Cheating on your partner...

Possibly the strangest way i have ever become lucid...

Ok im on an aeroplane and this stewardess woman is threatening me saying that i must have sex with her unless i would be chucked off the plane. I was then in a moral dilemma as i did not want to cheat on my girlfriend (in waking life) at which point i said 'it doesnt matter, it wont count as cheating as i am only dreaming'

It was at this point that i became lucid

Reckon it counts as cheating if i sleep with the DC? lol :P

Ever had a DC help you out so that you realise your dreaming?

Yes - happened to me last night sort of... I met an old friend in my dream (that I don't see anymore) and she sort of told me that I was dreaming, so I thought 'I must not wake up, I must stay in the dream because if I wake up I won't see her again!' so I stayed in the dream and spoke to her about a few things before I woke up.

That was the first time I have ever had control in my dream and it felt really strange. I kept slipping in and out of lucidity but I knew I was dreaming when I made the concsious decision to stay in the dream and control it!

It probably is cheating if you do sleep with the DC by choice :( sorry!

I've always thought isnt having sex with a DC having sex with ur self lol?

I have no idea if it's any DC to get in there if you don't got smiliar scenario before.
I got a dream like this last night to were i had to cheat on my GF, which i hated so much i began to sweat and woke up instead. Worst nightmare ever!!!
Yeah, kind of like her ^_^

I wouldn't count that as cheating. Haha, yeah both of the recent LD's I have had I got lucid because a DC was either talking about lucid dreaming or I asked them if I were dreaming and they said yes.

I actually have this happen all the time.

I get preocupied with the dilemma, and don't think to do a RC. So, once I wake up or escape the situation, not only did I miss out on a possible LD, I also missed out on some killer sex.

my definition of cheating is like a mutual relationship whether its sexual or just dating while with someone. a multiple relationship.

so since the DC isnt real, i don't think i wuld call it cheating unless it was like one of those weird shared-dream things w.your partner. but i wuld take into consideration of whether or not you are really happy or more positively, something just needs to be updated.

i had a dream that someone was tryin to get me to cheat on my girlfriend in her own house. i didnt do it but i had another dream that i looked at pornography w.my friends which i wuldnt do in real life but even that i wuldnt consider cheating.

i hope this was helpful.

Basically sex w/ a DC is hands-free masturbation. I would only count it as cheating if you became so preocupied with a DC you had screwed that you lost intrest in your waking life lover.

i wuld actually suggest that if you were lucid, that you wuld demand to have sex w.your real girlfriend. even change the scenery. hell if you were on a plain, have hot steamy sex with your girlfriend while skydiving or something. thats more than the mile high club deal ;)

I'd say that it isn't cheating to have sex in a dream, because it's nothing more than mental masturbation... seriously.

((Just read the posts... Seeker beat me too it.))

It's just having sex with your own mind. In a dream, you are just an avatar of your conciousness and every DC is still 'you.' Just another manifestation.