what do these mean

[dancingqueen87]

i have precognitive dreams every once in awhile and every time i do they come true in some form. ive noticed a pattern where its either every night for a couple days up to a week, or its every other night. Recently i had a dream about my ex (who i am still in love with and i think he still loves me) and it was so vivid it kind of scared me when i woke up. The dream was i was over at his house on a Friday night, we were watching a movie. i got a text from him that said after this scene meet me outside on the porch. i showed the text to my friend and she said go go go this is it this is what you've been waiting for. so i met him outside and i was shaking and i was nervous. he said you are going to want to sit down for this, so i did. he then said i dont want you back i need you back and it was a stupid mistake to leave you in the first place. please take me back your all ive ever wanted. he then said ill give you a minute to think about it, i know this is a lot to take in. i immediately got up and walked over to him with tears streaming down my face and i kissed him and said i love you. i could feel everything in this dream i mean it was like i was there. The next night i didnt have a dream meaning that my pattern was about to begin. which leads me to my next dream. i was outside and and my bestfriend were there and we were casually hanging out. all of a sudden he wraps his arm around me and pulled me closer, so i wrap both my arms around him and nuzzled into him. then we went roller skating and i was having trouble as i was used to ice skating, so he helped me. and we just had a great day. now heres what makes me think that its possible that this could happen. the same night i had my first vivid dream so did my best friend who was in the dream. she said that very same night she had a dream about he and i getting back together. after the dream i was feeling happy and lonely and i saw on his facebook that he was to. then the next day i had heard that he got a new number, also he wants to see me again soon. all of this leads me to believe that in the short amount of time between one vivd dream and the next that its possible this could come true. its possible that we could get back together and its possible that ill get his number. i came here looking for help though just any sign that this could be possible and that im not crazy and i know it sounds far fetched but if i could just get some insight that would be great. In real life he and i have been broken up for over a year but i see him quite frequently. i think we both want each other back considering he has held me twice and we act like we are still together sometimes, we also sit side by side like touching and everything. i don't have his number i wish i did. we also went out for 2 years and everybody i talk to says it sounds like he wants me back. so that's the story behind it if any of that helps at all. i don't know if it will

[shadowofwind]

Hello. I have had a large number of precognitive dreams, the vast majority of which have come true. But hopes and fears also come out in dreams, particularly romantic hopes and fears which are the strongest kind, so I don't think that you can expect that something will happen based on such a dream, even if it seems like the other dreams that come true. I have experienced this situation you are in, and its very hard on you. For myself, I've decided not to put myself through that again if I can avoid it. If it were me, I would just talk to him about your feelings and his feelings. If he's not comfortable with that, I don't see how you can make a relationship work anyway. Or if he is able to discuss those kinds of things, and he clarifies what his thoughts are in relation to you, that can help settle things for you, one way or another. Or if he just wants to leave things in limbo indefinitely, its pretty much hopeless anyway, because even if you were to draw him back into a relationship it couldn't last, and you'd get hurt more. Maybe a couple of other thing to keep in mind....love is a scary thing for a lot of people, particularly for young men, because a serious relationship can be a prison. So he may need some time and space in that regard. But you can't assume that just because he likes you or cares about you that there's any hope for a relationship. Love isn't an 'on' or 'off' thing like that. Many if not most men will continue to care for ex-girlfriends even if they have no interest in ever getting back together again. Also keep in mind that once they reach their late teens many if not most men will say or do practically anything for sex. Particularly if they're in between relationships with girls they're serious about, they'll find a girl they're less serious about and use them that way for a while. Most men will also do or say things they don't really mean for the attention of a girl because it feels pleasant. Some girls are like this too, and the ones that are can be even more easy-come-easy-go than the men. But a lot of girls, probably the majority, aren't like that, and tend to interpret the affection as meaning something that it doesn't mean to a man. One last thing....In my observation and experience, the boys that make you feel good by telling you what you hope to hear are often among the worst ones. They have that kind of comfort with words and gestures because they actually care about you very little, so there's no risk for them, and the truth is no obstacle. Boys that are verbally dismissive or abusive are bad news too. But the good ones will generally be a bit less charming and more awkward and shy because they're more honest, and won't tell you they love you unless they are ready for that and really mean it. But those boys should be able to talk about feelings and stuff also. I hope that helps a little.