I knew some girl that I thought I was in love with but instead I became close friends with her, which is much better in my opinion...
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I knew some girl that I thought I was in love with but instead I became close friends with her, which is much better in my opinion...
Yeah, my gf just broke up with me, the day before Valintines. :whyohwhy: She said she just wants to be friends. Now, in my opinion, thats the worst thing she could have said to me. I'd be happier if see cheated on me! Oh well, that was my seventh girl so I'm pretty used to it. Just another fish in the sea. *throws cast out and waits*
...she told me you brought it up first, Will.Quote:
Originally posted by will.i.am
Yeah, my gf just broke up with me, the day before Valintines. :whyohwhy: She said she just wants to be friends. Now, in my opinion, thats the worst thing she could have said to me. I'd be happier if see cheated on me! Oh well, that was my seventh girl so I'm pretty used to it. Just another fish in the sea. *throws cast out and waits*
I said to her that we should talk. So she came over and told me she'd be better off as friends. I agreed, we hugged and then I left.
I just love playing the blame game after brake ups. No really, thats all I look forward to :roll: :roll:
I'm not blaming you. She just said you suggested it and it was mutual. If it wasn't mutual, then fine, so be it. I am just saying what I heard and I wanted to know if that's the truth.
Alright, will, maybe you shouldn't 'cast your net back in the sea' because your obviously looking way too hard, your making the same mistake that i made. Stop looking, to put it metaphorically, take off your glasses, and if someone really thinks your worth their time, and you thiers they will make it obvious...so wait until you KNOW its the right time. Right when i stopped looking, something came my way that has changed my life.
Thank you Lowercase, you're right, that's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
Geez girls, even if they are interested in you all they'll do is get your attention and run away. Sorry if I'm a little bitter right now, having some girl problems of my own.
join the club man!
God girls are like cats, they'll run and get your attention and you'll be their puppets then they'll say stuff like oh I just want to be friends, or they'll say something like he's cute but i'll only go on one date with him. What's their problem anyway. Sorry for your troubles too man.
I don't get it either man. I see girls as houses, you're better of renting one. Less maintenance and when it gets to dirty, move into another.
They just don't want to be used. They would be nicer if more of us could get them off correctly.
I stopped looking for a girlfriend and now most of my friends(75%) are ladies.
Yeah, you got to find the right means of getting their attention, but not on a bated hook...make them want you, instead of them wanting you.Quote:
Originally posted by mynameisbob
God girls are like cats, they'll run and get your attention and you'll be their puppets then they'll say stuff like oh I just want to be friends, or they'll say something like he's cute but i'll only go on one date with him. What's their problem anyway. Sorry for your troubles too man.
Its the truth, stop looking so hard with your 'other heads' and just chill out. It will come! ;)
how are they like cats then I don't get it.Quote:
Originally posted by mynameisbob
God girls are like cats, they'll run and get your attention and you'll be their puppets then they'll say stuff like oh I just want to be friends, or they'll say something like he's cute but i'll only go on one date with him. What's their problem anyway. Sorry for your troubles too man.
Same here, I'm like WTF???
...no wonder she dumped you.Quote:
Originally posted by will.i.am
I don't get it either man. I see girls as houses, you're better of renting one. Less maintenance and when it gets to dirty, move into another.
well I don't know where to start...
I want to be as realistic as possible. I agree you shouldn't have to change yourself for someone else, but seriously, is pride in who you are suddenly going to wash away your feelings and make them "not worth it" if they don't like you for you? To be honest, I don't seem to experience the cliche problems of things like "Sk8ter Boi." With me, it's more or less beyond any other situations anyone has ever shared with me...for instance:
Recently I've been talking with this girl for a couple months. Before that though, I had no interest in her whatsoever, I scarcely knew she existed and I wanted nothing to do with her. Her friends began talking to me first, but they made it clear for my benefit, that they were buttering me up. Alright... But then came a twist! Her friend started warning me that this girl was only playing a trick on me...a mean trick! - She was going to get as close to me as possible, then have nothing more to do with me! (partially to help the other friend figure something out about me that I won't get into) She did indeed pay me noticeable attention. We went to a dance together and made plans on a couple weekends and everything (though one weekend she couldn't go)...I was trying to keep a distant perspective so as to not be tricked, but I couldn't help falling for her...
Then things suddenly took a turn for the worse. Some other guy started coming around, they were all buddy, buddy, but I wasn't worried so fast. In the interest of those reading, I'll just say that she now claims to have "been in the dark about how I felt about her" Of course, that was after I told her the exact same thing. But, hmm, does anyone see any unclear actions on my part? I sure don't. She on the other hand, may have been equally affectionate at one point, but the fact is I was trying to protect myself during that spell...and I explained that to her.
So to conclude, it took her no more than one week to drop me ("one of the most wonderful people she's ever known") for some other guy.
This is why I don't like girls. They are mean. I wanted nothing to do with her until she and her friends dragged me into all this - then SHE has the nerve to turn her cheek...I'm sorry, but one week of "being in the dark" about how someone feels about you isn't your cue to run away. I was clearly affection, only distanced by my caution toward her supposed "trick", which she denies. Oh and for the record, she and I had several long conversations in which we found a lot of common interests - one of them being a dislike for others who don't take time to get to know someone....hypocrite....
new use for http://ratemykitten.com? I think so!
i always call my gf kitty...
see, but thats not always true with all girls...you guys have to remember not to put stereotypes on girls...there are just as many girls that are like that as there are guys that do stuff like that...date em and leave em real quick...each person is a person in their own regard, regardless of whats goin on between their legs. judge a person as a person...
mas o menos.
:rolllaugh: I was hoping you would read that.Quote:
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I don't get it either man. I see girls as houses, you're better of renting one. Less maintenance and when it gets to dirty, move into another.
Will you are a crack whore... and i think that pissing off my fiance is not a smart thing to do...I speak from personal expiriance.
on the topic
hey man i would just ask her on a date. ACTUALLY SAY "DO YOU WANNA GO OUT ON A DATE SOMETIME?" or something that obvious. you cant ruin anything by telling someone your interested in them, theres nothing to lose.
hehehe i already have my beautifull blue eyed blond :D I love you Boo!
OMG :o Im going to ask her. This is because
reason A:Two of the most popular guys in school are telling me to go for it(wierd this is, I never told anyone I like her)
reason B:My friends say I'll chicken out :angry:
reason C:I really like her and why not ask her out as soon as I can. :wink:
That being said, I still don't know if I can do it. I was going to do it today and wasted 45 mins. psyching myself up and still chickened out. :roll:
God Give me strength!! :help:
alright. but please, don't get your hopes up too high. there are more important things in life anyway and...I don't want you to feel hurt.