so confuesed

hi all im new to this site and i would like some advise or a meaning to my dream i had it was very strange


it felt like a short dream but long enough to get me thinking about it and maybe find out a meaning i was at my boyfriends brothers house with my boyfriend and we where waiting for a lift back home by my brother-inlaw to be girlfriend but they where in such a rush they left me behind, my brother-inlaw to be was upstairs doing some DIY and i walked into the room where he was and told him what happened we had a laugh about it an got chatting (as u do) and the next thing i know we were kissing! and 1 thing lead to another sparks flew between us! after we went to freshen up and i woke up! i have never thought of my brother-inlaw to be like that befor so why would i dream it?


i feel so confuesed :?

Why do we dream all of the other absurd things that we dream?

As long as your dreams don't reflect your waking behavior, I wouldn't worry about it. So you had a dream about kissing someone. It sounds like you're worried about not being true to your boyfriend, but luckily reality is not like dreams, and you'll be the one at the end of the day to decide if you ever do something like this.

I dont believe our sexual dreams really convey much about our subconsious sexual desires.
Ive had sex dreams where Ive had sex with objects, people i would NEVER have sex with (family) and even friends who i would never consider having sex with. (Please not by sex i mean anything sexual).

If they do convey our subconscious thoughts then I am one ****'ed up person, and i dont believe i am.

Our dreams serve as insights to our minds sometimes, but we must also realise that sometimes they can play on thoughts that might inhabit our subconscious.

Just elaborating on what Shift mentioned, i also believe that if you are subconsciously worrying about cheating on your boyfriend (or vice versa), your dreams may reflect so. They do not neccesarily mean you want to cheat.

Enjoy your dreams for what they are :)