When I am in a dream and become lucid I do try to rub my hands or say something but every time I become lucid I very quickly basically become completely paralyzed and always fall on my back (time slows down for this btw) as this is happening my vision blacks out. i am guessing that is cause I sleep on my back. Is the problem that i try for to much power or completely thinking I control everything too much stimulation? should I at first just try to stand around. (one of the other almost insta-dream-kills is seeing the sky for some reason) So what should I do.