Thread: Cheating on your partner...

Yes - happened to me last night sort of... I met an old friend in my dream (that I don't see anymore) and she sort of told me that I was dreaming, so I thought 'I must not wake up, I must stay in the dream because if I wake up I won't see her again!' so I stayed in the dream and spoke to her about a few things before I woke up.

That was the first time I have ever had control in my dream and it felt really strange. I kept slipping in and out of lucidity but I knew I was dreaming when I made the concsious decision to stay in the dream and control it!

It probably is cheating if you do sleep with the DC by choice sorry!

I've always thought isnt having sex with a DC having sex with ur self lol?

I have no idea if it's any DC to get in there if you don't got smiliar scenario before.
I got a dream like this last night to were i had to cheat on my GF, which i hated so much i began to sweat and woke up instead. Worst nightmare ever!!!
Yeah, kind of like her ^_^

I wouldn't count that as cheating. Haha, yeah both of the recent LD's I have had I got lucid because a DC was either talking about lucid dreaming or I asked them if I were dreaming and they said yes.

I actually have this happen all the time.

I get preocupied with the dilemma, and don't think to do a RC. So, once I wake up or escape the situation, not only did I miss out on a possible LD, I also missed out on some killer sex.

my definition of cheating is like a mutual relationship whether its sexual or just dating while with someone. a multiple relationship.

so since the DC isnt real, i don't think i wuld call it cheating unless it was like one of those weird shared-dream things w.your partner. but i wuld take into consideration of whether or not you are really happy or more positively, something just needs to be updated.

i had a dream that someone was tryin to get me to cheat on my girlfriend in her own house. i didnt do it but i had another dream that i looked at pornography w.my friends which i wuldnt do in real life but even that i wuldnt consider cheating.

i hope this was helpful.

Basically sex w/ a DC is hands-free masturbation. I would only count it as cheating if you became so preocupied with a DC you had screwed that you lost intrest in your waking life lover.

i wuld actually suggest that if you were lucid, that you wuld demand to have sex w.your real girlfriend. even change the scenery. hell if you were on a plain, have hot steamy sex with your girlfriend while skydiving or something. thats more than the mile high club deal

I'd say that it isn't cheating to have sex in a dream, because it's nothing more than mental masturbation... seriously.

((Just read the posts... Seeker beat me too it.))

It's just having sex with your own mind. In a dream, you are just an avatar of your conciousness and every DC is still 'you.' Just another manifestation.