My boyfriend has been having really weird dreams, please help!

[jsuisplein]

My boyfriend has been having weird dreams, what do they mean and how can he get them to stop? He's been having dreams that I'm wearing a diaper. Last night, we were talking on the phone, and he had a stupid idea that he buys diapers, hides them in his closet, and then I put one on and see what happens. I, of course, told him no. This morning, he texted me and was freaking out, because he looked in his closet, and there was a package of diapers. He said he dreamt he walked to the store and bought them. He actually did. Why has he been having these dreams? How can he get them to stop? What will happen next?

[mariamay]

Can I ask...how long have you known this boyfriend ? ...could be he just bought the diapers like he said he would but don't wanna confess thats what happened. (so he pretents it happened in his sleep) Then next step for him would be to actually get you to put one on (even if you already said no to that) ...since he "unintentionally" got the diapers now anyway. Who knows....perhaps has a secret diaper fetish or something (hey you never know!)..... And as for your question, what will happen next ? You tell him to get rid of those diapers, thats what should happen next!

[jsuisplein]

He's been my boyfriend for almost 6 months. I'm scaaarrrreeed! I'll tell him to get rid of them.

[spaceexplorer]

I'd agree, I get the feeling he's using dreams as an excuse to try and lure you into some kind of fetish. All sounds really odd. Is his behaviour other than this normal? Maybe he's having some kind of issues? Best keep a watchful eye, just in case he needs help.

[mariamay]

6 months huh? just about the tinme it usually takes to get the rose-colored-glasses off.....and to see the real colors of your hearts desire. Next 6 months should be like a "test" time....where you decide if you like him for good AND bad sides.... Other than that I agree with Spaceexplorer. Keep a very watchful eye....for his sake and for yours....

[mariamay]

oh yeah ....and I hope he really did get rid of those things! Or at least give 'em to some friends with a baby or something :-)

[mrsnox]

I'd agree, I get the feeling he's using dreams as an excuse to try and lure you into some kind of fetish. All sounds really odd. Is his behaviour other than this normal? Maybe he's having some kind of issues? Best keep a watchful eye, just in case he needs help. Um, ITA!!! There is absolutely no way he purchased diapers in his sleep. He is not being honest with you. They also didn't mysteriously appear in his closet. Can I ask how old you are and how old he is? This story does not add up. Either BF is lying or the OP is making this all up. If this is true, I would end this relationship very swiftly!

[ClouD]

Um, ITA!!! There is absolutely no way he purchased diapers in his sleep. He is not being honest with you. They also didn't mysteriously appear in his closet. Can I ask how old you are and how old he is? This story does not add up. Either BF is lying or the OP is making this all up. If this is true, I would end this relationship very swiftly! It's not impossible that he bought diapers in his sleep, or even perhaps forgot buying them. I'd think both would imply some sort of disorder though. Personally, I'm more inclined to think it is a fetish he has, or that he's playing a joke on you.