Lucid Sex Tutorial

Written by ninja9578

Lucid Sex

Many people use lucid dreaming as a sexual playground. The surreal nature of dreams, combined with the overwhelming influence of the id produce a realm that is often extremely sexual. The urge to perform sexual acts in lucid dreams is often quite strong.

Finding a Sexual Partner.

Once you become lucid and have the urge to do something sexual, the first obvious step is to find a partner. If there are lots of people around, this part is easy. Simply pick the one that you find the most appealing and start the deed. If there are few or no people around, this becomes a little trickier. If you are in the middle of no where, it’s recommended to dream-spin, teleport, or fly to somewhere where there are more people.

If you are in a place where people usually are, the only thing that you can do other than simply summoning someone, is to search. Open doors and eventually, you will find someone fitting for lucid sex.

Dream characters rarely put up any kind of fight, but if they do, usually light foreplay helps this. This is because when you are normally performing foreplay, both you and your partner are already in the mood, and this predisposition will translate into your dream character’s actions. You can read the Dream Content Tutorial for further explanation of how this works.

Maintaining Lucidity.

How to perform sex is not the purpose of this tutorial, if you don’t know how, then read up on sexual education. There are certain things that are recommended for lucid sex though. Dreams tend to fade when you start to focus on one thing too much, or when your heart rate and adrenaline levels increase, so one must be aware of this while performing lucid sex.

It is recommended that you keep in touch with tactile sensations in places other than your sexual organs. This keeps the dream feeling real.

It is also recommended to not close your eyes or bury your face in your partner or bed as you normally would. Since human beings are largely visual animals, once vision is lost, the brain doesn’t have enough information to keep the dream going, so you may wake up. Look around the room, keep an eye on your surroundings. Usually the first signs of dream destabilization is the setting constantly changing and loosing focus. If you can catch this early, then it’s easy enough to fix by reasserting yourself in your setting.

Climax.

Many people seem to have trouble orgasming in their dreams. This is logical, as during orgasm your heart rate and adrenaline levels both skyrocket. The key is to remain calm, put yourself in sort of a trance. Practicing tantric meditation will help with this.
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Wet Dreams (men)

For males, one of the most common fears of climax during a sex dream, is the dreaded stickiness of waking up to a wet dream. This is most common among adolescents, but can happen to anyone, however it’s less common in late teens and beyond. Wet dreams, are usually not the result of a climax in a dream, although your mind may produce one while dreaming to fit the sensation with the dream, but is more due to the buildup of semen. Regular sex or masturbation should prevent most wet dreams from occurring.

Other Useful Links.

How to avoid sexual distractions [TUT] - ninja9578
Tantric (Sexual) Meditation Tutorial - ninja9578