Thread: No longer driven...

Maby it is time to take a break. Everyone says its easier on a break.

practice, guess. after the first one i got too confident and had a dry streak.

a) switch methods (may help you find confidence)

b) work out all the things you really want to try in dreams

your last sentence is a little confusing

"So can anyone help me to a better lucid, and having the drive to get there?"

you want help...so evidently you must want to LD....so therefore you already have the drive!

have a few days off, get some good recall up and then try something new!

Don't worry too much about getting LD's, some days you'll want one, other days you have more important things. DILDs aren't something that you have to worry about until you're sleeping, or at least in bed. Just take a few seconds and think about LDs just to get the idea in your head and then forget about it. LDs happen on their own so don't worry about them. On the upside, if you don't care then if you get one you won't get excited which usually causes you to wake up, so you'll have better LDs.

If you wake up remembering a fantastic dream but choose to ignore it because it's not "getting you anywhere," then you're right in saying that you're on the wrong track. When any part of the dreaming process stops being a pleasure in its own right to do, to have, and to reflect upon, when it becomes some hollow means to another hypothetical end you don't have yet, then you've lost the game. If you stop stressing out and choose to cherish every little bit of every little dream you have, lucid or nonlucid, vivid or nonvivid, consequential or not, chances are your deeper self will take notice and start giving you more of the same, more often and with better clarity. And even if it doesn't, appreciating what you can get, however trifling, is still better by far than disregarding anything that fails to meet your expectations.

If you are giving up after having a single LD, you certainly need to reassess your goals.

Write down everything you want to accomplish in an LD. Not necessarily a single one, but a master list for future ones too. Flight, telekinesis, write it all down, priotitize. Figure out just what you'll be doing tonight.

After that, take a week off. Do RCs or not, your choice. You can either write them down or not, but at least try to recall your dreams. In a week, start back with full DJing and everything.

Happy Lucidity, my friend.

very true Spamtek!

Maybe look through the dream Journals for some really fun Lucids to inspire you as well.

I would say try GalantaMind or a similar product with galantamine. (I think Dreamamins and some others have the same active ingredient.) It has worked like a charm for me. It may bring you lucidity where other methods have failed.

My best advice would be to try different methods, and try more than one in a night.

Or read through the lucid experiences section, thats's what made me want to have one.

I took 500mg of B6 and was pirating with Captain Jack Sparrow at 5 am.
I didn't find this unusal to do an RC though.
Go figure.

Well, some of these might of helped, especially Spamteks. Unfortunately I don't really have access to, or even want to, take any sort of drugs just to make myself dream better o.O I have taken a couple breaks from this already, having heard that it does help sometimes, but still I've only ever had one lucid. And this lucid wasn't recently or anything, it was ages ago, when I first heard about lucid dreaming.

I guess I'll try harder to pay attention to what dreams I do have, and keep track of them, and just see what happens. Thanks to everyone who replyed.

jen i highly suggest not to stop trying u never know maybe the next time ull obatin lucidity everynihgt u never know , LD are an amazing feelings especially when u have OBE's hard work will pay off

Originally Posted by Caradon

very true Spamtek!

Maybe look through the dream Journals for some really fun Lucids to inspire you as well.

That's my advice too.