Are you attracted to people more for looks or personality?
It's really hard for me to be attracted to a woman unless I know she's intelligent. I guess I can't really be attracted easily to a girl unless I know her, or at least have had a chat with her.
I guess when it came to the whole masculinity situation, I really fell off the boat with being attracted to girls easily. I always end up picking the nerdiest girls with the curly brown hair and the big glasses, or maybe the really short hair and best senses of humor.