Hey, so basically up to now i have had 2 lucid dreams in the last month, these are my first at for some reason i have noted 2 similarities in both of them, the way i become lucid. I'm not very sure why but for some reason I cannot become lucid through VILD or an in-dream reality check or something.
Basically both time i have become lucid the same way. I basically see all black, then I remember that I am dreaming and "Dream Spin", I'm not really sure why but I dream spin without actually seeing something. Then after a little while the dream becomes bright and there I am. Also I have noted that every time i do do an In dream reality check my watch is always forwarded about 3-4 minutes on the second look.
Does anybody have any ways for me to remember what I want to do in a Lucid Dream? Since I get them very sparingly I ALWAYS forget what I want to do so I'm a bit disappointed when i wake up. Especially since I usually have some kind of interruption(I.E. Parents woke up, had to go to the bathroom :( )
That is about all I have to say, also could anybody give me any tips about remembering Lucid Dreams?
Thanks in advance.
EDIT: Also when I am in a dream I always forget what just happened in my dream and it leads to some odd experiences that I can't even remember when I am awake, so is there a way to increase in-dream memory?