of dreams. So you can't really have a dream that has the same subject over and over again. But, if you focus enough and order yourself to dream a specific object, then you might just be able to dream that certain object.

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2) why do I dream of him?

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I think the answer here is clear: Since your dad is one of the most important person to you, You're subconscious is trying to emulate the days where your dad was still alive.

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3) and In my dreams all I can do is look at him, hug, kiss, && just be by him as much as possible??

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You can probably do those things as long as you want. But remember that there's so much more that you can do inside a dream like flying, teleporting and the like. Or if you want, you can travel with your dad and do all sort of fun stuff :D

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Is there a message to be seen here? Is there a reason I see him?

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Like what I've said, your subconscious is trying to revive him through your dreams.

Hope this helps and feel free to ask more questions :)