Re: WARNING: This experiment may cause temporary madness.
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Originally posted by loose id
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The next part in this phase is what will make or break most people. No orgasm. That means no sex and no masturbation. This is perhaps the hardest, but I have found to be the most beneficial. I have on several occasions tried to see how long I could go without an orgasm. My longest thus far is twenty-eight days. However, after day fourteen I noticed a remarkable increase in my physical energy, dream recall, creative abilities, and emotional stability. Granted, for the first week I was a wreck, I noticed a fluidity in my mind and body I have never had before after that. For those of you with significant others I don't really know what to say. Its a personal sacrifice for your individual growth, and I hope that you and your partner both see it that way. Maybe it would be a test of what type of relationship you really have. For others, this won't be nearly as hard as I make it out to be.
I don't know about this one. If you are used to having orgasms, and you just "stop", you will only dam up energy that will leak out some other way.
To stop having orgasms you have to have a certain state of mind.
Priests and monks (not only here in the west) have been trying to quit the orgasms for centuries, and not many have truly succeded, and there is a reason for that.
I have also tried to quit the orgasms, but I found that it was too much of a hassle.
After a while, you spend more energy and attention on the effort of not having an orgasm, than you win on not having orgasms.
It's true, orgasms seems to be the largest waste-channel of energy of man-kind. But, you can't just "switch it off" and presume that you can direct this energy to the activites you specify. You need training to do that sort of thing.
I have found that it is enough to lower the frequency of the orgasms to a level you think is approriate.
To think of quitting orgasms as a "personal sacrifice" is pure folly to me. The spiritual road is a very long one and it's supposed to be a joyous experience. When you get to the level when ceasing your sexual activites is a must to continue, then it will not seem like a "personal sacrifice", at all.
As long as we are humans, we are sexual beings.
Also, I would like to point out, that ceasing your sexual activities or lowering the frequency of them severely may cause depression in the long run.
It is not only something that I have noticed on myself, but it is also indicated in the psychological field. Depressed patients does not jerk off, and as they go deeper into their depressions, so does the frequency of their orgasms get lower.
But, if you've found a way to govern your sexual energies, please tell me. :)