tell me about love.

**epicdreamer371** · 08-01-2009 02:11 PM

can you fall in love at any age?
what are your thoughts?
even 15?
what's the difference between 15 and 30?
i mean yeah i get it more experience but what if you find that person at 15.
I mean when did love start at a certain age?
why is it that its become like a new law ? like having sex at 16?
My friends don't believe in love at 15? one of them said
"16 17 yeah but not 15"
what if i said i think i'm falling in love?
how is anyone sure?

i know i love him and i want to spend each moment with him.
i spend every night awake wanting him by my side and having his arms around me. and i spend every moment nearly dreaming of him too?
i mean if someone asked me why i loved him i wouldn't be able to tell them its just so ahh!

it's the most unreal feeling but is it possible at 15?
i rarely even look at other guys i just don't like it anymore cause i can only think of him.

But seriously why has falling in love with someone become a certain age?

**slayer** · 08-01-2009 02:18 PM

I think it might have to do with that when you're young, it's just your hormones going crazy...

I can't really say I've been in love with anyone...

I think it's totally alright to love someone at any age...just don't give yourself to that person until you're older and really think you're ready.

**epicdreamer371** · 08-01-2009 02:21 PM

Originally Posted by slayer

I think it might have to do with that when you're young, it's just your hormones going crazy...

I can't really say I've been in love with anyone...

I think it's totally alright to love someone at any age...just don't give yourself to that person until you're older and really think you're ready.

i agree with the last sentence and i will take that in mind.
thanks

**Zhaylin** · 08-01-2009 02:22 PM

Love is possible at any age, but there are different forms of love and different stages.
It's unwise for teenagers to act on their feelings because they're still growing and developing into the person they will yet become. They're more impulsive, more hormonal (lol), more easily confused and more fragile.

Infatuation and "puppy love" are still LOVE. The feelings are just as intense, but it tends to be more short lived. LASTING love, ENDURING love comes with age and maturity. Even the most mature teen in the world wont be the same person in a few years. Hormones balance out, you obtain more clarity of thought, you're not as impulsive etc. It's amazing what a few years can do.
And remember- these things are happening with the person you like as well (if he's not already an adult).

**epicdreamer371** · 08-01-2009 02:29 PM

hmm...
i understand all the hormones and crap.
and he's the same age lol.
i believe you can fall in love at any age maybe and the lasting love later in life.
But I'm sick of people telling me i cant fall in love at 15 its impossible when i know it isn't.
well i guess it all kinda depends on what your belifs are too.
I've had feelings for this guy for a year and 7 months now ( btw we are in a relationship) and the past 2 or 3 months I've been thinking about it a lot.
the feeling is way to unreal to be just described as hardly anything.
i mean this feeling will grow more and more later i know but i might be in the early stages of falling in love.
thanks for the comments

**Everlong** · 08-01-2009 02:32 PM

Well, I was once 15... (I'm 16 now, but anyways). I felt the same way about a girl when I was 15. I loved her so much, until I realised that she had changed from the person that I did love unfortunately, and I dropped my love for her like a bag of s**t.

**epicdreamer371** · 08-01-2009 02:35 PM

Lovely.

**Zhaylin** · 08-01-2009 10:23 PM

ROFL.
Everlong seems to be an exact case in point when it comes to relationships changing with time

Change is an inevitable part of growth and sometimes two people grow in different directions.
Another possibility is that two people may fall in love young and devote their lives to one another, but as they grow up and mature they come to resent each other (if only on a subconsious level).

There ARE happy endings for some who fall in love young- they're just extremely rare and hard to find.

**no-Name** · 08-02-2009 06:21 AM

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

Love exists, and shouldn't be defined by another person. Not even me. So ignore this post, and do what you want god dammit.

**epicdreamer371** · 08-02-2009 07:10 AM

thanks no name i agree.
Thanks for the comments guys.
I mean loves unpredictable right?
Epic.

**baronbrocoli** · 08-02-2009 08:11 AM

Loving is living

**CoLd BlooDed** · 08-03-2009 06:55 AM

All you need is love.

**Jeff777** · 08-03-2009 08:41 AM

Love is giving someone the power to break your heart but trusting them not to. =/

**anUNFAITHFULLangel** · 08-03-2009 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by Jeff777

Love is giving someone the power to break your heart but trusting them not to. =/

A wise man said that.

Love is something intangeable yet within our grasp at the same time. It is one of the strongest emotions we can feel and it can be consuming, lasting couples for years and years, or as brief and fleeting as eyes meeting from across the room.

**Invader** · 08-03-2009 09:17 AM

Love binds, Love blinds, and opens the way to obsession and pain.

**Swing on This** · 08-03-2009 09:41 AM

I just realized,that all that I have ever loved,and now don't anymore,was because they changed.

**epicdreamer371** · 08-04-2009 02:18 AM

Woah thanks for the comments guys!
appreciate it heaps!

**grasshoppa** · 08-04-2009 05:53 AM

Originally Posted by Jeff777

Love is giving someone the power to break your heart but trusting them not to. =/

tell me about plagiarism...

edit: or just tell me who said that?

**baronbrocoli** · 08-10-2009 06:26 AM

Can't buy me love - The Beatles

**packmania** · 08-15-2009 04:31 AM

Love is complicated.

**Carôusoul** · 08-15-2009 06:10 AM

a series of tubes

**ExoByte** · 08-15-2009 06:39 AM

Love is overrated.

**MSG** · 08-16-2009 09:32 PM

Someone I am very close with fell in love with someone at 14, their relationship carried through the years, and they wound up marrying and all that jazz. After about 25 years, though, it just wasn't the same and they split up. It's been years since the divorce and neither of them are over it. Not to crush your dreams lol, I'm just saying anything can happen.

Just take it slow and enjoy spending time with your loved one. Also, don't be afraid to make sex wait.

**Ynot** · 08-16-2009 09:37 PM

"Love is a device invented by bank managers to make us overdrawn" -- Arnold J. Rimmer

**khh** · 08-16-2009 10:23 PM

It's certainly possible to love at the age of 15, but the chanses that it'll last are very remote. Enjoy it while it's there, and if it stops then you still have the good memories.

Originally Posted by no-Name

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

You a Magnet fan?