Falling in love with a girl that got a crush

[Mask]

Hey. I use to have dreams about falling in love, and they feel glod (untill i wake up). But this night were different, I had a dream abou I fell in love with a girl, and we were talking etc. Suddely she had to leave, then she walked past, together with another boy and they were flirting. What does this mean? Please help. Regards Mask

[Scionox]

*moved to Dream Interpretation*

[VirtualReality]

Velkommen til Dreamviews! In order to find out what your dream "means" you need to look at the details that are not obvious. I could have had a dream more or less identical to yours and it could "mean" something completely different. For instance, did you know the girl or the boy? Have you had a similar experience recently in your waking life? Normally when dreaming of falling in love do you approach the girl or do you leave it at feelings? Perhaps the dream is a reminder that one thing is falling in love but if you never act on it then it amounts to nothing in the end. But without more details a more concrete analysis of this particular dream is more guessing, in my view objective dream symbolism is a complete myth. -VR

[Mask]

Tak! And , sorry, I wrote it in a hurry. So more details? Hm.. I can't remember much but let me try.. First it started at a class room I think, we talked about chili, she said she liked them, and I did too (like real life). Then we moved on to outside of the classroom and sat at some chairs, them we talked etc, that what happens when I have other falling in love dreams. We just having fun, falling in love etc, but suddely she standed up and walked away. She walked past later with a boy (He were from my old school), I didnt know the girl tho.. I felt sad, broken and mad at same time in the dream. Thats all, I could remember, hope it was enough info, if not, please ask me. Note: I had normal dreams about falling in love for about 2-3 years, sometimes I have them for 1 week in a row, sometimes 3 days in a row, thats very different. I just started to have them abit again. Basicly the dreams are about I talk with a girl, falling in love, talking, laughing and so on. This is the very first time I have a dream like I explained above.

[JoannaB]

How about other issues in your waking life lately? Have you been having any interpersonal issues with other people, not necessarily related to love? Any reason to be jealous of someone or something, again does not need to be love related - it could be about the emotion of "jealousy" for a different reason, so for example being jealous of someone else because they were more successful at something or had something you wanted. Also often in dreams of strangers, it might help to interpret different dream characters as aspects of one's own personality to see whether that helps one in interpreting the dream and understanding oneself better. So have you been of two minds about something lately? Or do you feel that you lost some kind of opportunity lately that you thought should have been yours? If you tell us a bit about what is on your mind in waking life lately, maybe we can find some kind of connection.

[Mask]

Well, I have never told this to anyone, but here we go.. I haven't been in school for like a month + the summer vacation, due we had to move to a whole new city. So, I haven't been speaking to a girl in the whole time that I haven't been in school. When you say lost.. Hmm, I kind of ''lost'' the girl I liked from the old school, don't know if it couod be related to that.

[VirtualReality]

It could very well be related to that. You "lost" the girl you liked to another guy from the old school in the dream. Remember that in the end it is only you who can properly interpret your own dream, but I would guess that this dream is a primarily a manifestation of frustration related to moving and depending on how much you cared for the girl you moved away from it could be taken either as a nudge to move on and accept the situation or perhaps as a reminder that unless you do something someone else is gonna get her.

[Mask]

Alrighty, thanks for your help guys, it realy means alot to me, thanks! I'm glad that you wanted to help me, I could never have figured that out myself.