I think a lot of times we fulfill in our dreams what is emotionally impossible to fulfill in real life...since my boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago he is almost constantly in my dreams, but in very different ways depending on the dream. In fact, last night I had 2 dreams (1 before waking and then I fell back asleep). In the first we decide to get back together, we end up having sex, and then we cuddle--happy little idyllic dream. Then as the dream progresses people start trickling into the room, we start talking to them (like his roommate, then someone I knew from high school...) we start talking to them and stop talking to each other and then I woke up.

In the second dream, he posts on facebook that he misses me. Angry, I completely ignore him and vow never to respond.

My brain is confused, because half the dreams I have about him now pretend we are still together or reconciling, and the other half are bitter.

I also used to have frequent reconciliation dreams with one of my best friends from high school, after we had a fight and stopped talking to each other. They only stopped maybe a year after the fact. Now, if I encounter her in a dream, either she or both of us ignore each other.

Does anyone else here have a lot of recurring reconciliation dreams?