I run a local message board for moms of babies under 3 years. Recently we've had some drama. (Not unusual for a message board, but more difficult when it's between women that you've been seeing as "friends" on a regular basis.)

My arch nemesis on the board (come on, we all have one, even the board owner, although you have to remain tactful) suddenly started her own "secret" message board and privately invited other members to join it, including two of my moderators who *did* sign up, unbeknownst to me. (I found out when the two fessed up about a month after signing up.)

I'd love any advice regarding this, or any advice at all regarding running a message board.

Thanks!

ETA: I have no problem with my mods being on the other board, the secrecy was what bugged me....