recurring dream~id like to understand...

**Jade Sky** · 03-11-2005 07:33 AM

Ok this is about the 4th time ive had this dream sence the middle of february

Me and about 7 of my friends are heading out to a bar but as we go to enter a waitress comes out and says that we need to have a boy friend to enter. All my friends are allowed to enter and the waitress says that they can make an exception and lets me go in as well. When we get in the whole place is decorated in dark red, and we take a seat at a half booth half stool table and im the only on who sits in the booth and as i look at everyone i kind of feel small. We all start talkin about what im not sure but then one of my best guy friends who i really care for comes in and sits down a few tables away from us all by himself, with a newspapper and a pack of cigarets, and orders scotch. (in real life i know for a fact he does not smoke). After a while of talking I look over at him and then as the group if i should invite him over to come sit with us. But two of my friends say no right away and then get up and leave the room. So i ask again and no one else seems to have a problem with the idea so i get up and walk over to him. When i get there i see a pile of burning cigartes in the ash tray and one in his hand and his hand is covered in ash. I ask him to come sit with us and he yells no and looks really mad. So i walk back over to my friends and tell them that he said no. Then i look back over at him and he smiles at me.

It really creeps me out because i know he doesnt smoke in real life and i wana know what this all means so if anyone has any ideas please let me know. The dream is starting to scare me cause when he tells me no he yells it and looks so mad and hes never acted like that when ive been around him

hes always really happy

**bmx-life™** · 03-13-2005 01:37 AM

Maybe a part of you likes this guy, but you are not sure if your other mates will like it if you are with this guy. thats all i can think of for now. the part about the ash on the hand mmm sounds cool. Then having him smile at you at the end also cool. maybe you should confront your friend an talk bout stuff.

**ElijahJones** · 07-02-2005 10:33 AM

This was posted a few months ago has the dream stopped. Do you still see the person you mentioned in the dream?

**Leo Volont** · 07-02-2005 11:30 AM

Originally posted by Jade Sky
Ok this is about the 4th time ive had this dream sence the middle of february

Me and about 7 of my friends are heading out to a bar but as we go to enter a waitress comes out and says that we need to have a boy friend to enter. All my friends are allowed to enter and the waitress says that they can make an exception and lets me go in as well. When we get in the whole place is decorated in dark red, and we take a seat at a half booth half stool table and im the only on who sits in the booth and as i look at everyone i kind of feel small. We all start talkin about what im not sure but then one of my best guy friends who i really care for comes in and sits down a few tables away from us all by himself, with a newspapper and a pack of cigarets, and orders scotch. (in real life i know for a fact he does not smoke). After a while of talking I look over at him and then as the group if i should invite him over to come sit with us. But two of my friends say no right away and then get up and leave the room. So i ask again and no one else seems to have a problem with the idea so i get up and walk over to him. When i get there i see a pile of burning cigartes in the ash tray and one in his hand and his hand is covered in ash. I ask him to come sit with us and he yells no and looks really mad. So i walk back over to my friends and tell them that he said no. Then i look back over at him and he smiles at me. *

It really creeps me out because i know he doesnt smoke in real life and i wana know what this all means so if anyone has any ideas please let me know. The dream is starting to scare me cause when he tells me no he yells it and looks so mad and hes never acted like that when ive been around him * * hes always really happy

Young men are quite still amorphous in their youth. You don't really know the Man by the Boy. What this dream is telling you is that this boy is in fact a bundle of damaged goods. Now, the disciplines imposed upon him by school, job, and home are keeping him fairly on the straight and narrow, but the cracks are already there, and the strains of life set loose addiction ailments and anger-control problems. What's more, he can sense this sub-surface problems, and your friends can sense those same concerns.