What do you consider "cheating"?
What is your definition of cheating? I think it depends upon your specific relationship, so, how do you both come up with the definition? Is your definition the same as your mate's? What if it isn't and the betrayed person never gets justfication/redemption for their feelings from their mate? Once you figure it out and agree that there has been infidelity, what then? If you remain in the relationship, how do you get the trust back? Or do you ever get the trust back?
I had met what seemed to be a really amazing guy, until I heard his views on sex and relationships. I guess you could say hes more "open" and less jealous. Basically meaning, he doesn't think it's a big deal if people kiss or whatever if it has no emotional attachment. I didn't like the sound of that at all. Not to mention he is also a massage therapist, and the idea of him rubbing his hands all over some chick's body turns me off, (if I were to be in a relationship with him) even if it was "professional". Technically, it's not cheating since he's doing his job, but if he wasn't doing it for work, giving someone a body massage (with only underwear on) would be crossing the line in my book.